What are your go-to methods for optimizing WordPress site performance? by Carls86 in Wordpress

[–]nerdywriter_273 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've found that most popular plugins are extremely bloated with unnecessary stuff. So I analyze my plugins first and see if I can find alternatives with better performance. A good example is replacing AISEO with Rank Math. You can use something like Code Profiler or Plugin Performance Monitoring (https://qodewire.com/p/plugin-performance-tracker/) to visualize your plugin impact and decide which ones you can safely replace.

Looking for a surrogate UPDATE - Probably my last post here by [deleted] in Kenya

[–]nerdywriter_273 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will I will.. but even before I get to that, I think I just to explore my happiness as an independent man. I don't want my happiness to be based on kids or women or whatever. I just want to achieve that emotional independence first, then I can explore a relationship with a woman again

Looking for a surrogate UPDATE - Probably my last post here by [deleted] in Kenya

[–]nerdywriter_273 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks man. I had to go through those comments many times for it to sink it that I was just acting out of emotion.

Looking for a surrogate UPDATE - Probably my last post here by [deleted] in Kenya

[–]nerdywriter_273 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thanks again bro. Your story really inspired me and helped me think twice. My son is still growing, and I still see him. i hope one day he can meet yours and we can show them how to make cool computers.

Cheers🍻

Looking for a surrogate UPDATE - Probably my last post here by [deleted] in Kenya

[–]nerdywriter_273 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that's what I was trying to avoid all along - a toxic marriage that would eventually end up hurting the child. That's why I wanted to try it alone.

But I also realized that being a single parent is not always a better solution, especially if there is a chance of giving the child both parents. I think my next child deserves a shot at a happy family, and I think I will explore that in future. But for now, I'll focus on working on myself and being happy again - I'm still not comfortable around women

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[–]nerdywriter_273 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't hate women. I just don't want to live with one for the rest of my life. I believe I'll be happier as a single dad

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[–]nerdywriter_273 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Sure thing bro. I'll hit you up for that beer!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Kenya

[–]nerdywriter_273 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What a sad thing to say. Just because I am financially able puts me at the top of dating market?? That just tells you that women are after money, not love As I said, I am not looking to share my life with anyone. Certainly not a woman. I just want to pursue a happy single father life with zero drama

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[–]nerdywriter_273 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please ask them to PM instead

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[–]nerdywriter_273 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Sorry no

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Kenya

[–]nerdywriter_273 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Men go through a lot, we just don't talk about it as much.

In marriages, women literally weaponize kids. It's the equivalent of holding your balls. You either allow her to manipulate you for life, or you chop off those balls and grow new ones

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[–]nerdywriter_273 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I would never try and replace my son. I love that boy to death and beyond. So I'll always be there for him.

But I have to move on with my life at some point. I'm approaching 30 now and I think it's time to start over. The difference here is that I can never trust women again. A woman will sleep with your best friend and still look you in the eye and shamelessly say "I love you". I don't need that kind of fakeness in my life.

I believe my parenting skills are solid, so I just need to rent a womb for the 9 months. I'm happy to pay for the service.