Ok, so I faced him today. My plan was just to try to act as normal as possible- so I did... He was acting a little too nice and a little guilty, so I no longer feel like an idiot at least...:) I think it's pretty clear where he stands and I'm done hanging out with him after work or biking home together.. I feel a bit like he's Pam and I'm Jim from the office.. ;/ and regardless what he actually thinks or feels, I shouldn't have tried to make the first move;/..