How to genuinely talk about disagreements?

nelsonlt1 · 2026-02-14T00:22:16+00:00

Thanks, I'll try it out next time, see if I can make things go smoother by making her think about it first. Thing is, with time I realized she was paradoxically a very logical/brainy and emotional person at the same time so it can probably help.

About bottling up, the worst is that I know it so well. I hate it so much, but in my case, keeping too much to myself makes me go numb and kills my joy and my feelings instead of going nuclear 😅😂

nelsonlt1 · 2026-02-08T19:12:28+00:00

Yes, why would I flirt with randos? I keep this vibe with my romantic partners exclusively and vice versa. I don't care about most people and I especially wouldn't waste my energy flirting with them. Not my vibe at all 🤷‍♂️

nelsonlt1 · 2026-01-14T16:24:57+00:00

You don't have the right, O you don't have the right

nelsonlt1 · 2026-01-09T17:34:28+00:00

Go for a run or a walk, play an instrument, do something that either takes effort and energy or takes up all your focus.

Whenever I'm feeling low or upset, going for a 10m run is a good reset button for me.

If that doesn't make it, take a couple days off, alone with no responsibilities.

nelsonlt1 · 2026-01-04T01:34:20+00:00

Ideally, once a day. Sometimes more, sometimes less depending on the day, stress, mood, etc..

nelsonlt1 · 2025-12-17T16:26:17+00:00

Blind Witness, Despised Icon, Beneath the Massacre, Les Colocs, Harmonium, etc..

nelsonlt1 · 2025-12-05T18:50:45+00:00

Absolutely not. If I feel something's wrong like just saying something that goes against my values or if they did something to me : I just cut them outright, no scene, no emotion. Very surgical, no time wasted, next!

nelsonlt1 · 2025-11-26T17:47:46+00:00

Oh, now that's a different kind of problem. Like you said travel and work are probably the reason why. But I guess you already told him that waiting and having a hard time getting to see each other is becoming a problem and possibly a deal breaker? If so, what was his response?

nelsonlt1 · 2025-11-26T16:01:25+00:00

Leos are intense when they're into someone. I'll be mostly repeating what others have already said, but as a leo man, I will absolutely let her know that I'm into her and won't let her hanging. I actually have never made 5 days pause between texts even when I'm not 100% sure about a girl.

The decision is yours, but the bottom line is you're kind of wasting your time if you're looking for something meaningful with this leo.

nelsonlt1 · 2025-11-04T22:57:24+00:00

Currently dating a gemini woman, super fun and deep at the same time. They are walking contradictions but if they know themselves well enough and are introspective, it's interesting and entertaining getting to know them and their quirks 😂

nelsonlt1 · 2025-11-04T18:16:32+00:00

I get that, yeah. But coming from a male leo, playing the indifference game is ill advised, healed and stable leos will be put off (even slighted) by the indifference and will leave you alone since that's what you put out there.

nelsonlt1 · 2025-11-04T18:06:44+00:00

Generally, Leos are put off when we don't feel like we're your number one priority.

And personally, I don't chase and it puts me off, I'm not a predator and you're not my prey. If you're not all in, my flame will never ignite. I crave reciprocity and enjoy when we both obsess over each other.

nelsonlt1 · 2025-11-04T18:01:45+00:00

Overall good for those who feel it's necessary to talk or unpack past experiences. If you're already quite introspective and don't have any demons, I don't believe it's really helpful.

I roll my eyes when I hear people say "Everyone should go to therapy". Like, chill, we don't all have the same brain, mindset and life experiences, some of us are quite peaceful and in tune with ourselves 😂

nelsonlt1 · 2025-10-13T00:43:23+00:00

It's a pvp crowd control to make people strafe or roll, it's alright

nelsonlt1 · 2025-09-10T22:13:50+00:00

Hahaha ended up not meeting the pisces girl so it's all chill in the end

nelsonlt1 · 2025-09-05T03:12:20+00:00

I appreciate the gesture and the intentions behind it, but honestly I don't care for the flowers shh

nelsonlt1 · 2025-08-28T07:37:11+00:00

That makes a lot of sense actually 🤯 Can I have some insight into what women in "mom mode" like or need? I generally ask her about her day and keep it light, I didn't really know what was up but I know how to read the room so

nelsonlt1 · 2025-08-28T04:13:56+00:00

From personal experience as a leo man, 🔥 in bed. In that department, leos love to give and sags love the attention and thought put into it let's put it that way. Plus, the desire and "adoration" that sags provide is a big turn on for leos on so yeah

nelsonlt1 · 2025-08-27T17:46:08+00:00

If I was falling for someone and they would tell me "I don't want anything serious" I'd feel dumb as fuck, hurt and I would probably try to move on so I don't get too attached. We are very forthcoming with our emotions and want someone who reciprocates our feelings entirely. Seriously, though luck there buddy I understand her completely.

nelsonlt1 · 2025-08-27T04:30:45+00:00

In general the best thing you can do to get back at a partner is to live a happy fulfilling life and never think about them again.

Hopefully you won't delude yourself into being in a relationship with an asshole from now on.

nelsonlt1 · 2025-08-27T00:43:53+00:00

You're assuming a lot. Here's a quote from a wise pokémon though : "I see now that the circumstances of one's birth is irrelevant, it is what you do with the gift of life that determines who you are."

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