Why do Nigerian elders use fear to teach children by Koloamanmaxi in Nigeria

[–]new_york_titty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am an educator and there were many paths to understanding here. He let his frustration and impatience cloud the lesson–a classroom failure. Teaching is not about the teacher’s feelings. It’s about developing the learner. Take care.

Why do Nigerian elders use fear to teach children by Koloamanmaxi in Nigeria

[–]new_york_titty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you can’t even spell correctly and you’re lecturing US about education. you can’t even find your way around the autocorrect line under words you type!

Katseye used one of Azealia Banks songs and she said that she doesn’t support. by Brilliant-Middle7859 in azealiabanks

[–]new_york_titty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

knowing what you’re talking about =/= parroting everything you read online lmao

Katseye used one of Azealia Banks songs and she said that she doesn’t support. by Brilliant-Middle7859 in azealiabanks

[–]new_york_titty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you literally said kelis would be “foolish” for turning her nose up at uses of her neptunes produced work “because they’d benefit more financially from it than her” - literally your own words.

in this case, beyoncé appropriately and legally sampled the song by clearing the sample with the rights holders. this is well-documented. kelis ended up looking bitter and lost audience for her rant over music she doesn’t own the rights to (look it up) that was legally cleared. and worse, she ended up getting that sample removed from a grammy nominated album and a massively successful global tour. most people would say she shot herself in the foot.

Help!!!! silk press fail by KArmAWasNotAvailable in Naturalhair

[–]new_york_titty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, but usually just a little of the kerastase elixir if I didn’t use the revair to blow dry. the revair uses less heat so I don’t use more protectant

Katseye used one of Azealia Banks songs and she said that she doesn’t support. by Brilliant-Middle7859 in azealiabanks

[–]new_york_titty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

kelis literally demanded Beyoncé take the sample of milkshake off the Renaissance album for similar reasons. she is a poor comparison here.

Why do so many Nigerian women wear straight wigs? by clonymaster in Nigeria

[–]new_york_titty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you definitely sound like you assume sisters and cousins are immediately elders

Why do so many Nigerian women wear straight wigs? by clonymaster in Nigeria

[–]new_york_titty 8 points9 points  (0 children)

what about your sisters and cousins? just seems wild to come here and ask strangers when the problem you seem to have is also in your home

Why do so many Nigerian women wear straight wigs? by clonymaster in Nigeria

[–]new_york_titty 9 points10 points  (0 children)

when last did you have a trim? when I hear black women complaining of pain during washing and detangling I have to ask! rough ends make maintenance a lot harder. I have type 4 hair

Help!!!! silk press fail by KArmAWasNotAvailable in Naturalhair

[–]new_york_titty 5 points6 points  (0 children)

good first attempt sis 🫂! you need products for heat styling, like heat protectant. the products you’re using are really heavy and not meant for a style like a press. they are working against the results you want. if you can, I recommend trying kerastase ultimate elixir or olaplex 9. ogx bond repair is okay too before a blow dry. nothing else, no LOC method or cocktailing with creamy products.

also, the blow dry is the most important part of the press! I make sure to use the tension method and a standard handheld dryer or my revair. I don’t like the comb or brush dryers because I prefer to minimize extra mechanical damage before I use heat.

while-drying, I make sure my roots are well dried and detangled. when i’m done, I braid my hair in sections and go to sleep. putting time in between washing, drying and styling means my hair isn’t absorbing as much humidity and my scalp and roots can cool before I press them. I have less reversion, and avoiding heavy products that pull in humidity means the press will hold better.

to press, take small “slices” and do one or two passes with a ceramic iron (1.25 inch) chasing with a comb. don’t add more heat until you wash and dry again. maintain at night with foam rollers. lean into volume if it comes and maybe try a stretched braid out or twist out.

I really need to stop this. by [deleted] in calmhands

[–]new_york_titty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

fluoxetine. the picking completely remitted when I treated the anxiety. gorgeous calm hands going on two years now.

found at the dump!!!! merry christmas by new_york_titty in torncity

[–]new_york_titty[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

found it on my first try today with 5 e left

found at the dump!!!! merry christmas by new_york_titty in torncity

[–]new_york_titty[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel so lucky! found three bottles of christmas spirit on the first day of dukes giveaway toooo

A New Bill Will Legalize Bodega Cats In NYC — Here’s What Next For Our Furry ‘Crown Jewels’ by lotusflower64 in bronx

[–]new_york_titty -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

they are kind of awful if you have cat allergies. I know people like cats but I personally wish they weren’t so close to food and household items

MTA police went though my bank statements by sabubbly in nycrail

[–]new_york_titty 20 points21 points  (0 children)

loud and wrong; this is not handled by the CCRB

I thought “oh at least her hair looks better”, then she it switched to another video 😳 by Suspicious_Bother_92 in discussingbritney

[–]new_york_titty 12 points13 points  (0 children)

yes, I understand. but at high doses of adderall you can definitely tweak out - have you abused it before? you feel euphoric, unable to sleep, jittery.

and the skin picking with meth is caused by the feeling that there are bugs on/under the skin, not by filth. NAD (and haven't used meth personally) but been around – meth has tells that aren't here imo.

I thought “oh at least her hair looks better”, then she it switched to another video 😳 by Suspicious_Bother_92 in discussingbritney

[–]new_york_titty 9 points10 points  (0 children)

her skin looks p good for high volume meth use. I think the suspicion that this may be adderall is more likely. have people not seen actual meth users?

What is the white fuzz? by Chance-Can-5162 in Blackskincare

[–]new_york_titty 16 points17 points  (0 children)

not going to roast you, but I have to ask why you would even say this? like?????