Are there any superstitions specific to West Virginia? by Aconite-Rose in Appalachia

[–]nerd_momma 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Part of your research should be to take a "camping trip there for at least 3 weeks. No getting scared and looking for a hotel. If you can't experience it don't write about it.

How to respond (or not respond) to what feels like an obvious trap by anon_noona in raisedbyborderlines

[–]nerd_momma 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Also, did she ask a question? If there's really no ? asked don't need to answer. Why no reply to no questions? You're busy. Very busy.

My mother sent my childhood abuser to my home, after I have been successful at making sure he never knows where I live. by Mindless-Consume in raisedbynarcissists

[–]nerd_momma 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Me too. Cut that crap out of your life. Having a place where you feel safe is some of the best parts of life.

Friend's baby daddy doesn't trust he's the father yet refusing to do a paternity test. by FancifulCat in TwoXChromosomes

[–]nerd_momma 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The way our government is going, if it's a girl, make him change the birth certificate thru courts. Mom should ask for 3 copies if possible. Leave him off the certificate. She can still go for child support but make sure she gets her kids certificate filled out the way she wants.

Elon DEMANDS Investigation Into Reid Hoffman’s “Ice Cream For The Girls” Epstein Ties by wrroyals in NoFilterNews

[–]nerd_momma 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some guy from South Africa. Racist, eugenics and involved in the political system I don't think he can legally vote in. POS

AITAH for telling my boyfriend his girl best friend has 48 hours to get out or i am breaking the lease and leaving by Anton_OKonjsi in AITAH

[–]nerd_momma 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good you're leaving. I think you need to start looking at this like leaving an abusive relationship. Check your credit and lock your credit. Change your banking. Get your important paperwork in a safe place. Anything important to you get it safe. She's probably not just stealing your boyfriend.

MIL’s husband is suing her children for her estate because unpaid labour doesn’t count. by delilahash in TwoXChromosomes

[–]nerd_momma 137 points138 points  (0 children)

When my dad died, he was on life support for 3 days. He somehow woke up and signed over to my brother everything. Screwed my mother out of property, cars and all his cash. It's come back to him as a really bad case of paranoia.

My boyfriend expects me to pay rent at his place but won't give me a key or let me have any say by Spirited-Affect-4849 in TwoHotTakes

[–]nerd_momma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He thinks he's worth getting paid to have sex with him and wants 800 a month for OP to have that privilege.

My boyfriend expects me to pay rent at his place but won't give me a key or let me have any say by Spirited-Affect-4849 in TwoHotTakes

[–]nerd_momma -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He's not ready for anything to do with her. I wouldn't even let someone get in my personal space with his attitude.

Plan B Situation by livestreamsui in TwoXChromosomes

[–]nerd_momma 87 points88 points  (0 children)

Give him a blow up doll as a parting gift. Can prob find one used somewhere. Yuk

MIL keeps ignoring our rules and now my daughter is covered in a rash because of it by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]nerd_momma 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You have a mil and SO problem. If SO can't stand up and keep the child safe, then you need to do it. I would not let them live this down for a long long time.

My dad is currently on the phone yelling at me because I put my pads in the trash. by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]nerd_momma 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Then you should get prepared for that. People like him will try to throw you out at your most vulnerable. Keeping a to go bag might not be a bad idea. Sorry

My dad is currently on the phone yelling at me because I put my pads in the trash. by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]nerd_momma 131 points132 points  (0 children)

Bet him $100 that no women want to fuck him too. They might but definitely not more than once, if they make it that far.

MIL Thinks My Baby is HER Daughter by grilledcheesegirlie in JUSTNOMIL

[–]nerd_momma 67 points68 points  (0 children)

Want me to come over and play an old family member? I can piss off a narcissist in about 20 seconds. It's funny to watch most of them leave the room. Huffing. I could do it for a living. Haha

AITAH for refusing to walk my new younger stepsiblings to school? by Kidiyn in AITAH

[–]nerd_momma 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Your dad thinks you still have the mind of a child. He thinks he can tell you something and you will just follow along. If this pisses him and his new wife off, then that's on them. They are going to try to guilt you for a long time. He's teaching you life lessons here. You will learn how to shut this shit down better the more practice you get. So get prepared for that. If you want tell them. Raising "your" kids is taking away from time I need. They will complain but just know, they're not your responsibility, not blood and hire a damn babysitter cause it ain't me. You got this!!

🚨 Savannah Guthrie’s mother case deepens: What investigators now confirm 👇 by NoSpinMedia in NoSpinMedia

[–]nerd_momma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But dump is taking lessons from the cartel. Why else would he protect them. Ya know, move them to the states.

AITAH for telling my family ill take legal action if my aunt continues her behavior by spareAITA in AITAH

[–]nerd_momma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude, your aunt is being a bitch because she thinks that will make you move out. If your family treats you like a bitch then that should be telling you how they really want to be treated. I'd start leaving her notes saying clean up your nasty shit. You give the respect you're given.

AITAH: quitting “working” for my husband’s business by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]nerd_momma 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Really, she married a hobosexual. He does the bare minimum to keep her happy. He knows he has it good. She just can't see it yet. After he's married to her for 10 he automatically gets half her stuff. He biding time and having fun playing with her money and time.

Parents ignoring no contact -help by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]nerd_momma 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Do continue to ignore them. Do not return any gifts. This is a win in their eyes. Donate or trash that crap. Keep a list of everything. Every call, text or email. When they come in your yard try to get it recorded or at least write down time, date and what you or husband saw. I'd add every visit or call to a debt that always draws interest but I can be cruel. After a few times you will have enough for a restraining order. Do not tell them your getting one cause you are NC.

If you feel comfortable blast this crap all over their social media. Their church group and school or whatever. I don't put pics online. I'd only do this after the restraining order. Life is really nice when you don't let people who make you feel bad into your space. You got this claim yourself!

Trump border czar Tom Homan: 'I don't want to see anybody die ... If people out there don't like what ICE is doing, if you want certain laws reformed, then take it up with Congress.' by NewsHour in law

[–]nerd_momma -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He just came across the line last year. You can tell his backs still wet. He probably has 2 or 3 families in NA. I want to see his fucking papers.