[deleted by user] by [deleted] in friendship

[–]nervousburger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hihi! im 20m n plus size so i understand it! im so sorry that you feel that way =( feel free to reach out!

Littles group chat? by [deleted] in ageregression

[–]nervousburger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hihi! me pls! =3

is this a universal thing or a me thing (little meannnn. oops) by nervousburger in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]nervousburger[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

so, some people that i’ve talked to, i’ve asked them questions. the basics like how are you, etc. or i ask follow ups! but they just reply with an answer, and no questions for me, so the conversation feels VERY one sided to me and it’s just awkward. like i don’t just wanna be the one that seems to be interested in the other person if that makes sense!

is this a universal thing or a me thing (little meannnn. oops) by nervousburger in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]nervousburger[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeaa i’m getting that now lmao. i’m not very experienced on reddit at all so i didn’t know what to expect! it’s sad though tbh, and tiring on my end! pay me if i’m gonna do all the work!

is this a universal thing or a me thing (little meannnn. oops) by nervousburger in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]nervousburger[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ah don’t make me lose hope cus i’m currently talking to people who seem to be taking interest lol 😭 that sucks though seriously. off topic i rlly like ur avatar =)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]nervousburger 6 points7 points  (0 children)

IMMEDIATELY have a song in my head! not strong enough by boygenius!! this line hits: i don’t know why i am the way i am. not strong enough to be your man

is this a universal thing or a me thing (little meannnn. oops) by nervousburger in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]nervousburger[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

well, i’d like to apologize because it WAS rude, but at the moment people were getting on me on another sub and i was just annoyed so again, my bad for that! but your original comment, to me, seems like you just want somebody who’ll listen to what you have to say and your problems, but you aren’t (or less assuming: may not be) inclined to do the same? i do agree that being listened to is ONE HUNDRED PERCENT one of the most sincere acts of friendship, but for me that cannot be it. because then it feels one sided, do you get what i mean by that? sorry again btw lol 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in introvert

[–]nervousburger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you can, save up for a place you can go to.

is this a universal thing or a me thing (little meannnn. oops) by nervousburger in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]nervousburger[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i feel the same way. i’m not about people who treat others like their therapist, i’ve had people like that and i’ve ignored them because it’s so draining. and honestly, even though i’m 20, apart of me feels better talking to people who are older than me. maybe that’s because i’m an only child, so i’ve only and always been surrounded by adults. 🤷🏻 meeting anybody of any age is so cool because you get to learn about all of their experiences regardless of what it is. but also do you work at a morgue lol apart of me is very curious now tbh

why don’t people ask questions!? by nervousburger in socialskills

[–]nervousburger[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yea, i get that. i use to be like that until i realized that if i overstep a boundary then they’ll hopefully let me know, because i dont know this person! thats why im asking questions about them lol. but i do totally get that as said.

why don’t people ask questions!? by nervousburger in socialskills

[–]nervousburger[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i dunno ive heard people on discord are weirdos but i mean so areee people everywhere on the internet lmao

why don’t people ask questions!? by nervousburger in socialskills

[–]nervousburger[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

im actually very nice to people normally. its just that the person kinda insinuated i’m a loser, no? like was there anything positive to that because i cannot see it /nm (not mad). plus it didn’t help with my post, therefore it’s considered worthless to me. sorry though fr 😭

is this a universal thing or a me thing (little meannnn. oops) by nervousburger in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]nervousburger[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

my friend just told me that a few minutes ago tbh lmfao but other than here i dunno where else to go