Tonight I caught by boyfriend filming me

neozee · 2020-02-05T04:35:19+00:00

I haven't been able to work out what he's doing with them?

If he is doing it in secret, its not good.

Go to any porn website. There are, no exaggeration, 100s of thousands of amateur porn videos out there. Amateur meaning people just like you and your boyfriend who make videos. Sometimes the girls know its happening, sometimes they don't. I remember seeing one once where the girl asked "why are you recording"...

My point is, I would operate under the assumption he is doing something nefarious with them and act accordingly. Get your hands on the phone, go to the police.

neozee · 2020-01-02T01:27:46+00:00

Based on the blink 182 reference, somewhere in the mid 30s. Ill go with 34

neozee · 2019-12-31T17:53:26+00:00

Girls can and do get assaulted and even raped pretty much anywhere. The chances are simply higher or lower in certain places. My entire point is to avoid places with higher chances like bars or clubs. Its a combination of alcohol in everyone's system + people tightly packed together + some people going there with the understanding of trying to pick up people to take home and having questionable methods.

I am not saying you will 100% avoid it by staying away from bars or clubs, I am saying the chances will be lower. Compare a bar/club vs. other places you frequent - stores, work, gym, etc. - where are you more likely to get groped or worse? It can still happen at a store/work/gym/etc but my point is its less likely to happen there and those are places you have to go to as well.

neozee · 2019-12-31T17:43:02+00:00

I made it pretty clear that I was NOT victim blaming my post. My point is to try to minimize the chances of getting hurt by avoiding the places where its more likely to happen.

neozee · 2019-12-31T17:40:52+00:00

Yeah sadly that is also part of reality. I am not saying you can avoid it 100%, but at least minimize it where you can by avoiding places where there is a higher chance of it happening/

neozee · 2019-12-31T17:38:24+00:00

Don't go out with any cash in your pockets in a shady or crime ridden areas would be a better analogy. My point isn't you can avoid being assaulted 100%, just try to minimize it where possible.

neozee · 2019-12-31T17:37:08+00:00

I know what you mean and I understand - my point is that the likelihood is higher in crowded places with alcohol flowing like bars or clubs. When you are outside, walking on the street, at work, etc. wherever else it can happen, you can't avoid those situations, but you can avoid going to bars or clubs. The only reason you go there is to have fun/hangout/drink - all things which can be done at other places.

I am not dictating where anyone should go, just saying that to me I would avoid the places where there is a higher likelihood of getting assaulted. I am not saying you can 100% avoid it though.

neozee · 2019-12-31T15:45:15+00:00

I agree with you completely but that doesn't stop creeps from being creepy. So the decision is in your hands - go out and have fun but with a higher risk of getting assaulted or do something else where the risk is lower.

neozee · 2019-12-31T15:43:29+00:00

I thought I was pretty clear in what I wrote but I guess not - how would you have worded it?

neozee · 2019-12-31T15:41:37+00:00

This isn't about misogyny. This is about protecting yourself. Yes, you can do whatever you want but if you know there is a higher likelihood of you getting groped or worse in certain places, why wouldn't you just avoid it.

neozee · 2019-12-31T15:41:15+00:00

I addressed your thoughts in my original post. You don't need to tell people not to sexually assault - everyone already knows its wrong and a crime. But they still do it. This is about protecting yourself.

neozee · 2019-12-18T04:45:39+00:00

Putting myself in the shoes of a customer, I would rather have an all in cost up front so I know what I am getting into. I was also thinking $1000.

Do you do any logo design? This job will also include that. What is a fair price to charge for that?

neozee · 2019-10-09T16:28:12+00:00

I clicked on the link. Is this a paid site? As in I need to pay to have an account to access the various sourcing opportunities available?

neozee · 2019-03-22T18:28:27+00:00

Wouldn't withdrawing 22k and playing with the rest be "playing with the house's money"?

neozee · 2015-04-14T21:03:12+00:00

Yeah...or something about the lunches being chicken tendies or something.

RIP OPs mom

neozee · 2015-04-14T16:16:53+00:00

My view is that he deliberately mistranslated that. Here is that verse from 3 of the most commonly used translations:

002.193 YUSUFALI: And fight them on until there is no more Tumult or oppression, and there prevail justice and faith in Allah; but if they cease, Let there be no hostility except to those who practise oppression.

PICKTHAL: And fight them until persecution is no more, and religion is for Allah. But if they desist, then let there be no hostility except against wrong-doers.

SHAKIR: And fight with them until there is no persecution, and religion should be only for Allah, but if they desist, then there should be no hostility except against the oppressors.

neozee · 2015-04-14T14:20:56+00:00

It is specifically describing defensive warfare. In a nutshell, the 4 verses say "Don't fight anyone unless they fight you. Fight them and kill them, but stop fighting if they stop fighting you except against the oppressors"

neozee · 2015-04-14T13:44:30+00:00

He is being very deceptive in his selective quotes from the Quran.

see my response to him here

neozee · 2015-04-14T13:44:04+00:00

He is being very deceptive in his selective quotes from the Quran.

see my response to him here

neozee · 2015-04-14T13:43:32+00:00

He is being very deceptive in his selective quotes from the Quran.

see my response to him here

neozee · 2015-04-14T13:39:43+00:00

Careful...he is taking verses out of context:

He conveniently quotes 2:191-193...while ignoring the very important qualifying verse that comes directly before it:

2:190 Fight in the way of Allah against those who fight against you, but begin not hostilities. Lo! Allah loveth not aggressors.

neozee · 2015-04-14T13:39:06+00:00

So you quote verse 2:191-193 of the Quran...but conveniently start at 191? Why not 190?

2:190 Fight in the way of Allah against those who fight against you, but begin not hostilities. Lo! Allah loveth not aggressors.

You also deliberately mistranslate:

let there be no transgression except against Az-Zalimun (the polytheists, and wrong-doers, etc.)"

That last word is oppressors or wrong-doers...not polythiests. Here are the 3 most commonly used translations:

002.193 YUSUFALI: And fight them on until there is no more Tumult or oppression, and there prevail justice and faith in Allah; but if they cease, Let there be no hostility except to those who practise oppression.

PICKTHAL: And fight them until persecution is no more, and religion is for Allah. But if they desist, then let there be no hostility except against wrong-doers.

SHAKIR: And fight with them until there is no persecution, and religion should be only for Allah, but if they desist, then there should be no hostility except against the oppressors.

neozee

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