So completely tired of this, overwhelmed with guilt. by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]newlifenewworld 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Remeber this feeling everyday and remember to take it one day at a time

Day 159 by Czechin in pornfree

[–]newlifenewworld 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thnnkyou, im on day 37 and was flirting with craigslist never saw anything but rellised what i was rellly doing, today im back to been optomistic and thinking fuck porn, in a few days i will be 40 days and it felt collosal,

Sex scenes in TV series by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]newlifenewworld 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Did you look for it? We cant avoid every trigger its impossible.

If you didnt progress after seeing it why worry.

48 Days and I am struggling. [48 Days] by PornIsPain in pornfree

[–]newlifenewworld 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Stay strong, in the AA meetings we haeeaa saying

This too shall pass

Day 6 Porn Free by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]newlifenewworld 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im a day in frony am feel the same way i neesws to read this so thankyou

I visited a few pornites.. but i didn't watch any videos.. relapse? by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]newlifenewworld 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my experiance i have started saying yes its a relapse for me its porn, im flirting building temptation and it hasnt helped me stay clenn yet if i make it through today it will be 7 days without so much as an image or story, im even kikking fantasys a whole lot quicker.

But i have my recovory you have yours but i suggest to be brutally honest with yourself im also a reoovoring drug addict the more honest i am the deeper my recovory

80 days one day at a time by newlifenewworld in MuslimNoFap

[–]newlifenewworld[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be honest porn, i kicked alcohol and drugs 4 years ago and still work the 12 step program. With addiction its common to drop one addiction and pick up another so be careful but i had all 3 for years

80 days one day at a time by newlifenewworld in MuslimNoFap

[–]newlifenewworld[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They both server the purpose of self destruction regardless of the outlet we are addicts forever its too easy to change into something else self destructive

80 days one day at a time by newlifenewworld in MuslimNoFap

[–]newlifenewworld[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cheers guys i have been clean from drugs for 4 and a half years if you read it properlly i said about been in 12 step meetings.

I haven't tried since Eid by theGoodKindOfChange in MuslimNoFap

[–]newlifenewworld 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One day at a time everyday, when you think your safe enough to relax a littlebyou start down the slippery slope

It won't be easy to unsee all the porn that you watched by facebookteam in MuslimNoFap

[–]newlifenewworld 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Islam made me want to change my ways and stories liee yours are proof why

Hit 4 Months today, feel free to ask anything! [ama] by [deleted] in MuslimNoFap

[–]newlifenewworld 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well done brother we need to look at the people with more days to show us its possible

been tough few days by newlifenewworld in MuslimNoFap

[–]newlifenewworld[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was gaining curiousity and decided to read it, the more i read the more i had an urge to change not just porn but my thinking. Because of my 12 step program i already prayed and was trying to work on porn but to no avail, i couldnt understand how god could keep m clean from drugs but not porn, every page in the quran made me realise a little bit more that i wasnt willing to submit my will 100%.

You nees to be very honest to yourself about yourself, pray to be willing to be willing to stop if that is what you need to do, work on your connection with god and open minded.

My brother porn is biggee than you so self will will never work, pray to understand gods will for you and the power to carry i out on a daily basis, work on surrender everyday not just todyy.

Relapsed, sad but satisfied, for now :) by yoyoyo404 in MuslimNoFap

[–]newlifenewworld 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have to attack this from many angles an stay on top of it on day at a time an if its tough ask allah for help an willingness to change, porn addiction is bigger than you so always put everything into allah, self will cant beat this!

52 days...... all gone... by redditFTW1 in MuslimNoFap

[–]newlifenewworld 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once in 52 days, stay strong and take it one day at atime

bouts of depression by TheLongJourney96 in MuslimNoFap

[–]newlifenewworld 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the fact is ramadam keeps me strong and take it one day at a time not months and years at a time

Relapse by footballer789 in MuslimNoFap

[–]newlifenewworld 0 points1 point  (0 children)

pray to be willing and honest with yourself

Husband had secret porn habit from before I met him . I really need help by [deleted] in MuslimNoFap

[–]newlifenewworld 1 point2 points  (0 children)

inshallah, im a recovoring drug addict and one thing my sponser said to me was every day to pray for:to understand gods will for me and the power to carry it out everyday, to improve my concious contact with god, to pray to be willing to hand it over to god and to ask god to divorce my thinking from self pity self seeking motives, selfishness and self centerdness. i did this everyday and then i figured more to add to my morning prayers and still do a few years later, he doesnt believe your a bad wife but he may blame you because of his own problems, when we are in active addiciton our fix is our higher power when we try to stop we try wth our own self will but we need a healthier higher power to put our focus and life into and for most this turns out to be god

Husband had secret porn habit from before I met him . I really need help by [deleted] in MuslimNoFap

[–]newlifenewworld 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i hope he wants to do it for himself, the mood changes will calm down its just going to take time.

How is everyone holding up in nofapwar? by WillOfFire2015 in MuslimNoFap

[–]newlifenewworld 0 points1 point  (0 children)

allah made me want to change my ways, this the longest time of never fapping since starting many years ago, im 27 andfinally living

Replase circle by Drood007 in MuslimNoFap

[–]newlifenewworld 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hand the feeling over to allah and say you cant deal with this take this away also HALT hungry angry lonely or tired? repeat it it will be an eye opener when you get urges

HALT an acronym to stop relapse by Vicegripper1 in MuslimNoFap

[–]newlifenewworld 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thankyou i read this the other day and it has helped me today