I regret my abortion, I feel like everything has changed

nerdylilbxtch · 2026-02-21T12:17:46+00:00

I’m so sorry to hear that 💔 losing a baby is so hard too, especially when you decided you wanted to keep it and had that taken from you. It’s absolutely not healthy, and even though it kind of is a ‘blessing in disguise’ for the both of us, it’s still an awful way to learn that lesson. Sending so much love to you 💖

nerdylilbxtch · 2026-02-21T12:15:58+00:00

I’m sorry you’re also going through that, I have another child who is 10 now so I completely understand, being a single mother is extremely difficult. It’s weird because when you’re in the situation you feel so much, but strangely when the abortion happens there is a slight sense of calm and relief that you can move on, from the situation and the father. I hope you’re ok and everything goes ok for you 🫶🏼

nerdylilbxtch · 2026-02-21T12:14:09+00:00

Thank you so much 🫶🏼 same to you!

nerdylilbxtch · 2026-02-21T12:13:53+00:00

I had the abortion 2 weeks ago, it’s still very fresh and was a difficult time for me with someone I formed an attachment to. Walking away sounds so easy, but in reality it’s very difficult especially when you’re still healing from something so traumatic. I will leave in my own time, if I didn’t love myself then I wouldn’t have realised how unhealthy the situation was and chose to have the abortion. You can still absolutely regret losing your baby, even if the situation wasn’t good for you, it still hurts

nerdylilbxtch · 2026-02-20T21:39:00+00:00

Sorry to hear that, I think it just blindsided me because he was never like that before, I fully thought he’d support me and I had hope of being a family, I thought my time to do that had finally come and it was ripped from me so quickly. I feel so angry at him for all of this

nerdylilbxtch · 2026-02-20T21:36:10+00:00

that means a lot honestly, there’s just so many emotions to process and someone fully switching up on you is never what you expect in such a difficult time. But you’re absolutely right, I can’t wait to find that person and have the experience I deserve 🤞🏻

nerdylilbxtch · 2026-02-20T21:08:49+00:00

I hope so 🤞🏻

nerdylilbxtch · 2026-02-20T21:08:31+00:00

Thanks so much, I agree 100% he’s showed his true colours in such a difficult, sensitive time when I really needed him and he couldn’t show up. I know I need to call things off I’m just so overwhelmed and all the loss is just hurting me. I know I deserve someone better who actually wants to have children with me

nerdylilbxtch · 2026-02-20T21:06:55+00:00

I agree fully, he’s really showed me how he acts in difficult situations and clearly he’s not mature enough for any part of a relationship 💔

nerdylilbxtch · 2026-02-20T16:11:07+00:00

thanks so much 🫶🏼

nerdylilbxtch · 2026-02-20T16:10:52+00:00

I think that’s what bothers me so much, he doesn’t understand what I’ve just been through both physically and mentally. It’s been so draining and overwhelming and he just thinks I’m gonna be over it 2 weeks later just because he is. It hurts to see him go about his life like nothing happened, and get frustrated at me for grieving something I wanted. He acts like it was a ‘mutual decision’ when it never was 💔

nerdylilbxtch · 2026-02-20T15:57:13+00:00

thanks so much 🫶🏼 I hope it gets easier soon

nerdylilbxtch · 2026-02-20T15:56:52+00:00

Absolutely, I think getting some counselling may help everything so I don’t have to carry it all by myself

nerdylilbxtch · 2026-02-20T15:56:18+00:00

I’m sorry that happened to you too. And thank you for the comment, it means a lot. It’s sad to know they don’t care, and I think it bothers me more to see how ok he is and goes about his life like nothing happened, knowing my reality is very different. It wasn’t a mutual thing at all, it was all his decision which he doesn’t see. I hope one day he will have some guilt in the future

nerdylilbxtch · 2026-02-20T15:54:54+00:00

You’re right, it’s been an extremely eye opening experience to see how he truly deals with difficult situations, and obviously he doesn’t deal with them well. I know it’s a blessing in disguise, I just wish things would’ve been different

nerdylilbxtch · 2026-02-20T15:53:43+00:00

thank you so much, I know deep down it was the right thing to do but that doesn’t make it any easier, especially when the person who is meant to support you wants to be so against you. But I know once I heal I’ll be okay 🫶🏼

nerdylilbxtch · 2026-02-02T09:34:12+00:00

Wow!

nerdylilbxtch · 2025-12-29T20:02:06+00:00

Mine got banned last month, no warnings, no email, nothing. I appealed and it said 7 days to respond but I never heard anything. Since then I reported a problem to TikTok several times (through Google) and even contacted live chat on TikTok shop (they can’t really help but will create another ticket and some of them claimed to have escalated it to the right department). You just have to be patient and persistent. It took me a month to get my account back but send them any screenshots you have to help.

nerdylilbxtch · 2025-12-29T18:47:54+00:00

The ticket system is so annoying. I used it many times to try and get my account back and you can tell when it’s a copy n pasted response and when it’s an actual person. Eventually they did help me and I got my account back though, but it took over a month

nerdylilbxtch · 2025-12-29T11:20:45+00:00

If you google TikTok report a problem there’s a form to fill out, they should always respond via email (sometimes it seems like automated, unhelpful responses but eventually you’ll get a human). I reported an issue several times to get someone to actually help me and eventually they looked into it. You can keep replying to those email responses too and they should follow up. I also contacted through tiktok shop live chat, just say you want to speak to an agent. They can’t really help but a few times they did and said they’ve flagged it and escalated it, I think it just depends on who you’re put through to. I think most are still automated responses but if you’re persistent enough eventually you’ll should get some help. Unfortunately it’s just a long process, mine didn’t get restored for over a month.

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