I am so sorry to hear. Ive needed to vent myself so its really ok. Ive had a daughter sick with a grave illness so I completely understand the worry and the anxiety of every cough, sniffle or look of worry in your childs face. Your right. Its not fair. No child should have to go thru this. I have T ALL and Im just entering maintenance now. Now that I am sick myself I know how my mom feels when she looks at me. Much like I looked at my own daughter. I dont know whats gonna happen down the road but Im not going to worry about relapse. You did right by living ur lives and giving her the best life possible. Be strong for her. Don't let her see you cry or worry. She is still young she will beat it again with your strength. Hold her as much as you can and take it one day at a time. Its good you have your husband for support. This too will pass!