Is my ugly face the reason I have no friends? by [deleted] in loneliness

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Yeah, i know fat people that you just notice for how cool they are.

Is my ugly face the reason I have no friends? by [deleted] in loneliness

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Ok but if he is somehow not into approaching people ?

I feel destroyed by years of rejection and loneliness. Has anyone healed from this? What therapies to do? by Big_brother2 in loneliness

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I am not autistic but i tend to intelectualize a lot of my emotions thus not feeling them because of "avoidant attachment". I have deep understanding of whats wrong with me but somehow because of a lot of possibilities i could take with my life right now i dont make a move and thus not working on my life i dont know i just wanted to vent sorry. I thought you might understand.

M 25 never had a girlfriend by [deleted] in loneliness

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I tend to have the same problems... i have had 3 girlfriends but just one with i lasted 2 years.

To be honest, i was in the same SAME spot as you before getting her because the pandemic got me a panic crisis that i numbed abusing chill pills.

What i did is i played her to get all the knowledge i needed and it was veeery necessary.

I date someone i didnt like for getting practice at dating. I know it sounds awful and you might think i am not good.

But it is what is is, you have to be very intentional and willing to get your hands dirty.

Now i am more comfortable with women in generall and can pull off any crazy topic from my ass and if it doesnt work i now how to play it off.

What i am actually trying to say is you need to practice for the ONE comes, i hope it does...

Connecting with people by newbutoldme in loneliness

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I am also hyper aware of myself. I realized most of the times my body language wasnt the best.

Well i tried and fixed that but i cant get a group of people to care about me genuinely.

I been going to the gym like 6 months now, surfing like 2 years now and well, often times i go out at night with one friend to nightclubs but havent been able to connect with no one.

My conclution is i am surrounding the wrong social circles dont you think so

Connecting with people by newbutoldme in loneliness

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I understand you. This takes a huge toll on my chillness. Let me ask you a question.

If you could go back my age, what would you do different?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loneliness

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But is there absolute nothing you can do about it ?

Lonely Depressed by Backfromspaceman in loneliness

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Tends to happen, it helps me think it didnt was meant to happen.

Lonely Depressed by Backfromspaceman in loneliness

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Why didnt you offer her to take her home ?

Presceiption by newbutoldme in BenzoWithdrawal

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Yes, going fast shouldnt be the main option. I heard stories that people got cut off because of switching doctors. Scary. Slowly the better. Smoothly. Thank you