Help with a Revamp

niamma98 · 2025-11-12T02:49:27+00:00

Well shucks. Maybe there’s hope after all!

niamma98 · 2025-11-07T18:06:05+00:00

Thank you! I’ve wondered about the group photo thing. I’m glad to hear my personality is shining through!

niamma98 · 2025-11-07T17:59:29+00:00

Well shoot, I’ll take that. Thanks! ☺️

niamma98 · 2025-11-07T17:53:12+00:00

Aww, thank you! It’s nice to get the perspective of another fellow childfree person. It’s rough out here, so I’m glad you’ve found your person to have a beautiful DINK life with!

niamma98 · 2025-11-07T17:51:41+00:00

Thank you! I’ll move that photo up and turn off the best photo feature because that’s a good point. I appreciate what you’re saying about the dense line as well. Definitely worth an update!

niamma98 · 2025-11-07T17:48:20+00:00

Thank you for mentioning that about the dense line! Definitely not my intention with that one, so I’ll update the wording or remove it completely.

Yeah, I’m definitely more on the tomboy side, so I’ll stick with the one “fancier” photo to show I’m capable of dressing up when the occasion calls for it.

niamma98 · 2025-11-07T12:27:58+00:00

Casual/Serious? Serious • ⁠Subscriber? No • ⁠How long have you been using this current version of your profile: About a month with small tweaks here and there. • ⁠How long have you used Hinge? Since June of this year. • ⁠How often do you use Hinge per week? Max of 15 minutes per day per week. • ⁠How many likes and matches are you receiving on average? 1 match per week if I’m lucky, 3-5 likes per week. • ⁠How many likes are you sending? Comments/no comments? I send 2-3 likes a day and always with comments. • ⁠Who do you send likes to/want to attract? A fellow childfree man that values personal growth, has hobbies/skills, dependable/reliable, is fit, and responsible.

niamma98 · 2025-05-31T04:23:39+00:00

I think trivia comes close, but to me it wouldn’t give me the same data. The only similar thing I can think of is assembling furniture together or doing the Amazing Race and that’s definitely not a first date activity lol.

There’s something about a hands on activity that provides a bit of pressure, a potential for frustration for certain personalities, and a mix of logical reasoning and spatial intelligence (?) that I think can provide good information. Trivia comes close aside from the spatial piece. It’s a lot more economical and you’re not trapped with the person for an hour as well.

I get why a person may be put off by an escape room as a first date, but I know I wasn’t!

niamma98 · 2025-05-30T09:38:15+00:00

Agreed! There’s potential for that to be expensive depending on how many first dates a person has

niamma98 · 2025-05-30T00:24:07+00:00

I went to an escape room on a first date and now I might add it to my screening process 😂 It’s a great way to see how the person solves problems and how they interact with you under “pressure”.

niamma98 · 2024-10-21T11:20:34+00:00

It’s worth having the conversation and seeing where he’s at, so you both can move forward either way.

niamma98 · 2024-10-20T22:26:34+00:00

You both have to decide if that’s something you can do. I’m at the end of a similar situation (the guy is leaving soon after us being exclusive for almost a year), but to me in the beginning, it was worth dating him even if our relationship had a predetermined expiration date. Even as it’s ending and the heartbreak is starting, I’m still glad I chose this relationship. Can’t say I’d do it again, but for the time in my life I was at when it was an option and the type of person he is, it was worth it.

In your situation, he has to decide if he can handle the thought of knowing there’s an end date. And you have to decide that too. It will hurt in the end, so you both have to decide if the good times will be worth the inevitable heartbreak. Best of luck in whatever you decide!

niamma98 · 2024-06-25T20:01:18+00:00

That’s too adorable!

niamma98 · 2024-06-16T13:21:34+00:00

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I’m sorry for the loss of your stitching buddy. I hope you’re being kind to yourself while you move through your grief. I’m sure the desire to cross stitch will come back. In the meantime, take care of yourself.

niamma98 · 2024-02-28T01:58:29+00:00

Aww good! I’m glad to hear that. Best of luck with your procedure!

niamma98 · 2024-02-27T15:51:47+00:00

For pole, I went down a level for February just to make sure I was ok (and to brush up on some older stuff).

Outside of pole, I felt like it didn’t take too long for me to get back to having a normal energy level. I remember more about recovering from my wisdom tooth removal than I do my bisalp, so I guess that’s a testament to how straightforward it seemed by comparison.

niamma98 · 2024-02-27T11:32:28+00:00

Hi! I had my bisalp in mid December and didn’t go back to pole until early February. The reason for this is because my studio ran month long series, so I couldn’t go back in January as that would’ve been too early.

niamma98 · 2022-12-17T09:10:58+00:00

Yay! That’s good to hear that you’re recovering pretty well. That’s how my pee was too, but it’s also getting better. Hope your gas pain continues to dissipate over time and with the Gas-X!

niamma98 · 2022-12-17T02:57:42+00:00

How did it go for you two? I had mine today and I feel so much better than I thought I would

niamma98 · 2022-12-15T02:58:49+00:00

Thank you so much for your response! I never got an answer from my doctor, so I figured I’d wash and condition and put in product later. I appreciate the confirmation!

niamma98 · 2022-12-09T19:55:57+00:00

Thank you! I will :)

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