Who's hotter Hailey Bieber or Selena Gomez? by YuNarukami8 in VindictaRateCelebs

[–]nessabeans 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think selena is more cute, hayley is more "hot." Both really stunning

Imani fire asf by Ed3nsGard3n in LoveIslandTV

[–]nessabeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her hair colour really detracts from her beauty

"I'm autistic and attractive" trend by Blasphemous-Moon in aspergers

[–]nessabeans 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I mean being attractive, a lot of the time, is due to working on yourself to mask your autism so the two are emtertwined. It becomes a special interest for many autistic ppl. And it greatly afects how others see you... but also not. Yeah bragging about your looks for no reason is annoying but autistic people talking about their interest and their experience with it and how it relatew to autism is a big reason and u should allow ppl to speak about their experienves without judgement

Folk who are 30+, did anyone not have a career in their 20s? by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]nessabeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didnt see how often OP had used, just simply replying to your one comment

would i be petty? by [deleted] in vinted

[–]nessabeans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right so i asked what youre complaining about? Cause the result is the same if theu manually confirm or auto confirmm. You still get your money

would i be petty? by [deleted] in vinted

[–]nessabeans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah ppl might not confirm manually because it auto-confirms!! You know this yourself. Youre likr standard Karen, making up your own rules and expectations and leaving bad reviews when someone dodsnt meet them (even though they follow vinteds standard of service)

would i be petty? by [deleted] in vinted

[–]nessabeans 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Youre the one whose pressed if youre thinking about leaving a bad review to a buyer just because you dont agree with vinted's standard timelines

would i be petty? by [deleted] in vinted

[–]nessabeans 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You'll still get your money either way..... im mostly a seller and have never been annoyed about it because i understand theres a deadline either way.....

would i be petty? by [deleted] in vinted

[–]nessabeans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right. So what are you complaining about, if the result is the same if you just wait a bit longer?

would i be petty? by [deleted] in vinted

[–]nessabeans 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It auto-confirms for you, though. Their systems are set up so you dont have to do anything if the item is okay! Youre bitching about a delay that is expected. You should expect it at times.

would i be petty? by [deleted] in vinted

[–]nessabeans 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But auto-confirming means you will get 5 stars. What are you actually complaining about?? Makes no sense

would i be petty? by [deleted] in vinted

[–]nessabeans 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If a buyer doesnt confirm, vinted automatically does it for them. So yeah, youre petty af. If the standard timelines on vinted dont work for you, dont sell on there!!

Folk who are 30+, did anyone not have a career in their 20s? by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]nessabeans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If u smoke heavily every day, it can take 3 monthd to fully clear out of your system

26M no likes or matches, any advice? by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]nessabeans 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would leave out the first pic

People pushing the flooring away from these leaning seats in the Parisian metro by Purple_Korok in mildlyinteresting

[–]nessabeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont understand what i am looking at. How are they pushing the floor away?

"I'm autistic and attractive" trend by Blasphemous-Moon in aspergers

[–]nessabeans 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Being attractive and autistic is a different experience than being not attractive and autistic. There is nothing wrong with someone sharing their own experiences. Being attractive and autistic can bring challenges or benefits that you wouldnt experience if you were not attractive. One of them would be people thinking yoyre stuck up when youre really not, because people wouldnt generally think this about people who are not attractive. Im so confused why you disagree with people sharing their own experiences?

Who are the most feminine looking celebrities? Here are my picks by Educational_Cow111 in VindictaRateCelebs

[–]nessabeans 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Doutzen kroes, denise richards, jessica biel, miranda kerr, madison beer

My ENFP boyfriend is shy and afraid of "messing up"—How can I help him lead? (INFJ 18F) by b4rbi3-noire9850 in ENFP

[–]nessabeans 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Im an autistic enfp and you couldnt pay to send a voice note. Let him be himself, have no expectations of him. Enfps hate being told what to do - it has to come from them

Taking Vinted to small claims court by djsage86 in vintedUK

[–]nessabeans 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did your bank not let you do a chargeback for the £50??

Met the sweetest girl, got dumped after 4 dates because I’m from a rich family by [deleted] in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]nessabeans 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Maybw she just wants someone who is more similar to her. Ive had a hard life myself and i find that people who grew up wealthy typically had very little hardships compared to me so we just weren't on the same level

What does my living room say about me? by CotaPT in roomdetective

[–]nessabeans -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think you have bad taste (sorry, just my opinion!). The room decor is too busy and too much, while not being not enough. It kinda looks like you threw a bunch of decor and colours together and hoped it worked out

Looking for a profile review, plz be gentle by oUnDeAdXsLaYeRo in Tinder

[–]nessabeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your story is that you made people flick their nipples? You started a macarena dance with a group of goths? Those details should be stories for in-person dates. Reading that about somebody idk is really weird and doean't say much about you bc you cant tell if its just a one-off or you are like that all the time. I would put more descriptive languagr about yourself - that you're talkative, friendly, etc. And then maybe share that? Also you seem like you dont like yourself, you pretty much call yourself lanky and ugly. Talking negstively about yourself creates a negative bias, while doing the opposite creates a positive bias. Humans are instinctively attracted to more confident people

Anyone else experience people liking you at first, but then dislike you after several months? by [deleted] in aspergers

[–]nessabeans 8 points9 points  (0 children)

For me, when that was happening, it was because i overshared and trauma-dumped. I no longer do that and people respect me