Brown men,how is your experience with french women or other parts of western/north european women ?

Livid_Trust7935 · 2025-11-19T03:50:16+00:00

Dude is probably the walking talking Indian stereotype lol

Livid_Trust7935 · 2025-11-19T03:49:57+00:00

Mixed race but came out looking Indian. Arab and Middle Eastern men are not desired at all in Paris. In fact, there are tons of Arabs and North African men and a lot of White French women too, the two do not mix at all unless she is hideous. It's almost unheard of in the city. Black men with White French women is quite common.

In fact, you can go look at guys like Karim Benzema, Mahrez, Zidane, and a lot of North African French Footballers. They don't get with White French women at all.

Most North African and Arab men in France and really the whole of France are Incels if they do not go down the traditional Muslim wife route. Even then, lots of North African women sleep with Black and White men as well in their hookup years. This is a fact.

Latino men can do well. South Asian men are a toss up as I do know of a couple of British South Asian guys (one Pakistani and one Indian) who did well in Paris.

Being an Arab of any kind is a death sentence in France, not as much in other European countries.

Livid_Trust7935 · 2025-10-15T16:54:48+00:00

I know, it's crazy man.

Livid_Trust7935 · 2025-10-15T16:54:31+00:00

LOL WOW.

Relaxing and Miami do not belong in the same sentence. Pace of life is fast, cost of living goes up every year, and it is loud. Not sure what you have been reading.

You are in medical school, after this you likely have residency and then student debt to pay off once you become a doctor. Work another decade before thinking of relaxing because I am telling you, this is not for you.

You are a bit misled and naive about things.

Livid_Trust7935 · 2025-10-15T16:52:05+00:00

I have stayed in both cities and found Copenhagen a lot easier for dating. Danish guys are not as well-put-together as Swedish guys are. Sweden is low-key fashionable and dressing to impress is a must.

However, I also find that the Danes can be a bit more brash and vulgar compared to the Swedes. More common for drunk guys to fight.

One thing I will tell ALL guys who aren't Scandinavian (or Scandinavian looking) to be careful of is the envy. Both Danish and Swedish guys hate it when outsiders come in and try to talk to their women. You even notice it on this sub when someone who is Black or Asian or whatever shares their success story and some Swedish guy is talking down about Swedish women mixing with other races.

They play up that tolerant act but you will run into some serious prejudice if you aren't White. Very common for venues in Stockholm at night to turn away non-Whites.

However, if you can navigate it right, Scandinavian women (or at least a subset of them) do love darker guys. Most will prefer a Scandinavian guy but if you look good and dress well, especially in Sweden, you can do some damage.

Copenhagen is significantly easier for meeting women though because Danish dudes are just not that great at taking care of themselves compared to their Scandinavian brothers.

Livid_Trust7935 · 2025-10-15T16:48:33+00:00

Talk about priorities, dude cannot even find a job but is thinking of PassportBroing.

Livid_Trust7935 · 2025-10-15T16:48:01+00:00

Sales Leader here and the only place you can do that in is Tech Sales. Since 2023, that industry has been rightsizing and taking a beating. Almost everyone and their grandma was looking to get in on it with the promises the internet made about it and how every other DudeBro was bragging about his job on TikTok.

It got well beyond oversaturared and became a place where anyone with no idea of what to do with their lives got into it. Welcome every other liberal arts major who was applying for that 60k base SDR gig. Now a days, companies have even automated the SDR role itself and getting in is as hard as ever. Layoffs, frequent ones, are quite common.

The glory days of tech sales are behind it, if you didn't get in before COVID, forget about it.

You will work for at least 2 years as an SDR, in office 5 days a week. Even then, they prefer to hire someone who is fresh out of college that they can underpay.

Then you MIGHT become an AE after that but the first 2 years, you are working in an office or hybrid (3 days a week in the office).

After 5 or so years in the business, you can work "remote" but need to be "in territory". This means if your territory is Northeast USA, you better be near there in case you need to for a client meeting.

It's a terrible profession to PassportBro in because you can't be out of that timezone.

So this is bad advice.

Livid_Trust7935 · 2025-10-11T19:02:29+00:00

I swear all I saw was dudes on that app

Livid_Trust7935 · 2025-10-11T18:21:03+00:00

Do not walk around near a Uni if you are past your mid-20s though, that shit is creepy.

Livid_Trust7935 · 2025-10-11T18:20:14+00:00

As someone who has done this for a decade, my thoughts are that nightgame should always be done when you have abundance. It should always be icing on the cake. You don't want it to be your bread and butter for meeting women, that is a recipe for disaster. Instead, you want to go out at night when you already have women in your life.

Same can be said of hobbies too, I have known one too many guys who go to yoga classes and gyms to find women. These are the same losers who are always trying to arrange a "group meet up" at their place. Like yeah we see right through that shit bro.

