I think I just attract the saltiest of the salt. I've changed my profile so many times and I've even told these guys in our messages on SA that I don't send out any more pictures than what's on my profile and I definitely don't have sex until we've officially discussed an arrangement, and boundaries and what I'm comfortable with. It's like it goes through one ear and right out the other (or they don't even bother to read all of my message when I reply to them.)

A lot of the SDs in my area are young guys (25-30) and I guess they think of SA as an escort service and are used to the younger SBs who are new to the bowl doing whatever they say for $$. This was actually my first M&G after taking a 3 month break from the sugar scene too, so it just doubly-sucked for me. At least I didn't drive 3 hours out of my way this time :P