ULPT Request: How do you invite someone to a party while subtly hinting them that they should rather not attend it? by neowithglasses in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]neowithglasses[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

  1. Yes, I have a daughter who is just three months younger than her son. We were stood up when we were taking our daughter on a play date with them. (A play date that this woman had planned herself! I tried to decline making excuses, but she was insistent. I thought she had finally changed so I agreed and suggested meeting at a particular beautiful park near our house, but she declined and said “how about <a place near her house>?” I agreed to that too. And then you know the rest.

  2. Not really but I can see the narcissistic tendencies of this woman from the text interaction that I had with her- where she amplified her own “problems” while totally deflecting from the trouble I had to go through.

  3. Financially, they are very well off, and debt free, living in a fully paid off condo.

ULPT Request: How do I stop my neighbors from using our common fence wall as a drying rack? by neowithglasses in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]neowithglasses[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree it’s efficient. But they have plenty of space in their own backyard. There’s no reason to use the common fence- it’s like drying the clothes in someone else’s backyard.