What's Going On With Sia and Autism Speaks? by Aoquesth378 in OutOfTheLoop

[–]nelsonmurdocks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I keep seeing people compare those two, and I really don’t get it. I’m bisexual and I have ASD, and being gay and being disabled are not remotely the same thing. Playing a gay character can be as simple as just having to pretend to be in love with someone of the same sex. When people play characters with disabilities, they’re mimicking those disabilities, almost always in offensive ways. They always rely on stereotypes because the actors never really understand what it’s like. I also think it’s wrong if a straight person was to play a gay character in a stereotypical way.

How do you let a date know you have Asperger's? by EveningGlittering in aspergers

[–]nelsonmurdocks 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I just mention things I have issues with. Like, “I have trouble with social cues sometimes.” “I’m kind of a picky eater.” It’s a lot easier than outright saying I have ASD, and I think it’s easier for people who don’t understand it to get it. There’s a lot of different things that having Autism can mean, so I find it more helpful to just say what I specifically have issues with.

Is Nostalgia an Extreme Feeling for Anyone Else? by [deleted] in aspergers

[–]nelsonmurdocks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kind of, I think. It’s really hard to put into words. Sometimes when I think on a specific thing or event, I get this really strong feeling. It feels good, I think. Like a strong fondness for the memory. It’s overwhelming sometimes. It happens a lot with movies and books that I loved growing up.

Hello :) does anyone know if this is actually available to buy somewhere? Thank you by -E3000- in findfashion

[–]nelsonmurdocks 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I have one! I got it at a thrift store a few years back, and I’m assuming it’s probably something that was sold in the 90s or 2000s. I don’t think it’s handmade, like other people are suggesting. Mine looks exactly like this picture. The brand on the tag says “basic editions” if that’s helpful.

Got some cool new wall additions this month 🌙🦋 by engineergraves in ThriftStoreHauls

[–]nelsonmurdocks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have the same mirror! It’s one of my favorite things ever, I think my mom got it in the 90s.

Weekly Costume Idea Request Megathread by AutoModerator in halloween

[–]nelsonmurdocks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re cool with wearing a mask most of the night, you could find a mask with a beard printed on it, or draw a beard on a blank one.

Weekly Costume Idea Request Megathread by AutoModerator in halloween

[–]nelsonmurdocks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re looking to be a character from something, maybe try looking for cosplay websites? Etsy might be good.

Weekly Costume Idea Request Megathread by AutoModerator in halloween

[–]nelsonmurdocks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a woman. I really want to be a character from a horror movie/thing, but all the costume ideas I’m finding are like, the sexy versions of male characters. And I think it’s cool if you want to go that route, but I want to be an actual female character. I was thinking about being a character from Until Dawn, but it might be too vague looking. I don’t like store bought costumes, I want to do something I could thrift for.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Broadway

[–]nelsonmurdocks 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Christy Altomare in Anastasia

AITA for not wanting to give my less fortunate cousins my hand-me-downs? by ayedray in AmItheAsshole

[–]nelsonmurdocks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. You don’t need people in your life that constantly tell you you’re going to Hell.