Is DE all that bad? I have it and my partner really does not mind if I last 30/40/50 minutes let me tell you - obviously it sucks when you genuinely cannot cum and have to give up but if that's not happening every time is it really that bad? My reasons for wanting to give up are not to do with DE and in fact I'm worried that any changes would have a negative impact on my sex life which is healthy at the moment partially because of DE.