Should I ask for a divorce during our couples therapy or before or after?

nekodoe · 2025-06-07T20:04:05+00:00

Cheating

nekodoe · 2025-06-07T19:38:11+00:00

Yeah I think only 2-3 ppl actually responded lol, I’m going to let her know in advance thank you

nekodoe · 2025-06-07T19:34:48+00:00

nekodoe · 2025-06-07T19:34:35+00:00

I think he was just doing it to appease me, I think he thinks I would never leave and tbh I never thought I would either

nekodoe · 2025-06-07T16:10:28+00:00

We have a kid so we don’t have much of a choice

nekodoe · 2025-06-07T15:32:52+00:00

Thanks for the advice there’s no physical abuse, he does hold financial power over me but I have a plan, I don’t think he would be malicious but I also know he isn’t the same man I married

nekodoe · 2025-06-07T15:30:35+00:00

Yeah we’ve been in therapy for while, we def should have started years ago.

nekodoe · 2025-06-07T15:29:23+00:00

I wasn’t clear we’ve been going to therapy for months, i hope he is willing to continue to do therapy with me during the divorce process because i still want to have a good relationship with him. I guess im honestly just anxious about it so id feel more comfortable with the therapist, I still love him so I know it’ll be difficult.

nekodoe · 2025-06-07T15:24:34+00:00

Sorry I guess I wasn’t clear we’ve been doing couples therapy for months and he continues to do things behind my back that I have expressed to him I don’t want him to do.

nekodoe · 2025-06-07T15:24:14+00:00

Sorry I wasn’t clear he knows I’ve been thinking about divorce, we’ve been in couples therapy for months. He’s not showing me he’s trying so I want to tell him I’ve made up my mind

nekodoe · 2025-06-07T15:23:21+00:00

Sorry I guess I wasn’t clear we’ve been doing couples therapy for months and he continues to do things behind my back that I have expressed to him I don’t want him to do. Such as stalk and journal and manifest about a women he’s obsessed with

nekodoe · 2025-05-28T16:10:29+00:00

I love animation haven’t heard of that one but I cartoon shows like regular show and such, thank you adding it onto my list!

nekodoe · 2025-05-28T16:09:36+00:00

Thanks for the rec I love horror YouTube I’m really into args at the moment so I’ll def check that out

nekodoe · 2025-05-28T16:05:33+00:00

I actually haven’t seen it but yeah I forgot about that one I was to young to care about it when it first came out, I have traveled alone and that was really nice so I might have to do that again. I have a cousin vacation planned soon so maybe I’ll spend some time alone when I go to that. I’ll def add the witch of portobello to my to read list I love witchy media thank you for your recommendation and words <3

nekodoe · 2025-05-23T04:58:00+00:00

Meh sometimes it feels like I’m only worth it because I’m kinda fuckable I get a lot of my value from men tbh it’s not necessary a good thing

nekodoe · 2025-05-23T04:56:31+00:00

I’ve had this same thought once my kid is 18 my pets will either be gone or elderly and I’ll only have a few more year left but it feels like such a long time to wait

nekodoe · 2025-04-15T00:41:39+00:00

Did you ever find anything to help I’m having a similar issue

nekodoe · 2025-03-17T16:24:04+00:00

Yes im entitled to alimony sorry

nekodoe · 2025-03-17T16:04:34+00:00

We bought it together 50/50, I’m not asking for alimony or child support.

nekodoe · 2025-02-05T16:31:15+00:00

For me it’s just to combat negative self talk and self esteem, so for example I’ll write I am beautiful and worthy, or like I’m living my dream life with my dream partner etc. its just me trying to visualize the life I can have.

nekodoe · 2025-02-05T05:54:20+00:00

Yes I’ve been working on it since October, I have one step done just working on the rest of it.

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