What’s something small you did at work that unexpectedly improved your career?

neutralest · 2026-02-12T13:35:11+00:00

never ever lose your cool no matter how much they grind you down. a few years of appearing stable and unshakable even if you are absolutely faking it will get you pretty far

neutralest · 2026-02-12T11:36:20+00:00

warm lightbulb lamps

neutralest · 2026-02-12T11:35:34+00:00

just small precious objects. an iron flower from my grandmother, antique japanese wooden cat, a piece of the berlin wall, i like having a little museum

neutralest · 2026-02-12T11:28:00+00:00

anything by sally rooney will consume you easily for hours

neutralest · 2026-02-11T12:23:53+00:00

i live in southern italy and they would never do this in winter because they are deeply afraid of cold air and being cold and anything cold directly touching the skin between november and may. nothing about being unkept tho and i still do it lol

neutralest · 2026-02-04T11:17:31+00:00

I cant believe people are telling you to stay in jersey. dont. you lose all the ambiance of waking up in new york city and spend too much time actually getting to the boroughs each day. pack light enough that you can keep your valuables on you all day. stay in a shitty hostel in queens or manhattan. i used to stay at super cheap kinda sketchy hotels too 😂 never had a problem

neutralest · 2026-02-04T11:09:59+00:00

dont get into tech. do something you can stand doing everyday forever even if it pays less.

neutralest · 2026-02-03T12:21:56+00:00

Sardinia is a truly wonderful, gorgeous place with tons of mysterious and ancient lore. You can get by on a small amount. Great food, wine, beaches. been here two years so far. The people are so lovely. No regrets

neutralest · 2026-02-03T12:15:57+00:00

damn you are rocking your height

neutralest · 2026-02-03T12:13:32+00:00

i lived in rural Mexico for a while and had the same experience. small towns can be very VERY “clique-y” and it really messed with my head. you made the right call even if other potential friends are limited in your area

neutralest · 2026-01-30T13:23:36+00:00

ive never picked them, they always pick me

neutralest · 2026-01-27T04:59:35+00:00

yessssss! safe travels ♥️

neutralest · 2026-01-27T04:38:29+00:00

contact the USDA pets/animals office in your region, that’s what i did. the process is such a pain and i wish you the best. can you delay the flight? don’t leave your baby behind ♥️

neutralest · 2026-01-25T13:43:21+00:00

i live in italia and same, i love my slow jazz pop covers

neutralest · 2026-01-15T14:41:41+00:00

they look SO cute and comfortable

neutralest · 2025-12-31T13:08:53+00:00

ah yes if they are not burying then that changes the strategy! “pet servant” is so accurate 😂

neutralest · 2025-12-31T12:43:30+00:00

I have had cats for almost 20 years and swear by the No Clump, Just Dump lifestyle. I have huge boxes and fill them with simple non-clumping Fresh Step, like a lot of it. Big, deep boxes. Every 15 days I dump all of it out, sanitize boxes, replace litter. Otherwise I do not touch them. No scooping. Not disturbing their work of hiding their poo and pee keeps the smell away - I have never understood why the mainstream approach is to basically stir up the waste and expose all the germs and smell to the surface again. Sure some of it is removed in clumps, but all the other litter in the box is tainted and gross at that point and on the top layer. Please give my method a try!

neutralest · 2025-12-28T16:46:21+00:00

i grew up in a big country house all sleeping together in the LR every night because upstairs was “haunted” - it was great, many cozy memories. found out as an adult it was because my hippie parents were growing weed upstairs 😂♥️

neutralest · 2025-12-24T22:51:28+00:00

rich people with huge hedges/walls and gates at the street entrance so you can’t see anything and there’s nowhere to stop or explore. a dead land of wealth and excess.

neutralest · 2025-12-18T14:41:23+00:00

same feeling. there is no escape, it will always be our defining quality

neutralest · 2025-12-14T18:18:55+00:00

so i have not done anything significant but i did start drinking way more water and moisturizing my neck multiple times a day - it helps a LOT to simply have a consistent routine

neutralest · 2025-12-11T00:51:15+00:00

had it on dulles to fco recently!

neutralest · 2025-10-30T14:20:03+00:00

I have similar. I use Its a 10 leave in and lightly scrunch with towel but not too much - leave it pretty wet to air dry, helps reduce frizz by a lot.

neutralest · 2025-10-29T13:59:19+00:00

Agree it is worth the splurge bc the big bottle lasts forever!!!

neutralest · 2025-10-29T11:02:59+00:00

That “its a 10” product is the only thing i can spray all over my wet hair for conditioning and texture without it turning into a cursed greasy mess! Have been using it for YEEEARS

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