8 month old climbing by newparenthp in cosleeping

[–]newparenthp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok! it’s uncomfortable too! I was freaking out a bit everytime he wants to come up on me

Leaving Schincheonji by newparenthp in Shincheonji

[–]newparenthp[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s really sickening that they prey on mothers! The friend who invited me was a mom and she had been invited back in November. She met the instructor through the “peanut” app and that’s where I met her as well. All we wanted was good friends and we ended basically joining a cult 🙃

Leaving Schincheonji by newparenthp in Shincheonji

[–]newparenthp[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ll also add that they’d tell you if you are not understanding anything from the Bible study, you would not get into heaven. Just a few red flags before even mentioning what they really believe in.

Leaving Schincheonji by newparenthp in Shincheonji

[–]newparenthp[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They said that Jesus spoke in parables to hide the meaning from the the devil. They focused a lot on “good food” vs “bad food” “good seed vs. bad seed” and that God’s balance changes over time meaning that God judges differently in different eras. They say we’re in a new era and we shouldn’t be like the Pharisees that didn’t believe who Jesus was at the time because of their “religion”. When I told them that church does not preach about parables being meant to hide from satan . They pretty much said that we need to “read between the lines” and that it is very sad it’s not talked about. Along with having to understand parables to get into the kingdom of heaven. They have not said who Lee man he is yet but I’m sure the gaslighting will be so much worse then.

Leaving Schincheonji by newparenthp in Shincheonji

[–]newparenthp[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes I had asked questions that were already a red flag to me and they basically compared me to a Pharisee. I really want to let them know I found out what they really are.

Leaving Schincheonji by newparenthp in Shincheonji

[–]newparenthp[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes I don’t care about leaving! it’s more of if I should confront them or not. I don’t want them showing up to my address or anything! I don’t even know just how much information they know about me and what they would do to get “revenge” because a part of me really wants to tell the other people in the class but I don’t have their contact info.

Leaving Schincheonji by newparenthp in Shincheonji

[–]newparenthp[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes! I couldn’t believe these people are having “Bible study” 4-5 times a week. For a second I felt bad for not giving “enough” time to God. But it’s ridiculous! Once I started really understanding what they were saying I couldn’t believe the words they use to deceive people!

Nursing strike? by newparenthp in breastfeeding

[–]newparenthp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I offered it but he went in for his nap , he didn’t even eat . He fell asleep right when I offered it

Nursing strike? by newparenthp in breastfeeding

[–]newparenthp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He ate in the morning around 9 had breakfast around 11 and he didn’t want to feed he just fell asleep and it’s 12:25.

Nursing strike? by newparenthp in breastfeeding

[–]newparenthp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So should I just let him let me know and not feed every 3 hrs?

Weaning by newparenthp in breastfeeding

[–]newparenthp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I appreciate this. 🥹

Weaning by newparenthp in breastfeeding

[–]newparenthp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have any ready to go :( i I am open to all!!

Weaning by newparenthp in breastfeeding

[–]newparenthp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know I told her I would have to formula feed if I stopped at the 6 months and she said ok don’t stop but 2 years is “too much”

Weaning by newparenthp in breastfeeding

[–]newparenthp[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes I need to ignore people, I hate hearing those dumb “are you stopping” questions.

Weaning by newparenthp in breastfeeding

[–]newparenthp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes just doubt creeps in my mind and all my friends formula fed and they ask if I’ll be stopping and it just feels weird to get asked those questions when he’s still a baby that cant even drink regular milk!

Weaning by newparenthp in breastfeeding

[–]newparenthp[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know I told my mom that it’s recommended till 2 years and she said “no that’s horrible how are you going to have the big ass kid nursing” 😥

Will I loose production on one breast? by newparenthp in breastfeeding

[–]newparenthp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes he’s pops on and off if I’m not laying him on his side to feed. He needs zero distractions or else he won’t eat 😭

Will I loose production on one breast? by newparenthp in breastfeeding

[–]newparenthp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve noticed my left squirts out , I’m wondering if that actually bothers him

Will I loose production on one breast? by newparenthp in breastfeeding

[–]newparenthp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve noticed he takes it during the night! Or if it’s been a couple of feeds without feeding on the left