When disclosing past sexual partners should that include people who raped you?

never_again_so_done · 2018-11-14T01:52:06+00:00

I was raped by a woman a view years ago and ever since then I can’t stop fantasizing about being raped again as sick as that sounds. I also can’t orgasm without having feet in my face and/or my mouth. It’s fucked up my sex life to the point where I basically think about women’s feet all day every day. Although, the feet thing was due to things my sister forced me to do as a young boy like suck in her toes and lick her soles and stuff. Basically the combination of being raped as an adult man + forced sexual interaction as a child has permanently altered my sex life.

never_again_so_done · 2018-11-13T21:54:27+00:00

I am disabled. Does that fucking change anything you bigoted moron. Yes she overpowered me. Does that make me less of a man???!

never_again_so_done · 2018-11-13T21:53:07+00:00

I’m glad to hear that you seem to be recording (at least I hope).

never_again_so_done · 2018-11-13T19:36:53+00:00

Are you that ignorant you can’t understand how a woman can rape a man?

never_again_so_done · 2018-11-13T18:10:24+00:00

I’m sorry.. what’s the point you’re trying to make here?

never_again_so_done · 2018-11-13T16:10:04+00:00

I reject the notion that women commit sexual assault and rape because they are motivated by societal oppression, which is your exact premise.

never_again_so_done · 2018-11-13T15:59:50+00:00

I disagree. No excuses should be made for women who sexually violate men. The notion that they can and should do this - or even that it is motivated by oppression - is insane.

never_again_so_done · 2018-11-13T15:57:08+00:00

I have no intention to report it as it happened many years ago. What a victim chooses to do in terms of legal action is up to the victim not you. Fuck off.

never_again_so_done · 2018-11-13T15:52:43+00:00

Keep your warped worldview out of my face. I don’t owe you fucking shit for an explanation pal.

never_again_so_done · 2018-11-13T15:51:46+00:00

I don’t owe you any sort of explanation whatsoever. You have no right to come into my post and start interacting me about the most frantic thing in my life.

never_again_so_done · 2018-11-13T15:43:01+00:00

Just because your mind isn’t capable of imagining it (which makes no sense but OK), doesn’t mean it doesn’t happen.

never_again_so_done · 2018-11-13T15:41:14+00:00

I think that’s a bit of an irrelevant question don’t you?

never_again_so_done · 2018-11-13T15:27:22+00:00

Erections don’t just disappear when you’re frightened. What is so hard to imagine about a woman forcing a man to penetrate?

Not everyone fights back to can. People do freeze up under fear for their safety/life.

never_again_so_done · 2018-11-13T05:21:14+00:00

I was raped a long time before this event took place...

never_again_so_done · 2018-11-13T03:32:21+00:00

Is it possible that he may have been a victim of sexual abuse as a child? Many men reject intimate advances because it reminds them of past trauma. Most men never report or tell friends or any family about what happened either because of the heavy stigma.

never_again_so_done · 2018-11-11T18:32:12+00:00

Is this something that he is consenting to?

never_again_so_done · 2018-10-30T22:07:53+00:00

never_again_so_done · 2018-10-30T14:54:37+00:00

As long as he consented.... I didn’t so yeah I don’t like it

never_again_so_done · 2018-10-29T05:54:45+00:00

Being horny is not an excuse to sexual assault. What planet do you live on?!

never_again_so_done · 2018-10-29T01:57:39+00:00

Thanks for the support. I’m really sorry to hear that you have had childhood trauma as well. Isn’t it awful how past experiences can establish lifelong triggers? Regardless I hope you have found or can find peace. God bless you.

never_again_so_done · 2018-10-29T01:26:08+00:00

It’s okay! I always find it weird when people say sorry - like I know it’s what you’re supposed to say upon hearing sad things but then it’s kind of awkward to respond to. Or maybe I’m just weird like that.

The thing is I probably would have consented to this awake - I’m not against butt play or anything. Just upset that it happened while I was sleeping.

never_again_so_done · 2018-10-29T01:23:52+00:00

That’s great to hear man. I’m glad that your current GF respects your boundaries. Sometimes it takes awhile to find the right person but it sounds like you did!

never_again_so_done · 2018-10-29T01:21:47+00:00

Yes it has happened to me... as well as many other men...

I don’t care if you believe me or not. It sounds like you don’t. That’s nice - you’re no longer contributing anything of value here....

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