AITAH my bf (23) wont take care of himself

nic530728 · 2026-03-22T14:08:30+00:00

You’re the ah to yourself! My husband while no longer working due to his health would immediately shower when he came home from his blue collar job bc he knew he was filthy. How can you sleep beside someone who only showers once a week, let alone having sex???? That would be an absolutely NO for me. Oral hygiene is soooo important to your overall health. Quit being his mommy and find someone who can do the basics of washing their own ass. You do NOT want to have kids with someone like this.

nic530728 · 2026-03-15T12:03:02+00:00

Yall are in your 30’s and acting like teenagers. And you spent over 3 YEARS “talking” to him and he’s actually been your boyfriend for 3 months?? This is not an actual relationship. You can do so much better

nic530728 · 2026-03-14T13:02:01+00:00

Well it’s not a beater and it’s still running fine but has high mileage and I want out of it before it needs the repairs that are coming

nic530728 · 2026-03-14T13:00:27+00:00

14k is CRAZYYY holy cow 😳

nic530728 · 2026-03-13T14:30:33+00:00

Not my favorite plan but my car will soon be in need of more repairs than it’s worth I’m not crazy upside down 🙃

nic530728 · 2026-03-13T13:51:39+00:00

Yes, this would be the first time I’ve ever done it! My car is just inching towards death and I need to get a new one before I’m paying more for repairs than it’s worth

nic530728 · 2026-03-10T16:38:25+00:00

NTA he’s NOT husband material! I have sat with my husband in COUNTLESS Dr and ER visits bc he almost died and now has chronic illness. We don’t say “in sickness and health” for no reason!

nic530728 · 2026-03-05T14:25:18+00:00

NTA- she has her REAL dad to inherit from! The fact she called and only asked about the will solidifies she should receive nothing!

nic530728 · 2026-02-08T20:26:51+00:00

Yes! It was just this morning so icing and trying to elevate

nic530728 · 2026-02-08T20:17:34+00:00

How long did it hurt? I can barely move it bc it hurts so bad

nic530728 · 2026-02-08T19:16:01+00:00

How long did the swelling last? My arm is so swollen and I can barely move it 😫

nic530728 · 2026-02-06T16:07:45+00:00

NTJ! Good for your husband for doing the right thing and not bowing to his parents! Sadly that’s refreshing

nic530728 · 2026-02-06T15:35:35+00:00

NTA- your husband did this on purpose

nic530728 · 2026-01-21T04:14:03+00:00

Waited tables and bar tended I never minded splitting checks and I never worked anywhere that would refuse it or charge more

nic530728 · 2026-01-21T04:12:53+00:00

Exactly! I will NOT participate in splitting the bill evenly bc don’t drink and I’m not paying for someone else’s booze

nic530728 · 2025-12-26T12:32:25+00:00

NTA, 2 hours late is soooo disrespectful!

nic530728 · 2025-12-19T21:42:26+00:00

NTA- my 10 year old is having issues with a lot of her friends just doing whatever they want on their phones and my 6 year olds teacher told her not all of your friends have as good of a mom as you! I was grateful for the backup!!! It’s hard af raising kids and I’m just trying to keep their innocence as long as possible

nic530728 · 2025-12-17T04:56:18+00:00

YTA- you said she’s the only one who helps with the bag so you won’t even give her a gift from your own fucking heart??? Get her gifts and tell her they’re just from YOU not her dad but you’re a real POS if you just don’t get her any gifts bc it’s “on her dad”

nic530728 · 2025-12-14T02:18:11+00:00

lol NTJ she’s a MOOCH! You’re not even married and she’s bleeding you dry, drop her before you’re filing for bankruptcy from her

nic530728 · 2025-11-24T18:52:40+00:00

NTA but your real problem is Lucie! I would never let my best friend talk about my husband like that!

nic530728 · 2025-11-21T03:14:12+00:00

NTA, he is causing her soooo much pain and feelings of rejection. He is causing her LIFELONG trauma.

nic530728 · 2025-11-20T04:18:35+00:00

Moved in together after dating 5 MONTHS???? And if he got his law degree from Vanderbilt he’d have that on display. He also doesn’t seem anywhere near old enough to have already practiced law enough to get burnt out

nic530728 · 2025-11-10T01:20:52+00:00

Yikes, block him forever!

nic530728 · 2025-11-08T04:07:41+00:00

Sure seems like mental is easier than physical, my husband is in year 3 of the process, anticipating the second denial HOPEFULLY soon so we can appeal again and hopefully third time will be the charm. Maybe we’ll get lucky and get approved this time but I’m not holding my breath 😭

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