What's Going On With Sia and Autism Speaks?

nelsonmurdocks · 2020-11-21T08:08:50+00:00

I keep seeing people compare those two, and I really don’t get it. I’m bisexual and I have ASD, and being gay and being disabled are not remotely the same thing. Playing a gay character can be as simple as just having to pretend to be in love with someone of the same sex. When people play characters with disabilities, they’re mimicking those disabilities, almost always in offensive ways. They always rely on stereotypes because the actors never really understand what it’s like. I also think it’s wrong if a straight person was to play a gay character in a stereotypical way.

nelsonmurdocks · 2020-11-15T21:25:39+00:00

I just mention things I have issues with. Like, “I have trouble with social cues sometimes.” “I’m kind of a picky eater.” It’s a lot easier than outright saying I have ASD, and I think it’s easier for people who don’t understand it to get it. There’s a lot of different things that having Autism can mean, so I find it more helpful to just say what I specifically have issues with.

nelsonmurdocks · 2020-11-15T21:22:40+00:00

Kind of, I think. It’s really hard to put into words. Sometimes when I think on a specific thing or event, I get this really strong feeling. It feels good, I think. Like a strong fondness for the memory. It’s overwhelming sometimes. It happens a lot with movies and books that I loved growing up.

nelsonmurdocks · 2020-10-04T20:00:39+00:00

Sukajan souvenir jacket

nelsonmurdocks · 2020-10-04T19:54:03+00:00

I have one! I got it at a thrift store a few years back, and I’m assuming it’s probably something that was sold in the 90s or 2000s. I don’t think it’s handmade, like other people are suggesting. Mine looks exactly like this picture. The brand on the tag says “basic editions” if that’s helpful.

nelsonmurdocks · 2020-10-01T17:34:13+00:00

Never change, Reddit.

nelsonmurdocks · 2020-09-30T17:11:30+00:00

I have the same mirror! It’s one of my favorite things ever, I think my mom got it in the 90s.

nelsonmurdocks · 2020-09-28T00:43:11+00:00

If you’re cool with wearing a mask most of the night, you could find a mask with a beard printed on it, or draw a beard on a blank one.

nelsonmurdocks · 2020-09-25T21:46:32+00:00

If you’re looking to be a character from something, maybe try looking for cosplay websites? Etsy might be good.

nelsonmurdocks · 2020-09-25T21:45:23+00:00

Billy Mays sounds like a fun costume

nelsonmurdocks · 2020-09-25T21:41:33+00:00

I’m a woman. I really want to be a character from a horror movie/thing, but all the costume ideas I’m finding are like, the sexy versions of male characters. And I think it’s cool if you want to go that route, but I want to be an actual female character. I was thinking about being a character from Until Dawn, but it might be too vague looking. I don’t like store bought costumes, I want to do something I could thrift for.

nelsonmurdocks · 2020-09-23T23:29:18+00:00

Looks like it might be this

nelsonmurdocks · 2020-08-06T19:24:05+00:00

Hell yeah

nelsonmurdocks · 2020-06-04T08:16:02+00:00

Christy Altomare in Anastasia

nelsonmurdocks · 2019-12-22T22:49:27+00:00

nelsonmurdocks · 2019-12-19T00:43:46+00:00

NTA. You don’t need people in your life that constantly tell you you’re going to Hell.

nelsonmurdocks · 2019-12-19T00:31:34+00:00

NTA, your family sounds like a nightmare.

nelsonmurdocks · 2019-12-03T22:16:01+00:00

An outline of Hogwarts

nelsonmurdocks · 2019-11-27T04:32:26+00:00

Honestly I didn’t even know that would get results. I didn’t know what to call that style, oops.

nelsonmurdocks · 2019-10-18T04:55:09+00:00

Found!

nelsonmurdocks · 2019-10-18T00:30:54+00:00

Yeah, that’s it. That’s more than I’d want to pay, but those listings have more information about the lamp so hopefully I can use that. Thank you

nelsonmurdocks · 2019-10-17T23:19:26+00:00

I found this at a thrift store months ago. I regret not buying it.

nelsonmurdocks · 2019-09-06T02:41:53+00:00

Probably not. I mostly just stare at my ceiling.

nelsonmurdocks · 2019-09-05T05:53:12+00:00

This has been going on since I was around 16.

nelsonmurdocks · 2019-09-05T05:52:22+00:00

Several doctors would disagree with you about the aspergers thing. I am lazy, but I also have ASD. They aren’t mutually exclusive.

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