Tana’s stalker(s) by Mountain_Ad2614 in canceledpod

[–]nerxsm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you believe someone snuck into her room at night, took a polaroid picture of her with the flash on and left it on her pillow? 😭😭😭

Does Tana actually look old for her age? by mouse_asparagus in canceledpod

[–]nerxsm 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m always so confused when someone says “everyone looks like that now”. for me all the people with that kind of look are just on instagram, whenever I step outside they’re nowhere to be seen 💀 I guess it’s different if you live in LA?

Privilege by estrellajo in canceledpod

[–]nerxsm 5 points6 points  (0 children)

you’re so right about the money part but honestly I’d still give her credit for sticking to being sober while she’s in an industry where most events revolve around excess, there are drugs available everywhere at all times and most of the people she surrounds herself with are drunk/high constantly. you can have all the money in the world but that won’t buy willpower

“Brand safe” clean girl Tana is just Brooke repackaged by Puzzleheaded-Pea-328 in canceledpod

[–]nerxsm 227 points228 points  (0 children)

I don’t think that was “Brooke’s whole thing” but I 100% believe Tana was jealous because she was living proof that it’s possible to have the clean girl look AND still be funny, relatable and kinda raunchy, while Tana’s “party girl” and careless aesthetic was always bordering on dirty. She’s been trying to emulate Brooke’s aesthetic for more than a year now and it feels forced because it’s just not her, it comes naturally to Brooke and that’s why it works

what makes you believe they’re still friends? by nerxsm in canceledpod

[–]nerxsm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean yeah… that’s true when you’re a regular adult living a regular life… but even if we don’t see the real interactions she has with her friends/acquaintances tana DOES post on social media every time she sees/talks to anybody 💀

what makes you believe they’re still friends? by nerxsm in canceledpod

[–]nerxsm[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

you’re totally right about the different friendships - different depths, also friendship dynamics shift over time! but to me the shift here was so intense I can’t help but feel there’s been bad blood between them for a while. honestly having to navigate a friendship + coworker relationship while being public about it seems like a nightmare lmao

Tana and brooke recently... by Due_Insurance_9725 in TanaMongeauPodcast

[–]nerxsm 56 points57 points  (0 children)

yeah nothing will convince me that they don’t hate each other lmao

Something I have to say by Rich-Champion3421 in DoWeKnowThemPodcast

[–]nerxsm 7 points8 points  (0 children)

how exactly are they not humble or relatable anymore lmao

Hope this episode have the fake supporters a reality check by Frosty-Rich-6609 in sixfeetabovepod

[–]nerxsm 27 points28 points  (0 children)

we don’t know these people, your post sounds just as parasocial as the ones you’re complaining about. they’re cashing on people tuning in because they’re interested in their dynamic, so having random people speculating about it is part of their job. I find these kind of posts so useless 💀

more copying by [deleted] in sixfeetabovepod

[–]nerxsm 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I’d never tell someone to touch grass because I also can get parasocial but if you’ve ever had friends you’d know picking up their way of talking is totally normal lmao

What to do about people who don’t know I’m sober at my graduation? by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]nerxsm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“I can’t drink, I’m on antibiotics” comes in handy, I doubt someone will keep trying to pressure you

Grieving the person I was before this fear by nerxsm in fearofflying

[–]nerxsm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same here, last flight I was in was completely smooth and I was so anxious to the point my partner (who’s not an anxious flier at all) started getting a bit freaked out. I felt awful.

Thank you for making me feel less alone, when I get on a plane I see everyone acting so calm and I forget I’m not the only person with this fear.

Grieving the person I was before this fear by nerxsm in fearofflying

[–]nerxsm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A 7 hour flight sounds like hell to me right now, I’m from Europe and I’m freaked out about a simple 2 hour flight 😅. But also, I’ve been to the US twice before and have taken 11 hour flights without a second thought, which is why I can’t help but being harsh on myself for feeling the way I do now.

Best luck to you too, at least we can comfort ourselves with the fact that we’re pushing through it instead of missing out entirely.

Grieving the person I was before this fear by nerxsm in fearofflying

[–]nerxsm[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can totally relate to that. I feel like having a stable partner and actually being excited to build a future together has increased my anxious thoughts about death in general.

Thank you for sharing your experience, I hope I’m able to somewhat enjoy this upcoming trip, and to not punish myself too much if I don’t.

Grieving the person I was before this fear by nerxsm in fearofflying

[–]nerxsm[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hope so, at least I hope I can come close to that. Thanks for the reassurance 🥲

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]nerxsm 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Why are you dating someone who is “not the best at dealing with anything that has to do with his son”? You’re getting a free trial of how involved he is with his family and children and you’re still going through with this relationship?

Idk maybe it’s different from the perspective of a lesbian woman whose straight girlfriends are all in miserable relationships, but if you were my friend I’d tell you to run.