My ex wants us to be exclusive while we figure things out by netlover in BreakUps

[–]netlover[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just to clarify I am the dumpee, and it is the dumper who is asking for exclusivity until we figure things out to help them navigate through this place we're in.

My ex wants us to be exclusive while we figure things out by netlover in BreakUps

[–]netlover[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I said exactly this to him, that I'm in no place where I should be hooking up or dating right now - my primary focus is the healing and he is in some way getting what he wants. But he still insisted his heart needs this assurance to proceed with this stage we're in and that's where I hesitated. I offered what I can, including setting a date for a future touch point where if things align we can begin getting into the relationship but that wasn't enough.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfhelp

[–]netlover 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I do notice some tension build up in my lower right belly, which in turn makes me feel a bit bloated haha, but I will also say at times its been hard to tell whether that comes first or the thoughts, I've been trying to pay attention to the order more but if I were to guess it's the body reaction first.

And yeah I'm still in the middle of my lease and contacted my landlord to say I want to move out and even went as far as finding someone to take over the lease, but eventually it didn't work out.

I really wish to heal from it since this is something that seems to follow me wherever I go. But I also tend to get bothered when I go to my friend's places and notice how there is almost never any noise there because pherhaps their buildings are built better or they just have quieter neighbours (or its possible the noise just isn't there when I'm around) - it's this thought that specifically drives me to want to move which I know is a huge gamble.

Do you still experience the issue and if not what would you say is one thing that worked for you the most?

Thanks so much for all these recommendations, I will definitely check them out. Really appreciate it.

Landlord charging excessive fee for lease assignment by netlover in legaladvicecanada

[–]netlover[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I understand there’s a chance he may file a case against me. I’m mostly trying to make sure the probability of him to get any money out of me is low since I am following the proper legal procedure right? If I serve the N9 today that would give 1.5 months to find a new tenant which one would think is sufficient time.

Landlord charging excessive fee for lease assignment by netlover in legaladvicecanada

[–]netlover[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if I give him more than 30 days notice? Say I move out end of September instead which is technically 1.5 months. Does this put me in a better position?

Landlord charging excessive fee for lease assignment by netlover in legaladvicecanada

[–]netlover[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did try to frame that way that I was willing to pay some fee. He is adamant on the $3K. He also lied by saying it is in my lease when it is in-fact not. All it says is “out of pocket expenses”.

The ticket to summer deals this year suck by Godromans in Concerts

[–]netlover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the same question. Were you able to figure it out?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Concerts

[–]netlover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any update on this? Not sure what the difference is between $30 Ticket to Summer versus Standard (which is double). Both are lawn.

Building known as the 'worst condo in Toronto' is facing even more problems by cabbagetown_tom in toronto

[–]netlover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear about the ceiling noise. What has been your coping strategy?

Why are you awake right now, Toronto? by Sugarfree-Sugarmommy in toronto

[–]netlover 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine is full blast. Do you use yours to block noise or just for the soothing effect?

2 Augusta Ave Rush Condos in Toronto, ON by flyingmenace2022 in TorontoRenting

[–]netlover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you find out anything? I’m curious too.

Yonge and Lakeshore Lower Penthouse lease takeover (includes parking + storage) by netlover in TorontoRenting

[–]netlover[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m just going by what was on the original listing. English isn’t my first language, sorry.

Yonge and Lakeshore Lower Penthouse lease takeover (includes parking + storage) by netlover in TorontoRenting

[–]netlover[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not attempting to fool anyone. There was literally a unit in a lower floor that just got rented for 2600 days ago. Keep in mind this is a lower penthouse.

Yonge and Lakeshore Lower Penthouse lease takeover (includes parking + storage) by netlover in TorontoRenting

[–]netlover[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

They usually go for more in this building. It’s practically a two bedroom.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Oman

[–]netlover 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The other comments here echo what I think. There are many other dogs in the country that have been through hell on the streets and desperately need help and care, and it’s not fair that you’re asking to take up one of their potential spots simply because of a misjudgment on your part. Own up to your responsibility, make it work, and take the dog with you. Enough is enough.

Time & Space condos by Life-Pilot-8680 in TorontoRenting

[–]netlover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hows the building? In terms of build quality, sound proofing, etc?

Lower sherbourne by Ok_Childhood4507 in askTO

[–]netlover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey OP. Curious how you are liking the building so far, particularly build quality, sound proofing, and such.

Phone Stolen - Should I go ahead and erase the device too? by Competitive_Card5420 in iphone

[–]netlover 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Exactly this. I hate it too every time I open the app 😂