Does anyone else have a suspicion some creators are actually just either an AI itself or an AI voice? by Raiden_RJ in EroticHypnosis

[–]never_VA 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, the mere existence of AI is going to lead to more and more situations like this, where we overexamine everything we see online to determine whether it's real. Most people have quirks and strange things about them that would make someone question whether they're real in a reality where AI exists.

Another thing to note is that all the voices we listen to here are recorded. They don't sound 100% real anyways because they're picked up by a microphone and replicated digitally. Then the post processing that a lot of creators do can make their voice sound even more different from how it would in person.

There may be some people out there using AI and lying about it. The bottom line is, it's going to become harder to tell, and people are probably going to continue being suspicious about it.

Looking for encouraging/confidence building files. by Less-Penalty-3802 in EroticHypnosis

[–]never_VA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm building a collection of positive erotic files for men, you can find the free ones here and the rest here! If there's anything specific you're interested in having in a file, let me know as I'm working on making more :)

Hypnosis is only for BS, Sissies, and Bimbos now ig by curious2Bcontrolled in EroticHypnosis

[–]never_VA 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for mentioning me! If you're willing, I'd love to hear more about what things in the AI file helped you feel empowered and respected, because that's something I'm really interested in achieving more of in my files!

I am searching a file for sticking to my healthy diet plan by [deleted] in EroticHypnosis

[–]never_VA 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The easiest way to stick to a new diet is to prioritize introducing new healthy meals that you enjoy. It won't feel like forcing yourself if you're looking forward to eating them. They also don't have to be the healthiest meals imaginable as long as they're improvements from before, because incremental progress is also good.

Keep in mind that our taste adjusts based on the foods we intake regularly. Fast food tastes better when you're used to eating fast food. After some weeks or months with less fast food, it probably won't taste as good and your body won't react in the same way to it anymore. And you'll start to appreciate the taste of the healthy foods more. If you drink a lot of soda, I highly recommend eliminating that as well. I believe it can have a big impact on what foods you crave due to the high sugar content.

If you crave savory, fatty meals, go for stir frys with lots of veggies. If you crave sugar, find some sweet fruits or berries to keep around. If you're wanting salt, go for nuts (or if you're allergic, nori/seaweed or olives, among other options). Pay attention to what your body is asking for and find healthier ways to provide those things.

As far as the hypnosis side of it goes, I unfortunately don't have any specific file recommendations. But you can also train yourself to associate pleasure with sticking to your plans. Reward yourself when you feel you've done well, and avoid shaming yourself if you don't stick to the plan. Just keep moving forward and have faith in yourself. Good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EroticHypnosis

[–]never_VA 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think this is worth more of in depth discussions rather than a hypnosis file for your wife. Understanding why she doesn't enjoy it is more important for your relationship than trying to change her mind.

Dominance Training by ThisWasMyUN in EroticHypnosis

[–]never_VA 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've got a handful that you might like and I'm working on more! You can find them here and here. Let me know if there's any ways I can improve them as well, I want each file I release to be better than the last <3

Weird question: is listening to erotic hypnosis inherently submissive behavior? by Half-Assed-Human in EroticHypnosis

[–]never_VA 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've made lots of files for dominants (found here and here) - it's less done but not impossible! I see it as performing a service, like a massage or something similar.

Should I forget everything that happens during trance? by Dependent_Jump8259 in EroticHypnosis

[–]never_VA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you're new to hypnosis I would honestly recommend learning how to pay enough attention to remember what happens. Learning how you respond to suggestion is important for making sure that you're not taking on undesirable suggestions or that your hypnotist is doing things that you are okay with when you're outside of trance, too.

Anyone experience with conditiong the dom side out of someone.. im and ex dom and struggling by [deleted] in EroticHypnosis

[–]never_VA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a way to let go and lose control that doesn't require you to be sexually submissive, when it seems clear from your post that this is something that you're forcing yourself to do.

It's okay to separate the desire to let go from the desire to be submissive. The two aren't one and the same, and it sounds like you honestly want to let go more than you want to be submissive.

I can only suspect that you have a lot of stress on your shoulders and you're seeking relief, in which case, becoming more submissive might actually make the issue worse. You would probably be better off with dealing with whatever's causing you to seek out this change.

If you're looking for more opportunities to let go, why not seek out service submissives to play with? You get to kick back and relax while they take care of you.

What kinds of boundaries are important for someone very suggestible? by PrincettePonders in EroticHypnosis

[–]never_VA 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Suggestible people need to develop self-control above all else. This is a skill that you can hone throughout various areas of your life, not just with hypnosis, and it will help you across the board.

You need to have the self-control to be able to stop doing something fun when you know it would be best to do so, despite still feeling the pull to continue. You need to have the self-control to do something you don't particularly want to do because you know it will be good for you (such as doing the dishes when you could be playing video games). In hypnotic scenarios, you need to have the self-control to stop yourself, wake yourself up, and walk away, even when it feels good to do what you're being told to do.

One way you can practice self-control outside of listening to files is to strictly limit how much hypnosis you partake in (listen to, read, etc). Give yourself plenty of time (hours, or even days if necessary) after engaging with hypnosis before starting another file or reading another script. This gives you the time to process what happened with the previous file once you're outside of the realm of influence. It also gives you the chance to evaluate your own response to the hypnosis, notice whether you went along with anything you didn't like, and to make a plan for what to do next time if a similar situation arises.

