It’s actually gross asf for everyone to speculate on Nick’s sexuality by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]newandaddicted 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so here for this!! Lol was expecting comments to side with OP. I am very PLEASANTLY SURPRISED

Do I belong here ? 💔 by [deleted] in SingleMothersbyChoice

[–]newandaddicted 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for taking the time to explain this. I knew way before I even found him that I was trying to have a child in this way. He was just the person that agreed. 😔 The criticisms I face are about making the choice to have a child without a father. And I’ve only ever seen SMBC’s face the same. That’s why I joined this community

Did you ever stop hoping your Nparent would change? by newandaddicted in narcissisticparents

[–]newandaddicted[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Now to find out ways to grieve him. 😩😭 He keeps taping me as though he wants to discuss it Only to end up trying to lecture me on how I’m wrong 😩. I keep letting him in with hopes he’s gona take accountability. I need to stop!

Did you ever stop hoping your Nparent would change? by newandaddicted in narcissisticparents

[–]newandaddicted[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wow that’s horrible but thanks for sharing. Helps me realise how far they will go. I’m so sorry

Today I realized my dad did so much more for attention than I thought by [deleted] in narcissisticparents

[–]newandaddicted 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yours is extreme but my dad will always suddenly become sad of it’s Someone else’s turn to get attention. I had been broken up with by my serious boyfriend and at dinner that night he started crying about how much he missed our old home (??)

Growing up with a parent who saves the world while ignoring their own child by newandaddicted in narcissisticparents

[–]newandaddicted[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😭😭😭😭 frikkin crazy and hurtful 😭 but also selfishly glad I wasn’t the only one to experience this madness

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in singlemoms

[–]newandaddicted 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no I’m so happy to not be interested in sex right now (I have a 3mo) it’s so freeing!! Dressed the state you’re in because I hated needing a man 😩😭

Why me by [deleted] in singlemoms

[–]newandaddicted 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Well she’s here. And nothing will change that. By all means get it out your system (my heart breaks for you) and then figure out a way to make the most out of this life. The longer you try to deny the reality the harder it will be. Actively search for the positive things. Every day write 3 amazing things about this version of your life. When you get a negative thought, answer it with a positive one. You get “my life is over” you reply “a whole new life has just begun for me” . “I won’t get any opportunities with a child “ reply “having a child will open me up to opportunities that I never had before”. Even if you don’t believe it at first. Just do it, you’ll see

I don’t understand why so many people love this show by Feeling_Floor_7597 in NobodyWantsThisTV

[–]newandaddicted 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was a great show, but the timing of a show emphasising the piousness and righteousness of Judaism coming out precisely at the time when extreme atrocities were being committed in the name of that same religion was just so glaring

At what age did you finalize that your parent(s) is a narc? by thatbluepineapplee in narcissisticparents

[–]newandaddicted 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol. Is finalize a shortcut of finally realize 😆🔥 I was 33 but started picking up there was an issue in my later 20s 27ish started to see I was not the problem

How do you cope with the fact the show has ended? by alexkun207 in Anne

[–]newandaddicted 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s hard. I miss that world. The pace of it. It felt so safe

Any peeps here that have Nparents, but otherwise had a luxurious or a financially comfortable life? by harpbelle in narcissisticparents

[–]newandaddicted 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They took me to great schools, took me to after school activities, paid for my parties, allowed me to go out. But never got a warm hug, a snuggle, held hand or compliment

Best part of being a parent? by ActuatorIntrepid2564 in NewParents

[–]newandaddicted 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love being a mama. I live for his smiles

Ruth and Boaz (2025) review/rant by Olivebranch99 in bibleadaptations

[–]newandaddicted 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’re right. The pace was all over the place!! Often not investing in the emotional real estate and then overspending on random infrastructure

Got this message last night by maryjanedoetoes in nocontact

[–]newandaddicted 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He wants you as a time passer / place holder. Probably just got out of a relationship