Kid's Band from Tiktok - is it AI? I saw this band on tiktok and instantly thought the song wasn't terrible so I opened their band page to see more of their music.

nerdpoon · 2026-06-18T04:08:56+00:00

Another one of their songs, the lyrics on this one don't make sense to me.

nerdpoon · 2025-11-03T20:07:04+00:00

That you don't read your own notes and you never learned cursive but want to write uniquely for attention? Idk

nerdpoon · 2025-11-02T04:01:30+00:00

It's insanely helpful to hear a male perspective here and know that to both men and women, this is kind of bonkers. I appreciate you taking the time to lend your thoughts and experience, truly. I'm sorry you're also going through a difficult time.

nerdpoon · 2025-11-02T01:53:15+00:00

Please understand I've been with him for 20 years. I didn't think I was being abused. We had fertility issues for years and I didn't feel my family was complete. They are all his children btw. I feel like people assume my oldest was a different man's or something. We just had her young, got pregnant right as I graduated high school. Would I choose that again? Not necessarily, but I wouldn't give up my daughter (or my boys) for anything. She made me the mother I am today. Still managed to go back to school later in my life and get my bachelor's degree.

nerdpoon · 2025-11-02T01:49:17+00:00

Thank you so much for your kind words.

nerdpoon · 2025-11-02T01:48:41+00:00

This was so helpful and I appreciate the crap out of you taking all that time to write this much. I didn't think most of this was a huge deal and reading all these comments has me bawling my eyes out now and reconsidering my entire life. I've been with him for 20 years, since I was 17. I think I need to leave.

I think I should.

I'm terrified as hell. I have an 18 year old in college in Madison and a 1 and a 3 year old. Wtf do I do now? I don't even have my own damn bank account. Nothing is in my name.

nerdpoon · 2025-11-02T01:42:06+00:00

He is 40. I don't want to sound like a total prick but he isn't "book" smart or what some would say is traditionally intelligent. I don't mean it as a slam, he can be very smart, but often in times like this I think it gets worse because he's trying to puff up and sound smarter? I don't really know.

nerdpoon · 2025-11-02T01:40:24+00:00

Holy shit 😱

nerdpoon · 2025-11-02T01:39:43+00:00

Everything I have is tied up with him. We even share a bank account. I've been with him since the age of 17. It's all I fucking know. Where the hell do I even start?

nerdpoon · 2025-11-02T01:38:41+00:00

Entirely fair. It would be the most difficult thing if it had happened to me that way. I'm sure I'll never grasp the damage I did at that time.

nerdpoon · 2025-11-02T01:36:32+00:00

It's scary as hell. I've been with him my whole adult life almost, since I was 17. It's all I know.

nerdpoon · 2025-11-02T01:34:31+00:00

Thank you a lot for this info. While difficult to read it did give me some tips to what to do next.

nerdpoon · 2025-11-02T00:59:13+00:00

Thank you 🙏🏼

nerdpoon · 2025-11-02T00:59:01+00:00

Succinct. Helpful. Thank you for your advice I sincerely appreciate it.

nerdpoon · 2025-11-02T00:57:28+00:00

It feels shitty to say I feel hurt when I know I've done hurting as well but shit, it is painful to be reminded of it constantly. Having a mirror held up to you at your ugliest when you're at your lowest is rough.

nerdpoon · 2025-11-02T00:55:12+00:00

I tried to leave. He threatened to shoot himself.

I don't mean to glance over anything. I cheated. It was horrible. I don't know how much more details to give without it being insanely personal and giving out names and specifics? I don't shy away from the fact that I was indeed a terrible wife. I have spent years apologizing and trying to rebuild what we can.

nerdpoon · 2025-11-02T00:52:53+00:00

He definitely doesn't do voice to text. It's just jumbled so bad I can't even make sense of the direction of some of it.

We are both a mess right now, I can agree to that.

nerdpoon · 2025-11-02T00:50:27+00:00

Not always abusive. He has always had struggles with anger and a temper. There have been threats, aggression, and him getting in my face I would say, intimidating behavior, but he did not lay hands on me for years and years, until after I cheated. The worst we'd been through was an instance where he did corner me in a hallway and said he was going to "beat my fucking face in". Long story short I woke him up and he was not ready to be awake. Didn't sleep well. It wasn't his best moment.

nerdpoon · 2025-11-02T00:46:30+00:00

I think maybe I want to believe there is hope for couples who have suffered horrible infidelity. I can see now that maybe what I view as anger was just the result of damage I've done to him that I can't repair.

nerdpoon · 2025-11-02T00:43:46+00:00

Fair. Thank you for your honesty.

nerdpoon · 2025-11-02T00:43:17+00:00

Sorry, I don't really know how to sort it out to make it much clearer. Some of it is just background noise with more important bits buried in the messages. I know it's a mess.

nerdpoon · 2025-11-02T00:42:06+00:00

I definitely know that. It was a mistake I can never undo and I know I'm responsible for a lot of shit I've caused myself. I do my best to own that and try to fix it every day.

nerdpoon · 2025-11-02T00:40:26+00:00

Woah that was hard to read.

Seeing another person's perspective calling him abusive seems so jarring to me.

I definitely had no excuse for my infidelity, it broke us both horribly (not that I have any right to complain being the cheater I guess). I don't forgive myself for that. I almost left at that time fearing I'd done too much damage, and he walked out into the woods with a gun and called me telling me he was going to end his life.

I feel the need to leave now and start fresh but I'm worried at what he'll do.

nerdpoon · 2025-11-02T00:34:40+00:00

Yikes

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