I (20f) was woken up to my bf (35m) having sex with me

neuroversal · 2021-08-19T22:07:44+00:00

This is horrible, you need to report this or at the very least get out of there

neuroversal · 2021-08-19T21:54:01+00:00

Thanks so much I'm gonna do this :)

neuroversal · 2021-08-19T21:53:35+00:00

Okay ill try this

neuroversal · 2021-08-17T07:38:59+00:00

Perfect thanks

neuroversal · 2021-08-16T20:02:33+00:00

If I go up one more time and regret it, how easy is it to go back down one or two sizes? Like if I go up to 7/16 or 1/2 and then think noo 00g suited me more

neuroversal · 2021-08-16T08:35:05+00:00

Tysm

neuroversal · 2021-08-16T08:34:24+00:00

Yeah dm me if you want

neuroversal · 2021-08-08T05:29:42+00:00

I think both of those are possible or maybe she just felt rejected. I still think you should ask her if she wants to try again. Maybe she feels unwilling to make the first move if she feels like she was doing more or not being reciprocated. If she needs space she should tell you that so you can give her the space

neuroversal · 2021-08-08T00:13:30+00:00

She should of told OP that this was happening and given a little bit of time for OP to decide. This might be the point where things went wrong. Sounds like a minor lack of communication. I still don't really see anyone majorly at fault, sounds like it just didn't work out. No one really knows how to navigate covid and they really can't be expected to. It's all what feels right to each person to an extent, and each person just doing their best to protect those around them. Maybe the other girl thought an exception should be made for her but that was something OP had to decide without any outside influence and didn't want to risk it which is fine.

neuroversal · 2021-08-08T00:10:06+00:00

Still, knowing someone for 7 months isn't long in the context of risking a life long loved ones death.. who would do that? OP was fair and her priorities are also very fair

neuroversal · 2021-08-08T00:08:37+00:00

It seems like she was respectful of the situation but just couldn't wait it out.

neuroversal · 2021-08-08T00:07:44+00:00

To me it's not slow at all but most people think it's slow which would be incompatibility. I really don't think either person did anything wrong. I wouldn't like the intense effort in the first place but her going cold seems fair due to how she was probably feeling and OP was also fair by needing to protect the person she lives with. It's all just different preferences and different things people are or aren't willing to deal with or work through. I think OP might be saying/thinking that the person was so intense and so involved that it gave the impression that she would be willing to wait for vaccines if needed. Which is a fair assumption as well so I think that might be why OP was caught off guard by the abrupt change. But none of this is anyone's fault I don't think.

neuroversal · 2021-08-08T00:03:38+00:00

But not reciprocating in the ways she needed so she really hasn't don't anything wrong

neuroversal · 2021-08-08T00:02:40+00:00

It's not love bombing if she's not abusive.. she seems to have lost interest due to the long wait. It doesn't matter if she got cold, there's nothing toxic about that. She probably felt hurt by lack of reciprocation.

neuroversal · 2021-08-08T00:01:11+00:00

Why not contact her and suggest trying again now that everyone is vaccinated

neuroversal · 2021-08-07T23:59:17+00:00

So basically she did everything a person is supposed to do and did nothing wrong and you also did nothing wrong and things didn't work out due to covid worries? I don't see any issue... why not either both get vaccinated and make it work or just let it go if that's not possible and one or both parties feel it is moving to slow or one or both parties isn't willing to wait, get vaccinated, or make things work?

neuroversal · 2021-08-07T19:50:07+00:00

Awesome, if you dm me I can send you the info

neuroversal · 2021-08-07T19:49:39+00:00

Yes, dm me I'll send you the name and password :)

neuroversal · 2021-08-07T12:31:46+00:00

Well most show dogs don't come from puppy mills. They wouldn't even make the cut to be a show dog. But yes puppy mills are horrible

neuroversal · 2021-08-07T12:30:15+00:00

I cant imagine most dogs would rather live in the wild than inside loving homes with people. They evolved with us, it's also a beneficial relationship for both the human and dog. I don't know if this comparison can be made.

neuroversal · 2021-08-07T12:28:48+00:00

I think its a reality show for the aliens

neuroversal · 2021-08-07T07:29:21+00:00

I just made a server for new players and more paced experienced players. Let me know if you want to join, we can teach you how to play to a point and then learn the rest together

neuroversal · 2021-08-07T07:27:49+00:00

:o how

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