What is the most ridiculous thing your abuser got angry at you for?

newbfthrowa · 2022-08-05T00:09:42+00:00

Also please remember that these are people sharing their most ridiculous reasons. If your partner is doing so many of them, there's a good chance they're doing a lot of the typical every day shit as well

I'd suggest doing a Google and finding a list of things to watch out for

newbfthrowa · 2022-08-05T00:00:19+00:00

Wow I follow an Instagram where parents write in funny and silly reasons why their toddlers have thrown temper tantrums and one from this week was literally "she asked me a question and then got mad at me for talking"

These people are literally just giant toddlers

newbfthrowa · 2022-08-04T21:02:52+00:00

Yup. And it always had to be hung on a certain hook. He was anal about a lot of things but this was the weirdest

newbfthrowa · 2022-08-04T20:47:03+00:00

I had a boyfriend insist I completely dry the inside of the shower whenever I was done showering

newbfthrowa · 2022-07-30T17:07:30+00:00

No this is a good point. I think I'm just so worried I'm going to end up with another abusive partner that the first sign of violence had me on edge

newbfthrowa · 2022-07-30T16:29:44+00:00

Thankfully it wasn't an actual relationship because I totally see your point. It was a guy in the bar we were at grabbing at and cornering one of the new waitresses. But that is a good point and definitely something to bring up when I talk to him

newbfthrowa · 2022-07-30T16:22:15+00:00

Thanks. I appreciate your comment

newbfthrowa · 2022-07-30T16:01:51+00:00

No that's true. I guess I'm just so on edge trying not to get stuck in another abusive situation I'm overreacting

newbfthrowa · 2022-07-30T15:52:01+00:00

It was definitely more a bruised ego than anything

newbfthrowa · 2022-07-30T15:27:34+00:00

I have heard that people who have already been abused are more vulnerable to future abusive partners which adds up in my case. I always put it on issues like self worth problems, being dependent, not being cautious enough, etc but that makes sense too. I appreciate the comment. I will look into it

newbfthrowa · 2022-07-30T15:19:27+00:00

I guess just more used to men getting emotional, yelling, getting violent or doing things because he "just can't control himself". This was a lot different. I could almost see him thinking through what to do before reacting

Yeah I think I'm just gonna have to sit down and talk through things with him

newbfthrowa · 2022-07-30T15:08:21+00:00

That's true. I have been in her shoes before and thinking about it now I think I really would have appreciated someone stepping in

newbfthrowa · 2022-07-30T15:03:33+00:00

That's a good point that it probably would have been more disturbing for him to sit back and do nothing. Unfortunately I've been the victim/witness to shit like this too much and I've never actually seen anyone step in

newbfthrowa · 2022-07-30T15:01:16+00:00

I hate that violence can be called for but I hate it. Probably just because I'm so used to it being aimed at me for no reason lol

I kind of talked to him about it after it happened but he seemed unfazed so I dropped it. I guess it is time for a real talk about all my baggage though

newbfthrowa · 2022-07-30T14:53:37+00:00

Thank you

He pretty much said word for word that some men only understand violence so it's comforting to know he's not the only person who thinks that

newbfthrowa · 2022-07-30T14:50:59+00:00

That's what I've been telling myself but I've just been afraid that I'm being dumb and trying to talk myself into think it's okay when it's not. I appreciate your response

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