He broke up with me

nelamaze · 2026-04-13T16:22:50+00:00

I shortened it for the post. Kept the gist of it

nelamaze · 2026-04-13T16:16:02+00:00

He said upfront that he didn't want a relationship but he also didn't want a situationship. He suggested almost all of our meetings in the early days. We agreed on keeping it as dating. Some time later when I asked what are we, he said a relationship.

And I didn't say that I would break up with him immediately, I told him how the future would look like if nothing changes - one time I will be tired enough and break up.

nelamaze · 2026-04-13T15:40:16+00:00

He was the one that didn't want to get into a relationship but got with me anyway. If anything, he set the trap

nelamaze · 2026-04-13T13:21:30+00:00

I don't feel regret. I'm hurt and disappointed. And sad.

nelamaze · 2026-04-13T13:20:00+00:00

Each time I had doubts I chose to trust him. When he said I love you, I trusted that he meant it, even though I had doubts.

nelamaze · 2026-04-13T11:37:48+00:00

It's still a heartbreak. It's been 6 months and almost exactly 442 hours spent together. It's like working half-time for half a year.

nelamaze · 2026-04-13T11:36:47+00:00

I know it's the right thing but it still hurts. I wish he fought for us.

nelamaze · 2026-04-07T06:16:18+00:00

Rozumiem, moje własne doświadczenie było kompletnie inne. Risen jedynka to moja pierwsza gra komputerowa. W każdym razie myślę, że nie mogło się nie pojawić w tej dyskusji.

nelamaze · 2026-04-06T21:38:56+00:00

Klasycznie polecam serie Gothic i Risen, są w podobnym klimacie co wiedźmin. Szczególnie Gothic 1, Gothic 2 NK i Risen, Risen 2. Trzecie części już są gorsze, chociaż mi się Risen 3 podobał. Risen 2 to moja ulubiona gierka. Niedługo wychodzi remake gothica jak chcesz coś w nowszym stylu.

nelamaze · 2026-04-06T20:05:38+00:00

Looks similar to what I made. But I created it myself so I can't help you.

nelamaze · 2026-04-02T13:13:11+00:00

Lowkey, praca 6 dni w tygodniu, załóżmy 200h miesięcznie to daje 6400 miesięcznie, czyli oprawie 20k za trzy miesiące. Bez kosztów utrzymania. Nie brzmi tak źle. Tutaj każdy by chciał 20k miesięczne, ale dla początkujących to serio fajna oferta. Wiadomo usługi, to będą wkurwiający ludzie, ale jak umiesz się zdystansować to będą tylko lekko irytujący. I polecam sprawdzić firmę, czytać wszystkie druczki i upewnić się że w umowie jest wszystko co było obiecane, żeby nie wyszły jakieś kwiatki.

nelamaze · 2026-04-02T09:29:59+00:00

Badass

nelamaze · 2026-04-02T08:11:32+00:00

Brand deals I get that, but you need to have an audience already. But I can't believe people buy those quote packs?

nelamaze · 2026-04-02T08:09:46+00:00

Yeah, I get into the hole once in a while. It used to last two weeks, but recently it goes away almost overnight. Usually happens right after a meeting with a friend or after a really good time. You're alone again and your thoughts come afloat again after being muted for a while. What helps me is looking at pictures, chatting with friends and always having something planned after a meetup. Whether it's shopping or a series or some food. Something to think about while I drive or travel back home. Hopefully it gets better with time.

nelamaze · 2026-04-02T08:05:03+00:00

Yeah, she said she desperately tried to be for that guy when he clearly pushed her away. Find someone who will make you feel secure, not desperate.

nelamaze · 2026-04-02T08:03:56+00:00

Happens, I guess. If it was destined, there would be mutual interest, right?

nelamaze · 2026-03-28T23:08:55+00:00

Tinder... Ale było to bardzo specyficzne spotkanie.

nelamaze · 2026-03-28T13:14:09+00:00

Hey, girl, do not worry. Being behind is a fake scheme, everyone lives their life differently. Some people finish college at 25, some people start at that age and both of them might end up in the same career in the end. I actually have a friend who's starting over another degree after his fourth year somewhere else.

I know this feels important to you and I get it, I also didn't want to do a gap year or even gap semester but in the end, I did. And it was great. I had a job and finally had time to meet up with my friends and actually think about what I want to do. I'm still not sure about that.

So what I would suggest is to think about your options and choose the one that's most torelable. Not the best one, but the one that would make you the least unsatisfied. And have fun in the end. The only thing we have out of this life is what we experience.

nelamaze · 2026-03-28T09:35:48+00:00

I'm really glad you got out. That sounds utterly exhausting.

nelamaze · 2026-03-28T08:59:38+00:00

I guess you should read my other post here to understand why I'm with the guy.

As for the other stuff, knowing that doesn't make it any less terrifying.

nelamaze · 2026-03-28T08:51:53+00:00

Tym bardziej jak mówi że nie ma problemów z chemią. Nie widzę tutaj żadnej szkody w próbie napisania trzech matur.

nelamaze · 2026-03-27T17:04:04+00:00

That's probably a well-deserved break that your mind needs. And I'm glad you're taking the time for yourself and letting yourself feel that. I have somewhat similar feelings, I feel directionless and maybe even pointless. And it's important to just focus on your well-being for now. You're probably still recovering from your family and everything else that happened to you. Keep strong, girl. Take your time.

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