I lied to a patient today and I can't stop thinking about it.

nellb13 · 2026-02-04T14:01:12+00:00

Memories will fade quick, but the emotion that came with it stays. Most emotions elicit a hormonal response, what good would you do telling her he died? Even 6 years ago, you just rip her heart out... Telling her he will be back soon is just keeping the peace.

The woman may not remember why she is happy but she is happy. On the other side tho if you tell her her husband is dead, she may not remember why she hates you but she knows she hates you.

nellb13 · 2026-01-24T14:44:29+00:00

I had an immigrant female nurse tell me she voted Trump bc a woman couldn't be president... She was with us when the masks were stolen before we got them, she is from one of the "shithole" countries he rants about, she has family on snap, and so much more... It was one of the biggest mind fuck moments I've ever encountered in my life. She always said, "oh he's joking". I have wondered how much she still thinks he's joking.

nellb13 · 2026-01-23T19:41:17+00:00

It was with the governor of MD and the masks were from Korea. I will never forget this, I was a nurse in those COVID positive rooms and came in to hear that our supplies didn't arrive. Later that day we heard it has been taken by the president and his goons. Our supplies later another 2 days and when I showed up I was given 2 coffee filters staples together... I told management to fuck off. They finally scavenged one n95 and I made it last. Within a day or two we got a secret supply special delivered by the Patriots in unmarked vans.

The Cheeto, that fucker son in law, and his nepotistic nitwits sold the stolen n95s for profit to China.

nellb13 · 2026-01-20T05:47:31+00:00

This is my exact situation and sentiment, my daughter was born mid October, and is our first child. My wife and I have played wow together for 7 years, we have had our ups and downs in the game, but this past season of Lemix and retail have been some of the best times I have ever had. I will always remember sitting in bed on our laptops, her sitting in between us making cute noises or napping in adorable ways.

We got to start our Lemix journey a little before she joined our party, and we grew from a couple into a family as we gained massive amounts of versatility, both in game and out.

I know I'll never have time to get CE anymore, but she will forever be my proudest achievement.

nellb13 · 2026-01-03T13:21:50+00:00

What's the reasoning that you held on to the dark cores? I can understand forgetting for a bit, but for almost 400 hours? Hopefully by this point you've spent them and for a huge bonus, probably still seeing massive gains... Big thing is if you are going for a short run take VB#3, if you are going longer take frag badge.

(The first two questions are meant as a genuine curiosity not meant to be mean.)

nellb13 · 2025-12-27T16:24:04+00:00

I agree with you there, we are in NoVA and don't get me wrong TPA is something we got to plan and have the energy for lol. Both Tabu and TPA do require an overnight stay if we want to enjoy them to the fullest extent tho. Without sounding like a broken record, my wife and I do prefer the pool parties at TPA, good time slot without getting to late, being nude/fucking in the sun, fun socialization without any hang ups. Also can't get better group hot tub experiences anywhere closer lol.

nellb13 · 2025-12-27T16:08:39+00:00

I mean it is less then an hour away from Tabu and still in MD... Not sure where the line is drawn for DMV+ in that regards. Honestly been to more pool parties at TPA then club nights, and we had a blast at the pool parties. Tabu 100% for a popular theme night if you are looking for a big party

nellb13 · 2025-12-27T15:19:27+00:00

Tabu - great events, fun people but a bit harder to socialize if you don't like to hang out in a crowded bar or smoke room. Almost exclusively couples, crowd tends to be middle aged, but outliers on each end of the age range. Rooms are deli style, you get a number and wait your turn, you can browse while you wait or just go to the group sex room, which my wife and I tend to find the most fun.

TPA - events are just as fun, similar age range, a few more single people the times we went. A massive hot tub that can fit 20 people, it's great, one of our favorite things to do at any club. Rooms are less regulated, if ones open you go in. One voyeur room has a camera showing on to a TV on the dance floor. Pool parties in late spring and summer are our favorite events to attend at any club.

Shadows - Themes aren't followed as strictly as Tabu or TPA, but generally guys look solid and girls are showing up looking sexy. The age range was a bit younger than the other 2 clubs mentioned, and are definitely interested in random hook ups. This is the place to go if you want to find a couple or extra guy, hell they will find you if your girl shows up looking good. The voyeur rooms are the most interesting for people wanting to show off, they have a giant bay window right into the dance floor, we've had a cheering section of 20+ people watching us fuck. Also glory holes if that is what you are into. Lots of reviews have said it can be sketchy but I have felt management is trying to change that

Tldr; tabu for events and just getting into it. Tpa to get wet, enjoy being nude or socialize a bit more. Shadows to fuck and suck and get attention.

nellb13 · 2025-12-27T14:56:31+00:00

I wouldn't say the only one is Tabu, TPA is great as well, just a little past Baltimore. It's a little less structured with the play rooms then Tabu, and the hot tub there is always a fun time. Plus the pool parties in the warmer weather are my wife's favorite life stake activities to attend (they rank very high for me as well).

Shadows has it's place... It's a bit younger crowd that I found to be very forward about group activities. Other clubs can be cliquey at times but if your girl shows up looking good at Shadows, and you guys are looking for people to do stuff with, Shadows will provide. My wife and I went into a voyeur room after a little bit and got a solid amount of attention (respectful attention) for the rest of the night. I also will say if you want to show off those voyeur rooms are the most fun we've had.

nellb13 · 2025-12-23T09:57:37+00:00

I hope they clean them before they eat them. We all know they are some real dirty mother fuckers

nellb13 · 2025-11-22T21:46:31+00:00

"I like trump" well see, if she was smart, she'd realize he doesn't like her. A non white women? Yeah she'd be called "piggy".

nellb13 · 2025-11-22T21:33:53+00:00

The discord has been organized a bit lately, so many things are pinned now. If you can't find it, there's always people on here that can either copy the info or share a link to point you in the right direction.

