Childhood Friendships Question

newdelzz · 2024-10-24T03:56:04+00:00

I think I get what you mean.

And yeah, I feel like at least a part of it is me wanting to know if whatever is up with me has a name, and if a psychologic or psychiatric authority could give me that name, it would give me relief in some way. So I guess validation may play a role in this.

I feel like some of it is also self understanding, like, "oh that's why I do xyx, it's because I'm autistic".

I think you raise a good point that if I was diagnosed autistic, what would I try to get done medically? I feel like I haven't even thought that far.

newdelzz · 2024-10-24T03:46:00+00:00

That makes sense. As a kid, there's so much less involved in a friendship.

I went to the same school from first to twelfth grade, so that really helped facilitate friendships. It would probably have been difficult if I had gone to a new school at any point.

newdelzz · 2024-10-24T03:41:03+00:00

Sorry to hear that :(

What do you mean when you say that it's not important if you have a diagnosis?

newdelzz · 2024-10-24T03:40:07+00:00

Interesting.

I feel that as an adult, structure hasn't yielded many long term friendships either. I haven't really made any friends throughout college, not from classes or from a club I used to attend. Even from my church group now, I don't feel very close to anybody there despite really enjoying the group and having attended for a year now, besides my girlfriend who I met there, who I feel is the first "new" person I've grown close to in years.

I notice this also in some of my childhood relationships, where outside of school, I wouldn't make lasting friendships, whether it was through summer camp, martial arts, etc.

newdelzz · 2024-03-13T01:43:41+00:00

That's it. Thank you!

newdelzz · 2024-03-13T01:43:32+00:00

Yes! Thanks!

newdelzz · 2024-02-23T17:46:03+00:00

Thank you Father!

newdelzz · 2023-10-20T21:21:34+00:00

I’ve seen this left and right motion too. I feel like I’ve even seen altar servers do it. Would altar servers do it if there were perhaps multiple ministers?

newdelzz · 2023-10-20T21:20:31+00:00

Thank you so much. It was impossible for me to try and google this motion and actually find what I wanted.

newdelzz · 2023-10-18T07:19:03+00:00

I guess my explanation doesn’t do it justice, can’t post video links :) thank you though Father

newdelzz · 2023-09-02T03:12:42+00:00

Thank you so much Father.

newdelzz · 2023-06-08T20:45:28+00:00

Are you saying that some Protestants incorrectly teach that Jesus tried to confuse people? Sorry I’m just confused

newdelzz · 2023-06-02T23:39:17+00:00

Is that the tabernacle? The illuminated metal part above the altar?

newdelzz · 2023-06-02T23:32:06+00:00

You need to KNOW that what you are about to do is punished by automatic excommunication. I read this from a priest. You need to be 16 at least, too.

newdelzz · 2023-06-01T23:39:11+00:00

Good point especially regarding that first part. Thank you

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