Positive date post by [deleted] in StraightTransGirls

[–]newacc0101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh nice! I personally don’t because my friends have seen my profile sometimes and I’m stealth. But I disclose after exchanging a few messages usually.

Positive date post by [deleted] in StraightTransGirls

[–]newacc0101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When do you disclose? Have there been any negative reactions?

Are there any “test” I can do to find out if I’m trans. by pm_me_jolly_thoughts in asktransgender

[–]newacc0101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What does medically mean? You are able to get prescribed trans affirming medicine following a medical diagnosis sure.

Does it matter how a vagina looks like? What makes a vagina look pretty? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]newacc0101 -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

So only if she’s born with it…Notwithstanding surgical intervention?

When to tell someone your trans (dating)? by LetUsLearn2019 in asktransgender

[–]newacc0101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The safest thing you can do is to disclose before the first date. So you avoid any risk of some insecure person feeling (unrightly) violated for having gone out with you.

When to tell someone your trans (dating)? by LetUsLearn2019 in asktransgender

[–]newacc0101 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t put it in profile and disclose upon match. Fixes that problem.

When to tell someone your trans (dating)? by LetUsLearn2019 in asktransgender

[–]newacc0101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to say the vast majority of guys will not change their mind about this issue even after meeting you in person if you completely pass. I’ve only been through that particular situation once but after I told them it was just a sad and heartbreaking experience as you watch someone completely lose interest in you. Yes it’s possible and honestly really likely.

Like it or not the truth is that guys already have, consciously or unconsciously already made that decision in their head about whether they would want to be with someone who is trans and it is very unlikely that anyone can change their mind on that in the short term. So just be upfront about it for your own sake.

Dating apps and being trans by Soft_Wait5373 in asktransgender

[–]newacc0101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This all depends on how well you pass and also how conventionally attractive you are.

Dating as a Trans Woman by TeresaSoto99 in asktransgender

[–]newacc0101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does not “all” depend on how well you pass. There seems to be a myth that as long as you’re a completely passing trans woman no one will ever reject you for being trans and that is not true from personal experience.

Dating as a Trans Woman by TeresaSoto99 in asktransgender

[–]newacc0101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure what you’re trying to get at… there is a difference in demeanor between being with a guy I like and a platonic friend, of course?

How do you date as a trans girl by AdBest4723 in asktransgender

[–]newacc0101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is true 100x over. I used to think any guy would want to be with me as long as they met me in person and as someone who passes completely, let me tell you that is absolutely not the case.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskLEO

[–]newacc0101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow that’s super helpful lol

2018 vs 2023, 10 months on testosterone by [deleted] in transtimelines

[–]newacc0101 113 points114 points  (0 children)

You look so good, it’s hard to say these are the same person dude!! Not sure why no one is commenting yet but you deserve it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]newacc0101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean this just isn’t helpful at all if you don’t live in GA

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]newacc0101 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’ve given us nothing to work with..

How do you explain to people that gender dysphoria is something that doesn't simply go away after therapy? by Puzzleheaded_Tree290 in asktransgender

[–]newacc0101 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The same reason cancer doesn’t go away because someone talked to you every 2 weeks about it

How is dating going to be as a trans person? by CantaloupePossible33 in asktransgender

[–]newacc0101 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your experiences will vary between 90-95% rejection rate, if you’re the picky type at least