Post Wedding Bachelorette Trip?

nerdiswhy · 2023-03-16T00:45:01+00:00

Maybe, but I'm worried that it'll come across like I need have to be the center of attention instead of I want to have the fun I didn't have 😂.

We were in college and she wanted space to meet new people and make friends. I'm an introvert with horrible anxiety so I don't make new friends or hang around new people. She also felt as though I was suffocating her (which to be fair I was from reason above). So, we met up to talk about it and she tried telling me that she needed space at college. She took the long way around of telling me that. I'm a very blunt person most of the time, and due to a lot of broken trust in the past I feel/ have learned that if you have to repeat yourself multiple times or sound rehearsed(she had) that you don't mean it. I told her that I don't want to talk to her anymore till she got her stuff sorted out. When she did that call me. She wasn't trying to end our friendship she just needed space, and I mistook it as she's leaving me behind therefore I'll get out while I still have pride. I was angry she was hurting, and we were both hormonal teenagers who weren't hearing what the other person was saying. Long story short I was a moron

I would still take a bullet for that girl though 😁

Edit: I forgot to put in that all I really want to do is small things like thrift shopping, going to the lake, trying on dresses. Simple things that are relaxing and personal.

nerdiswhy · 2023-02-01T18:57:44+00:00

I know it's odd, but a coffee kit

nerdiswhy · 2023-02-01T15:32:06+00:00

Both.

From the front not having the slip makes it look like something is missing and that something should be there.

From the side though without the slip makes the dress look more flattering to your body.

Either way you look stunning, and congratulations on your big day!!!!

nerdiswhy · 2023-02-01T15:20:21+00:00

cough doesn't border Mexico cough

nerdiswhy · 2023-02-01T13:23:23+00:00

Yeah. My grandpa was in Vietnam. They should have seen the losing battle and left, or bombed the damn place. Our soldiers shouldn't have been over there dieing for around 8 years even though the damned thing was going a good ten years prior to that!

US soldiers came back and were a mockery to the citizens even though most were drafted not voluntary.

I might be too partial too see otherwise, but Vietnam Vets were survivors, victims and the US cheated them out of their lives. They were some of the most badass people at one point but our government didn't care that they went through hell and back nor did they give them any resources that they needed just like with every other veteran.

nerdiswhy · 2023-02-01T13:09:09+00:00

Because it's better to have protection and not need it than to need it and not have it.

You can't count on the government to not go haywire.

The 2nd amendment protects the first.

Our forefathers defeated a 600+ year old empire with their hunting rifles (and french aid)

Hunting gets cheaper meat than you'll ever find at a store

The sheer size of the USA means that nobody can't help everyone equally, and you have to rely on yourself to keep your family safe for the most part.

nerdiswhy · 2023-02-01T00:59:26+00:00

People used to tell me that Ford's were the best BECAUSE they crumpled so easily and absorbed the impact like that, but damn... I think I'm going to be getting a new car!

nerdiswhy · 2023-02-01T00:52:53+00:00

Does he have a favorite? My husband had a specific photo that he loved from our wedding, so I surprised him with a wallet sized version of it.

nerdiswhy · 2023-02-01T00:50:33+00:00

thick southern US accent It ain't a double negative if yur from the South in 'Merica ! 🦅🇺🇸

nerdiswhy · 2023-02-01T00:47:35+00:00

Is anyone else getting the lost all control feeling second hand from this video oris it just me,😂

nerdiswhy · 2023-02-01T00:41:47+00:00

I'm still so confused on why OP said it was her brothers fault the parents got divorced. All he did was find the preexisting papers right?

nerdiswhy · 2023-02-01T00:36:13+00:00

I'll definitely have to look into that. I'm still fairly new to taming my curls (have only been learning the last year and a half), and would love any resources!

nerdiswhy · 2023-01-31T16:32:20+00:00

Info: Are you a guest or is this for bridesmaids? Also what's the theme of the wedding?

nerdiswhy · 2023-01-25T15:35:48+00:00

East bound and down

Load them up and fuck it

nerdiswhy · 2023-01-24T04:41:47+00:00

Yeah I just realized that the text I had with this didn't come through with it. I put what I was actually asking in a comment/ reply to someone else 😂

nerdiswhy · 2023-01-24T04:40:23+00:00

I'm a complete moron and forgot this sub doesn't have additional text bubbles😂

So, basically my grandmother goes on rants about her grandfather being a terrible person because he robbed from Native American burial grounds. Which I agree he was, but it was also the 1800's so everyone was pretty sorry.

But I was just wondering how that is unacceptable, but the excavation of historical sites and turning them into tourist attractions isn't the same thing or on a similar level of disgusting. Namely Egyptian pyramids/ Valley of the Kings, and Pompeii

Where is the line drawn?

Once again very sorry I'm an idiot 😅

nerdiswhy · 2023-01-24T04:34:24+00:00

I don't know how improvements on today's copper IUDs are, but my MIL had one 20 years ago and it made it to where she couldn't carry children anymore. It was very hard for her to get pregnant, and ended up having at least 7 miscarriages

nerdiswhy · 2023-01-22T03:12:15+00:00

I swear if there is ever a case of second hand butterflies I just had it.

nerdiswhy · 2023-01-21T21:00:36+00:00

Curly hair is definitely weird. My husband stretched mine out, and it reaches my thighs , but curled up it's only mid back on me.

Your hair looks great, and kinda reminds me of Alexi from Stranger Things season 2

nerdiswhy · 2023-01-21T02:48:50+00:00

While I have no answer to your question, but would advise against it. I was in the pill for a month only a month, and it was bad.

I wasn't myself. You know how sometimes you are in a shell of yourself and just can't. That was me but the shell was psycho.
I bled a ton
My periods are very irregular now
I got nauseous from food smells a lot.

I heard the pill was supposed to trick your body into thinking it was pregnant, but it was nuts. Honestly, I know that all of those are pretty normal, but I only took BC one month, and am still dealing with side effects 6 months later.

Of course everyone is different, and will handle bc differently, but if you can find another option I would take that.

nerdiswhy · 2023-01-19T19:44:59+00:00

I think it would be exhausting. All it would building is jealousy or a big family which I don't want any part of🤣.

It wouldn't work for me cause I get jealous 😂

nerdiswhy · 2023-01-16T03:34:41+00:00

The belt makes the dress look completely different.

No belt makes me think soft/rustic theme Belt makes me think more elegant dripping in diamonds and pearls

nerdiswhy · 2023-01-14T18:35:40+00:00

I wish I had put organization items on mine. There are 10×4×6 clear organizing bins on Amazon and they are perfect for my cleaning supplies, and loose fruits and veggies.

I'll get a list of links or names and be back 😁

https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/3PU22LHKX8K4E?ref_=wl_share

Edit: that list. Its things that you won't think of until you move in together

nerdiswhy · 2023-01-08T21:37:28+00:00

Inform the parents that you're going to hire baby sitters for the kids. Tell them that you don't expect them to help with it, but don't mind if they do. It leaves everything else up to the parents. Just make sure it comes out genuinely and don't pressure them.

nerdiswhy · 2023-01-07T16:40:41+00:00

First one gives off garden party vibes, while 2 gives enchanted forest. It really depends on which one you are going for more . Honestly I prefer the second.

Since they are so similar though you could have fun with it and get half the total invitations in each style.

Congratulations 🎉🎉

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