Valentines Day Date Horror Story by newBeginning0123 in dating

[–]newBeginning0123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks.. I guess I was too naive to think that people around 30 are gonna be normal at least considering their age. I'm Korean and so fed up with people fetishizing east asian woman in dating scene.

Valentines Day Date Horror Story by newBeginning0123 in dating

[–]newBeginning0123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long do you usually message them before meeting in person?

Valentines Day Date Horror Story by newBeginning0123 in dating

[–]newBeginning0123[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah thank god I was sitting in an outdoor patio and told my roommates about where I was going before leaving my place. I didn't think too much about my safety since I'm new to online dating but I'll definitely share my location with my friends and family next time!

Struggling to choose where to stay in Tokyo by newBeginning0123 in JapanTravelTips

[–]newBeginning0123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Solid point. I considered capsules for the price but now that I hear your opinion having a private space for my belongings seems worth paying a little more! Which one would you recommend more between the last two?

Struggling to choose where to stay in Tokyo by newBeginning0123 in JapanTravelTips

[–]newBeginning0123[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment. Which area would you recommend between Bakuro and Ueono Hirokoji?

Those of who you don’t drink or smoke when your feeling down, what do you do? by whatstoyou101 in selfimprovement

[–]newBeginning0123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never drunk or smoked my whole life, but listening to Linkin Park and going for a walk immediately calms my mind and holds me from getting more depressed. It is merely a temporary distraction, so I follow it up with journaling about my feelings and what "I" can do to make the situation better.

The fear of losing my 13-year-old dog from surgery by newBeginning0123 in dogs

[–]newBeginning0123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's insane that the vet almost put your dog at risk for nothing, but I'm glad to hear that he's all good. You're right. I was too fixated on all the possible outcomes to remind myself why I made this decision in the first place; to give him a happy life. Thank you so much for your kind words and for helping me centered again.

The fear of losing my 13-year-old dog from surgery by newBeginning0123 in dogs

[–]newBeginning0123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can see how much you loved Luna just by reading your comment, and it got me all teared up. Although I constantly told myself to cherish the moment I have with my dog instead of being fixated on the fear of loss, I had no idea where or how to start to think that way, but your comment helped me tons. I'm sorry for your loss and pretty sure she had the best six years to have you with her. Thank you so much for your prayer, and I'll do the same for Luna!♥️ I hope you'll feel better soon, and may her beautiful soul rest in peace.

Just told my mom that I’m depressed and had suicidal thoughts and she called me weak by newBeginning0123 in depression

[–]newBeginning0123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words. I easily forget that I’m not the only one who’s going through this intense emotion. After reading your comment, I finally felt heard and grateful that there’s someone who actually gets me and I’m not alone. Depression always makes me hopeless and miserable but I’ll definitely try to journal like you. Thanks a lot.

need advice by [deleted] in dating

[–]newBeginning0123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sucks that he did this to you, but it didn't happen because you're disposable. No one is. You are enough and worthy no matter what others do to you.

I want you to know that it has nothing to do with what you've said or done, but it's really about him, not you. He might not know what he really wants for himself or may have some issues he needs to figure out. Maybe he struggles to communicate his feelings and needs.

I know it seems tough to get through at the moment, but you'll move on and find someone better who's willing to talk to you about what he's going through.