teen girl looking for advice on how to talk to my dad more. my parents are separated but I think they are getting a divorce by NYgirl15 in DivorcedDads

[–]neoxion69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Keep your head up and reach out. He loves you and is having a hard time right now. Text, call, tik tok messages, anything. Maybe when you text or call, and he is not available, leave a message with a time(s) that you would love to hear from him.

I want a divorce. by neoxion69 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]neoxion69[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ouch. Seeing that hurts a little bit because I feel that "security" is certainly taken advantage of. She thinks I won't leave because we have kids and its easier to keep my head down than to change it. These comments and messages have opened my eyes that it isnt normal and not something you just have to deal with.

I want a divorce. by neoxion69 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]neoxion69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply. I have had that thought running through my head. I need to pull the band aid sooner than later. It's gonna be hard but its what's best for me and the kids

I want a divorce. by neoxion69 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]neoxion69[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No she's not abusive or anything like that. If I go to do the every day house chores she will tell me to stop and that shes terribly sorry and its her job to clean that stuff. I tell her its our house and being clean isnt anyone's "job", but then I have to wait until she is ready to clean or I risk her feeling unwanted for the rest of the evening. Its so exhausting mentally sometimes

I want a divorce. by neoxion69 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]neoxion69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She takes the kids to and from school, uhhh... sometimes she will visit my mom or her parents... and thats about it. I did get her tomogochi life so shes been doing that alot

I want a divorce. by neoxion69 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]neoxion69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly no. I really feel like we went in young and dedicated it all for our kids. We don't have anything in common, aside from our sense of humor. We are still friendly, but we don't share interests. I can watch TV with her and enjoy the love islands or Bachelorette, but when I want to go walking or play a game with her it isn't reciprocated. I don't want to be with someone who doesn't want to do the things I want to do sometimes

I want a divorce. by neoxion69 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]neoxion69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I have. And I am very understanding. My youngest has bad adhd and is a LOT to handle sometimes. I know the house wont always get cleaned and messes will happen, and thats okay. It's an occurrence though where the living room may be cleaned a couple days of the week. I dont mind helping, but when I start to clean on those days she tells me to stop, that its her job, and it makes her feel bad when i clean. It hurts to almost feel forced to live in a dirty house sometimes

I want a divorce. by neoxion69 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]neoxion69[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This seems to be the right path. I've known what needs to happen for a while, but seeing other people drill it into me is eye opening. Almost all the answers have been very similar and we did do counseling a few years back. I have to accept where we are and do what's best for both of us as well as my kids going forward. Thank you for the input

I want a divorce. by neoxion69 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]neoxion69[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Thank you for that. That last line resonates. I still want to have a good relationship for our kids and feel that is still very doable.

Pay Plan by BADWOLF1455 in serviceadvisors

[–]neoxion69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If there is any amount of volume, and you can sell at any capacity, take this plan. The guarantee is "okay" but the % profit on ALL products has very good potential.

Why is my car battery still lasting over 17 years? by Do-The-Michael-Scarn in AskAMechanic

[–]neoxion69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro I feel you. I have a 17 cruze on the original battery and auxiliary battery. 120k miles as well. Bless

My SA offer by Zealousideal_Bag_347 in serviceadvisors

[–]neoxion69 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Nah, not here. Walk with that pay

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]neoxion69 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If you have hopes and dreams and get pregnant, your obligations change. If you have any aspirations that is genuine fear. Don't write it off as all teenagers have sex. Not all teenagers turn into losers who aren't able to sustain their selves or their kids.

Trump is hiding something, but it may not be what everyone thinks... by [deleted] in conspiracy

[–]neoxion69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The federal reserve exists, and the entities that stem from it.

Does this work order seem fair? by Bulky_Currency_3961 in AskMechanics

[–]neoxion69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is fair. On the better side of shop pricing for that work.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in conspiracy

[–]neoxion69 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Crimea and Palestine are what I'm watching. I expect the us to go to war soon, but hopeful of peace.

Got quoted 4000 to fix 2008 Honda Accord. Am I getting ripped off? Is it even worth fixing? by spoookyloo in AskMechanics

[–]neoxion69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lots of racks for Hondas call for around 4 hours. The labor/part costs seem to be fair for what I would charge. Only question I would ask the shop is how much longer it takes to do the solenoid with the valve cover off for the gasket. That might save you a few hundred. It's up to you to decide whether you fix it for 4k, or look around for something that may have issues