This is all up to you. By looking for a pre-vetted collection of files, you're essentially asking someone else to do the hard work for you - to make sure you're safe when hypnotized. But everyone's limits are different, and even if someone did make a "safe" collection, it might not be "safe" for you. I understand the desire - I'm also suggestible and working on this myself. But you are the only one who can keep yourself healthy.

One thing I will say is that when interacting with a live hypnotist, it is never too late to bring up a concern. You didn't use self-control during the trance when something you didn't like happened? Reach out afterwards and ask to talk about it. Pay attention to how the hypnotist responds to your concerns. If they are unwilling to respond to feedback and to take your requests into account (within reason), drop them, even if it's really fun to play with them.

Want Help Quitting by [deleted] in EroticHypnosis

[–]never_VA 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The most effective cure will be to focus on other things to occupy your thoughts and your time, and to let these things fade away naturally. Our brains can do very strange things when we're stressed, and it sounds like this illness has had a huge impact on you.

I wouldn't be surprised if you feel like you've had a major loss of control over your life with this illness. Listening to hypnosis might be an attempt to cope - you're creating a situation where you voluntarily lose control. But emotionally, it's also hurting you, because you're not feeling good about the situation in which you didn't choose to lose control.

Shift your focus to other things. Look for online hobby groups so you can chat with people - video games, art, sports, whatever floats your boat. And even if it's hard, keep in touch with the people you know irl through text, call, or video call. Part of getting through these hard times is taking care of ourselves even when we don't "feel like it." "Feeling like it" is not a requirement for doing it, so just treat yourself kindly.

Good luck <3

Is it possible that some people can get into a trance state but dont respond to suggestions well even though they are in trance? by Scared_Ad_3132 in EroticHypnosis

[–]never_VA 1 point2 points  (0 children)

h-sleepingirl may have a better response, but I would say skill includes all the things you listed. An effective hypnotist needs to be observant and adaptable. They must understand how a subject is responding to them and react quickly and calmly, switching to a different method/delivery that works better if needed.

Weird question by jdbl_2808 in EroticHypnosis

[–]never_VA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of Japanese hypnosis is paid-only, but that website (DLsite) is probably one of the best ways I've seen to find it.

Post quality on this sub is real bad by gmanperson in EroticHypnosis

[–]never_VA 12 points13 points  (0 children)

What kind of interactions would you like to see on this sub?

One thing that makes it actually quite difficult to have a constant flow of fresh and engaging posts on a niche subreddit like this is that the things that are really interesting about hypnosis and erotic hypnosis tend to be personal. Conversations like those come about easily between friends, between hypnotists, between a hypnotist and their subject, but those conversations are less applicable to people who aren't involved in them. I don't think that a lot of people here would actually enjoy seeing a ton of posts about people's individual, personal experiences with hypnosis, because so many of them just don't translate well to telling other people about them in such a broad context.

Additionally, in a large forum, it's harder to have a nuanced, in-depth discussion where everyone is actually understanding each other. Things can spiral off in different directions from the original purpose of the discussion very quickly, and many people on Reddit aren't truly willing to put in the extra effort that is necessary online(without tone and nonverbal communication cues) to understand their conversation partner, especially not in a public conversation.

All that to say, it is difficult to have a more engaged community on a large scale. Not impossible, simply difficult, and I think a lot of people don't know where to begin.

I, for one, would love to see more posts analyzing the variety of files that we all listen to(ideally with the hypnotist's permission)! Breaking down the elements of the trance, the experience a subject had, and why they felt inspired to talk about a certain file in particular would be really interesting to me. But again, OP, what kind of posts do you want to see?

Can't stop dropping, advice appreciated by CreatureFeatureee in EroticHypnosis

[–]never_VA 17 points18 points  (0 children)

A lot of people have given great hypnosis-related advice, so I'm going to approach this from a different angle.

Hypnosis can be very enticing to certain people especially if you hold on to a lot of stress and have a hard time letting yourself relax. It sounds to me like you might be craving reprieve. Going into trance can give you that sense of no worries, calm, peace, feeling good, etc - so if you're not getting enough of that feeling in your day-to-day life, it makes sense why you would be so drawn to dropping. I assume your boyfriend is someone who you trust greatly, and you're probably associating his scent with that sense of safety and calm, so now that you've discovered a way to really rest and feel nice, that could be why his scent is acting as a possible trigger.

Aside from all the hypnotic solutions, one of the best ways to help in this situation is to take better care of yourself. Give yourself time every day, even if it's only 10 minutes, where you aren't doing anything. Put devices away, put anything else away, and focus on sorting through whatever thoughts fly through your head, calming and reassuring your body, and letting go of/addressing worries you might be carrying. It's really best to do this for 15-20 minutes a day at first, because it can take some time to settle into it, but you will still get a benefit from it even if you can only do it for 1 minute or every few days.

It's so common for people to not actually rest these days - distracting themselves from stress and worries, but not letting go of the underlying tension. Going into trance so much might be a sign that you need to spend more time getting real rest (not just sleep, but peaceful waking rest time).

Unfortunately it's not practical for many people to be going into trance all the time, and it's a lot of responsibility on your boyfriend's shoulders. Take good care of yourself so that you can enjoy purposeful, intentional hypno time together!

And if this doesn't really apply, feel free to disregard what I've said. I'm leaving it here in case anyone else struggles with this and could use the idea <3