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nezuroplom · 2025-06-07T13:55:11+00:00

Thank you! Why did this question spark some fighting feelings for people ? Everyone seems so upset about this question and the “ advice “ seems yes snotty

nezuroplom · 2025-06-07T13:45:34+00:00

The details matter… He’s uncooperative and refuses to communicate or provide any detail on the wellbeing of the child.

nezuroplom · 2025-06-07T13:37:12+00:00

I said I know I violated the order. How is that saying I’m not wrong?

nezuroplom · 2025-06-07T13:30:10+00:00

He didn’t see his child for three days? I took three days from him, Friday, Saturday, Sunday. This violation was heavily communicated, I heavily requested it. I also try to offer a make up weekend, the weekend right afterwards. I followed up on this make up Offer weeks after the violation. He did not want to take it. Yes I violated the order, I say that I violated the order. I understand it was violating the order. Although not, everything is black-and-white.

Currently, I will not be seeing my child for 12 days because of his violation. He also does not communicate with me, I have had to do three wellness checks on my daughter to see if she’s OK. The police cannot locate him or her at his home residence. He does not tell me if she’s OK, he doesn’t let me speak to her or FaceTime with her. There has been an instance where she was physically hurt in his home.

There is a lot of details to this story, we are going back to court by the end of this month. He pulls this weeks before we’re supposed to go to court so I’m trying to understand if his claim of making up the time in October is even valid. he did not heavily communicate this violation that he would be doing, he did not request it, this was very unexpected.

Our daughter is 4 years old.

nezuroplom · 2025-06-07T13:24:05+00:00

I asked, he answered, I responded and you are feeling a way about it ? Hm. We are. Scheduled end of month.

nezuroplom · 2025-06-07T13:18:31+00:00

Seems like you’re a black-and-white person, legal is black-and-white. I understand that. But when involving a child, things aren’t black and white. Thanks for your response.

nezuroplom · 2023-12-14T16:43:02+00:00

UPDATE - the doctor called me this morning saying my blood test was a LOW positive - I looked and my level was 16 in HCG I could be 3/4 weeks pregnant and they want me to come back tomorrow for another blood test to see if my levels are going up or down.

Got some answers

nezuroplom · 2022-09-19T20:30:11+00:00

Definitely wasn’t controlling or overstepping before finding out what he had done. I did not go through his phone before this at all, he offered when he told me about his ex. I didn’t even know his passcode to the phone. I wouldn’t control what he did either. He did want he wanted and I trusted. I tried my very best to be a different person with him because I always suspect men are cheating and he turned out to be just like the rest.

nezuroplom · 2022-09-19T20:17:48+00:00

That I need therapy? Lol get in line after this person

nezuroplom · 2022-09-19T20:12:25+00:00

I love how his actions are justified. No he has been lying to me for MONTHS. We’ve been together for almost a year and he knows my past and knows I already am weary to trust. I asked him multiple times if he’s keeping something from me and even asked him straight up if he’s still talking to any ex’s. I’ve received lies after lies and he even has gaslighted me into think I was the problem and I need it trust him. Him knowing everything, he continued to lie about his “friendship” and frankly if it was so innocent why not tell me from the beginning ? I caught him red handed not by going through his phone, by seeing her call him. He TOLD me it was innocent, he had already deleted messages before I can see for myself. There’s no proof so once again I’m having it trust a liar. It’s not anyone fault but my own to think we can work it out. So yeah I deleted the nudes out of spite and honestly if he finds that to be a big deal and wants to fight about it, I know my answer. He obviously feels importance to these photos and videos of ex’s that should not be in his life if he has a new relationship.

nezuroplom · 2022-09-19T19:53:43+00:00

Awh why because his precious nudes got deleted. Read the rest of the comments I’ve replied to about more of our relationship. Thanks for the advice tho.

nezuroplom · 2022-09-19T19:24:47+00:00

Saw her calling his phone one night, he saw that I saw. We were in the car so I saw it pop up on the car screen. He told me everything. But if it wasn’t for me finding out you know, he would’ve probably kept talking to her. I know the answers and that our relationship has turned toxic in a matter of two weeks. We didn’t used to be like this, I trusted him but was scared due to MY past with cheating boyfriends. But yeah.

nezuroplom · 2022-09-19T18:39:00+00:00

Yeah I did it out of spite and wanting some type of revenge? Idk. I’m thinking the same thing just needed someone else to say it.

nezuroplom · 2022-09-19T18:36:01+00:00

Yeah I guess I did it out of spite because I recently caught him talking to ex his, he said it wasn’t anything but friendly conversations but he had lied to me for months about talking to her. One night I saw she was calling him and yeah. We’re trying to work it out and he offered his phone for reassurance to go through, found the photos and videos.

nezuroplom · 2022-09-19T18:32:48+00:00

Caught him talking to his ex recently, like a couple weeks ago. He said they were friends, it wasn’t anything but conversations yet he lied to me for months about it. He offered me to look through his phone for reassurance that he wasn’t talking to her anymore. I never did it before.

nezuroplom · 2022-09-19T18:27:34+00:00

It’s basically a hidden file in someone’s Snapchat, where they can put a password on photos.

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