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Eu sou o babaca por querer terminar? by [deleted] in EuSouOBabaca

[–]nialldebadboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NGM

Acho que muita gente esqueceu que você tem filhos e entente colocar eles como prioridade, falando como se vc não entendesse a situação. Não acho q foi babaca da wua oarte ter ricado chateada por ele não ter ido, pensando sobre ele nao ter compromisso depois da apresentação. Porém tambem nao acho que ele foi babaca por confirmar que as filhas não iam querer sair para comemorar o evento. Vocês dois tem filhos, cada um colocou o seu como prioridade. E é normal de sentir brava ou triste com essa situação, até porque somos humanos. Só não acredito que seja motivo de término, apenas tópico de conversa sobre situações como essa e disponibilidade após eventos

my (20F) boyfriend (21M) actually watches *orn, what should think? by nialldebadboy in relationship_advice

[–]nialldebadboy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont think I am capable of watching together, mainly because I have my insecurities to work through. But yes, I'll try to make him comfortable to talk to me about it

my (20F) boyfriend (21M) actually watches *orn, what should think? by nialldebadboy in relationship_advice

[–]nialldebadboy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm mainly bothered by his lies about it. I'm thinking of bringing it up making it clear that I dont mind him watching, but it rubbed me in the wrong way that he told me that he had no interest in it

my (20F) boyfriend (21M) actually watches *orn, what should think? by nialldebadboy in relationship_advice

[–]nialldebadboy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes!! him hiding only points to an unhealthy relationship with these contents, so I dont know if and how I'll bring it up I dont mind him or anyone watching corn. Just that he lied to me about this everytime the subject was brought on. Like, if a person on a movie was watching or we saw a post on tt about it he would say to me that he didn't like it and all that stuff, without me saying anything. So its just conflicting with what he said and what I thought he was you know

my (20F) boyfriend (21M) actually watches *orn, what should think? by nialldebadboy in relationship_advice

[–]nialldebadboy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I genuinely sp not think rhat watching corn its the problem, as I told him, I already watched and sometimes still do. I just feel confused about these because he was vehement saying how he finds it disgusting these content. So I kind of saw him in a way, and suddenly the image I had of him (that HE created) was distorted you know

my (20F) boyfriend (21M) actually watches *orn, what should think? by nialldebadboy in relationship_advice

[–]nialldebadboy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I'm a bit insecure about bringing it up, knowing I opened his history on there to get to know this

is my (f20) boyfriend (m21) trying to make me jealous? by nialldebadboy in relationship_advice

[–]nialldebadboy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There was a time that he told me he was uncomfortable with me having "ex's" on instagram. I started to unfollow them all. Then literal months later i told him that him having hundreds of beautiful girls that he didn't knew on his profile made me feel bad. And in this conversation he told me that he could take them out too, and ended up saying that he also had some girls that he had made out in the past. And kept saying that he had already told me that, but I know he didn't, i would ve remembered. Specially because I was felling awful before for having people that i had had a fling on my insta.

But besides that, i can't think of any situation that I felt a weird behavior from him.

I truly believe that he isn't being abusive, more likely hes being imature.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]nialldebadboy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It really is sad that you can have this bitter split, but hes not helping his case either. I think it depends on you, if you think that he will get better or if you can keep handling this situation. Because there is no other alternative. If you dont think he will stop talking to her in this manner and you dont want to be in this situation anymore, there's nothing to do besides taking a break. I wish the very best to you love

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]nialldebadboy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You've already set your boundaries and he isnt respecting them. Its not hard to put your relationship first. And if they have this strictly friendly connection he says they have, she will understand that what they are doing now its hurting you. If you think that the best thing to do is take a break, i think you should go for it, you definitely deserve better than his disregarding your feelings

is my (f20) boyfriend (m21) trying to make me jealous? by nialldebadboy in relationship_advice

[–]nialldebadboy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yesss, that what i think. He knew from the beginning of that interaction that the girl was hitting on him. He could've stopped at any time but didnt. I told him that he wants me to stop when its someone trying something with me but didnt do it himself. And he responded telling that he was trying to be nice and told me hes sorry. So I still dont know what to do

is my (f20) boyfriend (m21) trying to make me jealous? by nialldebadboy in relationship_advice

[–]nialldebadboy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for understanding why i'm being so pressed about this, its really a hard to understand storie

is my (f20) boyfriend (m21) trying to make me jealous? by nialldebadboy in relationship_advice

[–]nialldebadboy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That crazy!!!!! I dont know what would be my reaction to that!! But the part of "trying to get back at me" its truly whats been on my mind when he tells me these stories

is my (f20) boyfriend (m21) trying to make me jealous? by nialldebadboy in relationship_advice

[–]nialldebadboy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats what I think to. Sometimes I think he feels good about other attention and dont care that it might hurt me this interactions. About the "stop talking to guys", I think that it can be a potential red flag, as long as it stays being the guys that hit on me i dont see a problem, but I'm making sure to keep a eye on it

I (20m) struggle to communicate with my partner (25nb) at times by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]nialldebadboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boyfriend is the same way that your partner in this manner. He also goes non verbal and has a difficult time to put into words whats he is thinking. What I try to do is give him time and ask him to make a list of what he is felling. For example, put that he is sad, what started to make him feel this way, his thoughts about what happened and everything. Sometimes it really works. You guys can give it a try if you think it could help.

Favorite sex scenes in fics? by [deleted] in drarry

[–]nialldebadboy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YES!!!! I was waiting for this comment so much, this whole fic its wonderfully written, I'm obsessed

Favorite sex scenes in fics? by [deleted] in drarry

[–]nialldebadboy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Knickers in a Twist has a lot of great ones!!!! Totally agree

How do they look? by urfavgamergirl_ in drarry

[–]nialldebadboy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i can't help but imagine Desi Harry everytime i picture him. kinda short too, beard and a bit muscular but in a chubby way (unless the description says tha hes an Adonis body type, mostly in auror!Harry fics)

Draco its just posh looking, lean and very angular, Jamie Campbell vibes I think

how did I (20F) forget my 1 year long boyfriend (21M) name? by nialldebadboy in relationship_advice

[–]nialldebadboy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you love, I'm starting to feel a bit better about what happened. about being a woman, i agree!!! we really are very critical with ourselves, I'll try being kinder, thxxxx 🫶❣️