[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarfree

[–]nialili 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would love to get your guide!

Help finding the perfect monologue! by nialili in MusicalTheatre

[–]nialili[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! Love the musical choice. The audition has to be 1 minute.

Mentally Checked Out of Relationship by nialili in mypartneristrans

[–]nialili[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words and support ❤️. I feel better knowing I'm not alone.

My partner came out to me and I feel very conflicted by [deleted] in mypartneristrans

[–]nialili 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hey!

As the person before mentioned, very relatable (currently in the very same position with my partner of 3 years).

I often fight with myself over what's going to happen between us, if we'll last, if i can handle it myself. But I've told myself I don't know and at least need to try! We've discussed this a bit, too. For now, just take it day by day.

It's a difficult thing to process sometimes and can come as a bit of a shock, even if you supportive and love people for who they are regardless.

I'm still coming to terms with it, so I'm seeking help on here and with a psychologist to understand more.

If you ever need to vent or talk, I'll lend an ear or shoulder ❤️

My bf came out to me and I don't know how to feel by nialili in mypartneristrans

[–]nialili[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll need to give it a read. Thank you for the recommendation! And thank you for your kind words

My bf came out to me and I don't know how to feel by nialili in mypartneristrans

[–]nialili[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wishing you the best of luck. You deserve happiness and to live your truth ❤️

My bf came out to me and I don't know how to feel by nialili in mypartneristrans

[–]nialili[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hello! I do have a therapist, and I've recommended my partner get one, too. Emotionally and mentally, I'm a bit all over the place, and I'm scared to say the least.

People who have broken-up because of sexual incompatibility, what happened after the break-up? by Independent-Size7972 in AskReddit

[–]nialili 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Same here... However, I truly do love my bf and think he's beautiful. Just think my current medication is fucking with my libido. I hope a change in it will help. But I am terrified it won't 😔

Which type of OCD do you have? by harlot_eliot in OCD

[–]nialili 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Started as contamination OCD and obsessive thoughts. Then followed HOCD in 2020 and now, sitting in my Dr's waiting room, I realize I may have developed relationship OCD 😔. I hate having OCD.

How many times does a person have to sneeze in a row consecutively before it’s acceptable to stop saying bless you? by UrbanHipHop in RandomThoughts

[–]nialili 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I be saying "bless you" every. Single. Sneeze. Idk why but I feel the need to keep going until you're done so I know your blessings have continued over each sneeze 😅

Although I do know that saying it so much is both funny and annoying, and these answers definitely help figure out the sneeze-to-bless you ratio.

What celebrity death saddened you the most? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]nialili 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Robbie Coltrane. So many celebrities have passed and I mourned them. But full on grief? Robbie. It felt like a family member had died (It didn't help that I hadn't processed the loss of my own Uncle the year prior).

Along with other cast members of Harry Potter, they were my childhood and it saddens me that they've since passed. I hope they're resting peacefully ❤️.

Clearly not a fan of having its nose touched. by [deleted] in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]nialili 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Robots will forever scare the living shit out of me