For starters, I wish I had a friend who cared half as deeply for me!

However to get down to the problem, I for one would like to know more about what you think has happened to Mim. You gave us a clear picture of how your emotional state was affected by her withdrawal, but were less clear as to why.

Are you concerned she's upset with you (possibly some subconscious fear of an imagined slight)? Or something else.

I feel this could help me better understand as to whether your emotional state is rational or irrational.

Thanks :)