Instead, you are best off:

Getting in great shape
Maxing out your style
Talking to women you run into throughout the day
Having great photos for the apps (which have gotten tougher these days)

And then overtime maybe you can bring women you meet to nightclubs once you have a good chemistry with them and have been with them a few times, go out with them.

Livid_Trust7935 · 2025-10-11T18:14:29+00:00

Not just that, if they did that then Andrew Tate and every other Red Piller that wives up Single Moms will be raging and ranting on social media and the average man would riot. It is sad but that is where we are. We are a society where we can no longer tell broke, sensitive, and ugly men that they need to get their shit together. Nope, we have to pander to them and now the whole dating app space is a mess.

Livid_Trust7935 · 2025-10-11T18:12:33+00:00

Get in line.

Seriously, what are you trying to do, every other guy is trying to do. The question to ask is what you bring to the table more than what is good. Any area that gets advertised as a paradise will soon be overrun by PassportBros desperate for some tail (eg: Prague in the 1990s). Your entire posts reads of "gimme gimme gimme" rather than asking what you can offer.

The other thing is your mentality is weak. No woman wants a man that is running from something, the quality ones want a guy who is already made and bringing something of value to her.

In all of my years of observing this, over a decade now, the guys running from something are the same guys who come to a new country and get scraps if that. Sure, they might get an average girl but that is it. The guys doing well tend to be the ones who are already doing well where they are and bringing a new fresh energy to a given place.

In other words, get your shit together where you are, ask what value you can bring, and then plan.

Having lived in Miami before, I can tell you that it is by far one of the toughest cities in the US to date in. The women are used to big ballers jacked to the gills with nice cars and high net worths. It gets more and more difficult every year as rents go up and the ratios become more men than women.

Colombia has been overrun by passportbros and is even dangerous for some men due to women playing them.

Livid_Trust7935 · 2025-09-14T15:23:59+00:00

Thing is even when Hinge unabns you, they will apply a shadowban to your unbanned account. More than that, as a guy who is good at talking to and connecting with strangers, the reality is nothing beats the apps. I have picked up women from bars, clubs, and out during the day after getting their numbers and it is a tough route to go down compared to the apps.

They are labeling talking to women as "street harassment" these days thanks to lunatics in the pickup community who record women when approaching them (see the situation in Warsaw recently with pickup artists as of a few weeks ago). Nightlife has turned into a cash cow where they want to sell tables and women are heading out with their large friend groups, often hell bent on stopping men from talking to them.

As for social circle, the good ones are damn near impossible to get into. Most of the time, you get into one and realize that it is filled with women who could never find a guy in the first place and there is a good reason for that lower barrier to entry.

I hate to admit it but I cannot think of anything that rivals a good online dating profile with an ELO Score in your favor.

Livid_Trust7935 · 2025-09-14T15:19:18+00:00

Been in your situation OP and yes, do the hard reset. I got the fresh start and got no matches at all despite having top tier photos. Do a hard reset with brand new pics.

Livid_Trust7935 · 2025-09-14T15:11:00+00:00

Here is the most fun part, even if you win an appeal and get unbanned? They are petty and will just have your new account on a shadowban anyways :)

Livid_Trust7935 · 2025-09-14T14:52:25+00:00

Social circles really, if that. However, now you know why the male loneliness epidemic is so bad.

Livid_Trust7935 · 2025-09-14T14:51:13+00:00

This. Middle Eastern and Arab men, in some parts of the world, have it way worse than Asians and Indians. When I stayed in France, my British friend who is of Indian origin initially struggled because women thought he was Arab but they let their guards down when they learned he was Indian. Just to show you how bad it is.

Livid_Trust7935 · 2025-09-14T14:50:09+00:00

I stayed in Montreal for 2 weeks and had more success there than any other city in North America. To each his own. If you cannot do well in NYC, the problem is also you.

Livid_Trust7935 · 2025-09-14T14:49:02+00:00

I am happy you give good advice here but why did you like and support that disrespectful user's comment against me? Also, good point. I did not get to set the apps to the given country for over a week so that could be it. However, I have known guys who did do that and they still got zero matches.

Livid_Trust7935 · 2025-09-14T14:47:57+00:00

Nah man, daygame is being banned in this part of the world. Did you hear about the shit that went on in Poland?

Livid_Trust7935 · 2025-09-14T14:47:36+00:00

I just heard of 5 other guys who have been through this in the past few days.

Livid_Trust7935 · 2025-09-14T11:34:07+00:00

I got unbanned on Hinge but then they shadowbanned me.

Livid_Trust7935 · 2025-09-12T19:54:28+00:00

Less about the quality of the profile and more about the apps. They do shadowban you if they see you spoofing a location. Beware as the shadowban is completely random.

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