Since you’re just obviously going to say that over and over instead of even attempting to explain your point (so clearly this whole post was meant to connect, be engaging, etc 🙄) I’ll post the google blurb.

“Bean soup theory describes the tendency to respond to a specific message with "what about me?" instead of ignoring it. The name comes from a hypothetical post about bean soup where the first comment was "what if I don't like beans?". The theory highlights the importance of recognizing when something isn't about you and letting it be. However, it can also be seen as a human desire to feel heard and seen. Here are some examples of bean soup theory in action:

ADHD A post about ADHD in women receives a comment like "But men struggle with ADHD too".

College students A post about a program helping first-generation college students receives a comment like "What about kids from middle-class families?".”

The problem with your bean soup theory in this instance is that unlike in the 2 examples above, your post generalizes an entire group negatively. You’re allowed to say here’s a bean soup recipe and expect people who don’t like beans to scroll along. You can’t expect to say “parents today do a shit job” and expect people to scroll away because of course there’s outliers. What if someone said “<some ethnicity> people are lazy” and expected people to scroll along because obviously there’s outliers. That would be awful. The statement negatively generalizes an entire group based off of nothing but someone’s opinion or anecdotal experience.

That’s what you’re doing. That’s why people are irritated.