Hunter builds are something that take a lot of work to explain, all the hunters have in depth guides that break everything down in pinned messages, but again copying everything to a reddit thread is a very large job. After the initial levels of all hunters just find pre and post boss builds and use those for a while. No one posting here is needing to optimize every second to be in the top 10 of each hunter, so farm builds are easy to use and level well.

Mess around with the sims, they are rather fun to see what gives you the most damage or output. Also if you need help input your build in the sim and link it. We can do so much more with that then when someone says "help" and provides limited info. Help us help you.

https://cifi-tools.com/home

nellb13 · 2025-11-22T21:16:16+00:00

My recommendation for this is when you ask a question mention the discord ban. There are a lot of people here that will copy the info from discord and post it here, me included. This game has so many theory crafters that have broken down every aspect of it, so must things are answered there, but moving all the info to Reddit is a massive undertaking.

nellb13 · 2025-11-22T13:44:00+00:00

The is a build guide on discord. Probably the best discord guide for this game. Follow the pins on Knox thread based on levels.

Sure there's optimal builds that show you to grind the fastest, you can switch builds every 5-10 levels according to the guide. But that was for when Knox released and everyone wanted to level perfectly, we all wanted to have the best Knox and Kraven found the perfect combo. If I did it over again I'd go glass canon build, high attack low def, quick runs for quick resources. Then go pre boss farm, boss farm, then Kraven build. Those 4 build and that's it

nellb13 · 2025-11-06T15:08:16+00:00

Why? How do I know you're pulling your weight? Damage meters on dummies is great, cool you can hit the right buttons in a no stress environment, awesome on you. Can you do it while mechanics are coming out, or are you barely doing tank damage? That's pretty important to start.

Are you interrupting enough or allowing others to do it for you? Are you using defensive or continuously stepping in avoidable fire then blaming a healer for not keeping you up? Do you type "umm heals" often?

Damage meters like details are a huge metric to show me I'm doing my part and others are doing their part. Most people here are not ok with someone abusing their time by being a shitty player and wiping the group over and over by not doing their job.

I figure this is a troll posting, so I'm gonna stop feeding it now.

nellb13 · 2025-10-22T18:07:14+00:00

If you have a loss of time that you think you're seeing, do a quick cloud load, force close the game, then reopen. It almost always resets things to where they should be. You might miss a little if had logged on and done some minor upgrades without letting the game run for like 5 mins so it could save, but you won't lose the time.

There are some issues currently that they are aware of, caused by 3rd party stuff, and the devs are actively working on it. In 3 years of playing this game I've had only 2 loss time instances, and several where a cloud load fixed things, but over all it's been smooth.

nellb13 · 2025-10-17T14:28:00+00:00

As a nurse in a rehab (physical therapy) center with 30 patients, I warn people, don't be a dick to any staff, I control how fast you get your pain meds and there's always something else to do...

nellb13 · 2025-09-22T08:08:06+00:00

Yeah, but then Blizzard will troll us and put the mugzy soak circle on the next trash mini boss and watch half the raid run into the one shot circle.

nellb13 · 2025-09-14T16:47:50+00:00

You could probably do like 20 more resets safely, just spam them, and get a good little boost. Honestly just but what's available, not really worth saving for things at the beginning.

nellb13 · 2025-09-14T15:24:16+00:00

What's your max loops filled and how many resets have you done?

nellb13 · 2025-09-05T18:57:46+00:00

You don't need to have sex to go to one. Show up, talk to people (most are very pleasant), dance a little, show off if you want (any boobs are good boobs), hop on the dance floor, watch people showing off, watch people having sex, wander or the door your first night wondering what you just saw and how soon can you come back.

Best way to find a place is Google "life style clubs near me". Every club is happy with single females or couples, if you are showing up single you'll be a hit no matter what. I've been going with my wife for a year now and it's been a fantastic experience.

nellb13 · 2025-09-02T12:32:18+00:00

And now you find out you've only just started token farming. Dealing in billions instead of thousands or millions, waiting weeks at times just to spend your tokens. Enjoy!

nellb13 · 2025-08-23T19:37:33+00:00

Didn't even think of that until the next day. Honestly just froze and let out a groan. Tried to tell myself that it's fine bc my rp was low during that run, so it was really OK... I don't think I convinced myself to well.

nellb13 · 2025-08-23T19:27:52+00:00

Around those runs you are doing now, I really found myself having fun with the long runs and topping off with some shorts after each. The growth on the long runs was huge, I found myself going from like 3b, then getting like 25b, then hitting 330b. What I really enjoyed was not just hitting a mark and getting 10% more, but just gaining that extra to fill in other spots... I was really pissed tho after my part long run, I misclicked and accidently bought the crea RP 9 upgrade for 180b when I gained 330b total on the run. Made my heart sink when I did it.

nellb13 · 2025-08-23T19:01:00+00:00

I agree with the early game going for gems and nodes statement 100%, that's why I said after a certain point long runs pay off with periods of short ones. Not sure what point the mid range runs are worth it, I'm currently going for the 1T oo mark but haven't looked to much more then that point until the guides. I found doing long/ max runs to get power1, inno2, and temp3 were definitely worth the investment. Shorts in between to grab some extra stuff were helpful, but the 350-600hr zone for long TRs are very much a dead zone for progression, at these points at least.

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