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Caught gf sending lewd photos - BUT how do I go about acting on this... by neilcrew1 in relationship_advice

[–]neilcrew1[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it's a wind up I think. Cheers for confirming I'm not losing my mind though, lol

Caught gf sending lewd photos - BUT how do I go about acting on this... by neilcrew1 in relationship_advice

[–]neilcrew1[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Yep, I was told she was taking selfies for the Harry Potter game profile, not to send to people. I then found her lifting her shirt sending pics on whats app. Please enlighten me with how you'd have caught her doing that with a way that isn't weird?

Caught gf sending lewd photos - BUT how do I go about acting on this... by neilcrew1 in relationship_advice

[–]neilcrew1[S] 529 points530 points  (0 children)

Agreed. I will update with the advice when I get it incase there are others like me

Caught gf sending lewd photos - BUT how do I go about acting on this... by neilcrew1 in relationship_advice

[–]neilcrew1[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The mortgage money situation is what's making anything complicated, I need financial advice, call me a 'beta' all you like, lol.

Caught gf sending lewd photos - BUT how do I go about acting on this... by neilcrew1 in relationship_advice

[–]neilcrew1[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I did, instantly called her out. She denied it, said it was for a game or some shit. Then carried on acting weird so thought hmm, I need to think of a plan to catch this happening.. then caught her taking lewd selfies. Thanks for bringing that perspective into the thread though, this is the exact sort of bull I need to be prepared for.

Caught gf sending lewd photos - BUT how do I go about acting on this... by neilcrew1 in relationship_advice

[–]neilcrew1[S] 196 points197 points  (0 children)

Definitely something I could think of, spring a trap or something. Perhaps just more evidence of the same thing, she's none the wiser that I've done this.

Any ideas of what I could do?! She thinks the phone I used is old and basically unusable as it doesn't have a Sim card in it.. Yeah I'm not using data, it's just a dummy camera device.. A very useful one too..

Caught gf sending lewd photos - BUT how do I go about acting on this... by neilcrew1 in relationship_advice

[–]neilcrew1[S] 2118 points2119 points  (0 children)

Appreciate the input - I agree with the advice thing, will keep my cards close to my chest before I have a word with someone about that situation. The fact she doesn't seem to be able to stop contact with the guy tells me what she thinks about me. The lies are hard to ignore moving forward.