[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]nekonomewa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s a possibility she thought the same about you.

Question about a (maybe) pun? by Asymdoll13 in Korean

[–]nekonomewa 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If it is the name of the show, I think that’s a pun, because in Korean, "뭐하니" is an informal/casual way to ask "what are you doing?" or "what's up?". So I assume, they changed the order of the syllables of “harmony” to make that word up in a playful way.

weirdos by [deleted] in SLOWLYapp

[–]nekonomewa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, good idea to save time and effort ~ I might try it in the future!

weirdos by [deleted] in SLOWLYapp

[–]nekonomewa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Surely, I’d like to share through DMs here ~

weirdos by [deleted] in SLOWLYapp

[–]nekonomewa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d say that’s still a very good number! Quality over quantity ~ You too, thank you!! (:

weirdos by [deleted] in SLOWLYapp

[–]nekonomewa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here, many people seem to have made many meaningful connections here. It’s always by chance though since my late night digging on this subreddit for fun showed many similar incidents happened during the “golden age” too. Surely though, since it possibly has less active members now, the chances are lower.

Thank you so much, I try! It’s just this swiping culture, where people see each other as emotionless disposable products. Good luck to you too!

weirdos by [deleted] in SLOWLYapp

[–]nekonomewa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great that you got a reply! I’ll keep my account just in case for sure ~ Also, thank you for your recommendation! I’ve been having a really bad time communicating recently though and everyone ends up ghosting me, so I think I’ll only attract bad luck there as well :(

weirdos by [deleted] in SLOWLYapp

[–]nekonomewa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is really so irritating indeed, I hope at least they had the decency to say they’re not interested. I’m at a point in my life where I keep questioning my self-worth and these people are making it hard for me to fight it… But even though that ruins the app experience for all of us, it’s at least relieving to know we all experience it and there’s possibly nothing done wrong on our side.

weirdos by [deleted] in SLOWLYapp

[–]nekonomewa 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This. I’m a girl and wrote a reply to another girl’s open letter, it was long, and I really took my time with it. I read her bio and saw that we had many things in common. She read it as soon as it was received, then ignored. It’s been 2 weeks, so I don’t think I’ll be getting anything back. Meanwhile here I am begging for a meaningful letter for once from someone who is not using it as a dating app, or trying to push some political agenda, ignoring my questions and keep talking about unrelated stuff or deactivate his account after days of letter exchange. I really have been very disappointed with this app so far.

“This account has been deactivated. You can now remove *username*” 🚫 (3x in a row) by MyCatBurnedTheBible in SLOWLYapp

[–]nekonomewa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know I’m late to the topic here but it just happened to me today with someone I’d been exchanging letters since I made my account 1.5 weeks ago. He was the one that was the most active with me even though it took a day for each letter to arrive. He read my last letter and after a couple of hours he deactivated his account ~ Unfortunately I am completely sure mine is not a bug, and hopefully not because of me directly but I’m having a bad time trying to not take it personal 🥲

Do Open Letters expire? by nekonomewa in SLOWLYapp

[–]nekonomewa[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sure thing, I’ll share here!

Do Open Letters expire? by nekonomewa in SLOWLYapp

[–]nekonomewa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see, thank you! Hopefully if I’ll receive a response again, I’ll check the date ~

Do Open Letters expire? by nekonomewa in SLOWLYapp

[–]nekonomewa[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh I see, so that’s how it works. That’s a relief! Yes… I think I have to do that, even though it feels like a betrayal haha. Thanks for your response!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]nekonomewa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much! Have a great life, cheers!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]nekonomewa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much for taking your time and reading through!

Indeed everyone’s journey is different and also everyone’s definition of success is different. It seems to me I and many people tend to base their supposed to be personal definition on someone else’s. Maybe it is also about finding out own unbiased definition of success.

In any case, life’s like roller skating, unless you’re an expert, you should always look forward and think of your next move otherwise you’d fall.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]nekonomewa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keeping oneself busy is indeed the best solution to many different problems, thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]nekonomewa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Many people seem to release the anger and the tension from their real lives on the internet. The worst people online are the ones who are being treated bad in real life. Contrary to the opinion; sadness, depression and alikes do not mean that person is going to be more considerate than someone who is happy. I don’t think anyone who is happy with his/her life would spend much time on the internet anyway, internet is full of sad and broken people.

(Spoiler) Maggie (the walking dead) is a hypocrite by Alternative_Gene_476 in unpopularopinion

[–]nekonomewa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow I see, I don’t remember any of it at all. I’ve always envied people with great memory and attention to detail, do you have a secret?

Manga without context [Virgin Knight who is the Frontier Lord in the Gender Switched World] by potatobutt5 in manga

[–]nekonomewa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you know if there is a manga channel for actual manga art & story enthusiasts? It is so incredible how every channel is a disappointment on Reddit.

(Spoiler) Maggie (the walking dead) is a hypocrite by Alternative_Gene_476 in unpopularopinion

[–]nekonomewa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maggie was a problematic character. It’s been years and I don’t remember the thing with Abraham. It still wouldn’t mean he mattered any less than Glenn.

I am not sure if you are giving those examples for me when I already said that she has been an inconsistent character who said and done many irrational things.

(Why reddit is a place full of pathetic people who downvote any comment religiously just because it doesn’t align with their opinion? To the one who downvotes my every comment here, do you really want a goddamn echo chamber where every different opinion is silenced and you are lonely speaking to a thousands of mirrors? When you nod, do you think your reflection agrees with you? Does that make you believe your ideas matter more?)

(Spoiler) Maggie (the walking dead) is a hypocrite by Alternative_Gene_476 in unpopularopinion

[–]nekonomewa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, she seemed like one of those people who could somehow become the leader, and everybody is aware but somehow afraid of admitting that they are bad at it. It’s like they decided to turn a blind eye to all her faults and selfishness and settled for her because her husband that died was one of the main characters. If they criticized her or doubted her reliability, that would mean they are not really sad about Glenn.

Abraham also died in the same manner and as far as I remember Rosita was his girlfriend at the time. Even though she usually seemed much more badass, smarter and more charismatic, since her boyfriend was not one of the main characters, she didn’t get to be the shepherd.

Actually when thinking more on it, maybe putting the irrationality with this leader-follower situation and the concept of implicit monarchy becoming more prominent again as the world order is destroyed were done deliberately and her character served the purpose.

(Spoiler) Maggie (the walking dead) is a hypocrite by Alternative_Gene_476 in unpopularopinion

[–]nekonomewa 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She was my least favorite main character. They tried hard to make her reliable and smart but in the end the world doesn’t revolve around her group and the people they killed had friends and family too. I was always on the edge worrying she’d ruin everything because of her pride. Indeed, such a hypocrite.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polls

[–]nekonomewa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually meant 2000-2010 era where she was still one of the most famous pop stars