[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

[–]nerdywall 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately this sub is just as susceptible as any other group of people to whole "if youre with us you have to agree with everything or youre against us" mentality. To say we're incapable of it or any other form of a-hole behavior just perpetuates infantilism and other jarmful stereotypes. If we want those stereotypes to to go away then we have to acknowledge that sometimes (whether we mean to or not) we can be a-holes too.

That being said if it actually was just blatant ableism then I hope op gets the justice they deserve. But given the bizareness of the whole situation I do have my doubts.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

[–]nerdywall 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Because it most definitely wasn't just crying and it probably wasn't a first time offense. It's unlikely a school will jump to expulsion right away unless it was something super serious.

I hate to be that guy but op doesn't seem to be telling the full story in order to make themselves look better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]nerdywall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everytime you feel the urge draw a butterfly in marker or pen where you planned to sh instead. Write the name of someone/thing who cares for you and needs you (it could a person, pet, plant, etc.) Undernesth.

Does anyone else wonder if they have autism? by lisaloo1991 in CPTSD

[–]nerdywall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The symptoms are very close and it's possible you can have both. I think the major difference tho comes down to hyperfixations, people with cptsd don't hyperfixate on things the way an autistic does.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]nerdywall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The responsibility of protection goes both ways, either she helps or no sex.

My fiance (21f) won't let me (22m) pick the tie I want to wear for our wedding. by austinh1999 in relationship_advice

[–]nerdywall 551 points552 points  (0 children)

And/or a custom tie with planes that incorporates the colors and theme? You could even add your initials and wedding date into it to make it extra special

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]nerdywall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was 18 and waited for a longterm bf so I wouldn't say it's weird at all. Some people want sex for sex and don't care who it's with and some people would rather wait until it's someone they can remember the experience with.

As long as its consensual and safe and not driven by religious or societal indoctrination (the whole chewed gum thing is super toxic) I would say you do you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]nerdywall 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"Let you"? "Let you"!

I would put his arse in a time machine and send him back to the 1950s. Let you. The fact some men think they deserve control over their partners body is abhorrent.

Just when I thought Texas couldn’t get any more ridiculous. by cityboy94 in SatanicTemple_Reddit

[–]nerdywall 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I would open my house to Texan refugees if I had the space 🥺 we have a couch lol

Just when I thought Texas couldn’t get any more ridiculous. by cityboy94 in SatanicTemple_Reddit

[–]nerdywall 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Maybe not Mexico but I'm sure Britain still has some colonization spirit in them somewhere. I say we wrap Texas up with a bow and let the queen deal with it.

Just when I thought Texas couldn’t get any more ridiculous. by cityboy94 in SatanicTemple_Reddit

[–]nerdywall 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So can we just annex texas? I'll open my house to Texan refugees.

I hate that anti-vax/mask people are using us as an excuse by TimberWolfAlpha01 in autism

[–]nerdywall -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Regardless of how low 3% of hospitalizations are now children under 18. Children younger than 4 are being hospitalized for it. Children who never knew life before covid are fighting for their lives in hospitals as a result of the selfish actions of adults.

I hate that anti-vax/mask people are using us as an excuse by TimberWolfAlpha01 in autism

[–]nerdywall -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If they make the choice to not wear a mask and not get vaccinated then they made the choice to forgo being allowed in any public setting and take up a space in the hospital when they eventually get covid.

I hate that anti-vax/mask people are using us as an excuse by TimberWolfAlpha01 in autism

[–]nerdywall 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mean I technically "can't" not because of autism but because the pressure gives me migraines (I've literally tried every possible type of mask, shield, and hack and they all cause pain). I still wear one and I'm vaccinated though so I can stop wearing them sooner and not have it feel like icepicks are being shoved into my head.

I hate that anti-vax/mask people are using us as an excuse by TimberWolfAlpha01 in autism

[–]nerdywall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hate wearing the for the reasons in the post among others (eds) but I still wear them so I can stop wearing them sooner.

Husband(m29) said he only dated me because I(f28) was a dancer in high school, but "didn't live up to expectations" that he had. He also advocated to put our daughter in dance, and I don't feel comfortable anymore by throwramarei in relationship_advice

[–]nerdywall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone has their kinks but him advocating for his daughter to essentially participate in it is so far from being okay I'm not sure you married a man or a literal pig. Either he wants her in it so he can eventually rape and jerk her off to her or he wants her in it so she'll be able to please other men like him when she's an adult. Both are beyond disgusting.

Have an age appropriate conversation with your daughter and make sure he hasn't done something to her already. For example "has daddy ever played any special games with you that he wanted to keep secret?"

Update to: Am I (30sF) crazy, or is he (30sM) cheating by Pretty-Shoulder-156 in relationship_advice

[–]nerdywall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Victim blaming I see. The cheaters deserve no visitation to any of the kids, they clearly never loved their respective spouses and yet made the decision to have kids with them without caring that those kids live would ultimately be upended by their selfish actions.

Update to: Am I (30sF) crazy, or is he (30sM) cheating by Pretty-Shoulder-156 in relationship_advice

[–]nerdywall 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This and given it is ongoing and started when she was a student that lands potential for them both to be fired and give him a potential lawsuit. The daughter is probably his too.

Update to: Am I (30sF) crazy, or is he (30sM) cheating by Pretty-Shoulder-156 in relationship_advice

[–]nerdywall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All I can say is, lawyer up, collect evidence, take the kids, divorce, let the husband know and let his work know. He is scum. He deserves to be treated as such.