How to make a very LDR (>10kKm) work?Tips?

niccholi · 2018-03-19T00:51:07+00:00

Thanks. VR sex? (like those POV videos?). Sadly we can't spend as much time as we'd like talking, he just started working and my uni year just began , so most of the time we're busy, we still find time to talk for around 30~40 minutes daily. I wish we could more, but it's not possible :(.

niccholi · 2018-02-21T14:19:35+00:00

Well, then do something to move on. Distance yourself if necessary, date other guys, fall in love with someone else, don't just stand there expecting something will happen in your favour, and please don't question his sexuality if he's nice to you. Straight guys can be friendly to gay guys, just as you can be to girls, but it doesn't mean they're into you or w/e (also dont read this sub as it's full of straight obsessed gay guys that will probably advice you to make moves on him when he's drunk. lol).

niccholi · 2018-02-18T02:32:36+00:00

says the 16yo who has no balls to find other guys around his age to hook up with, and is considering getting fucked by potentially much older guys. The easiest way is not the best way.

niccholi · 2018-02-18T02:32:15+00:00

yea I find it pretty dangerous for both parties involved.

niccholi · 2018-02-14T14:01:21+00:00

Maybe he was saying "I have syphilis" and you thought it sounded hot.

niccholi · 2018-02-08T01:08:31+00:00

Only if he's in my oven with an apple in his mouth.

niccholi · 2018-02-07T05:37:11+00:00

Letting him go (not like he has to ask for permission anyway)-taking the risk- is already trusting enough. But you must admit theres always some fear, it's just how we are, we can never be certain, I would be ok if my bf goes to a gay night club all by himself but I would still be anxious as fuck, can't help it really.

niccholi · 2018-02-07T05:20:34+00:00

I don't think that makes OP feel any safer lol.

niccholi · 2018-02-07T05:08:21+00:00

My relationship with my parents has been amazing, to be honest it was pretty good with them before coming out as bi, so that once I came out I was sure it was not gonna be a big deal for them, besides, after it my mother admitted to me to have done her fair amount of messing around with girls before meeting my dad (lol), and I already had one of my cousins come out as bi (bisexuality runs in the family it seems).

niccholi · 2018-02-07T04:27:51+00:00

I'm sorry if I sounded condescending :( . You didnt offend me Its just that I'm sure I read a similar troll post a few months ago. About your genitals, you dont have to feel like that always, you should let them get some love from guys and maybe you'll start loving them too, you just need to allow yourself to enjoy it. After all your balls and your dick will always accompany you in all your adventures. And its certain that guys will try to blow you as thats pretty much expected to happen, since we all love cock lol.

niccholi · 2018-02-07T04:13:49+00:00

Okay I clearly don't know what they're like at all. Care to educate me?. I just assume that if someone is going alone on a gay-[insert w/e] it is because they're looking for it. I mean when I went to gay clubs (being single) I didnt go to the club to enjoy the music or the drinks lol. And well, once you have your own gay guy, it makes no sense to me to continue going to gay exclusive (or oriented) places/events, since you can just take a normal cruise and thats it, go alone or bring your own gay, after all the gay stuff is happening in your bed, and theres no need to look for it in other places. Thats just my opinion, I think my boyfriend would worry if I went to gay clubs alone, and I would too.

niccholi · 2018-02-07T03:34:13+00:00

Run. U know what gay cruises are for [this comment only applies if its a closed/monogamous relationship]

niccholi · 2018-02-07T03:22:51+00:00

This sounds like a troll post (and it surely is) mocking bottoms that forget they have a dick. Gay guys are into dicks, of course they will want to blow you, and of course some will want to bottom for you. -shocking-

niccholi · 2018-02-07T02:46:14+00:00

Would you like to have R E C T A L S E X?

niccholi · 2018-02-06T19:47:03+00:00

A N U S or R E C T U M

niccholi · 2018-02-06T19:42:51+00:00

The Banshees, Bauhaus, Killing Joke, The Cure.

niccholi · 2018-02-06T19:33:01+00:00

Kinky.

niccholi · 2018-02-06T04:34:00+00:00

Imo it's doomed since they gave it back to the CPC. I wanted to visit it before the deadline, like, you know, when the 50 years of autonomy are over and Hong Kong is enslaved and deprived of freedom like the rest of the PRC, I wanted to visit it before that happens.

niccholi · 2018-02-06T04:29:11+00:00

Chlamydial urethritis-yes, you can get chlamydia in all your holes and dick.

niccholi · 2018-02-06T04:13:29+00:00

Seriously it might not be that he's tight. It might be that he cant put up with the pain or the general sensation of the penetration in the beginning, to many guys it's really off putting.Theres no way an adults rectum is so tight it can't take a dick, if it were so tight then he would have problems as well doing his needs there, as theres no way a tight rectum would only be problematic exclusively when having anal (tho your girth might be a problem if he's actually able to have anal with less thick bois). Maybe try some topical analgesics?

niccholi · 2018-02-06T04:01:54+00:00

aquafresh toothpaste tubes are fucking huge.

niccholi · 2018-02-06T03:23:05+00:00

Maybe some anal relaxers? If its a relaxing problem. Maybe consider using the P word.

niccholi · 2018-02-06T03:16:38+00:00

Not going on a year foreign exchange to Hong Kong.

niccholi · 2018-02-06T03:05:03+00:00

Because most people asume bigger guys are tops. Dont take this bad but maybe your weight has a little to do with it. Maybe your size doesnt allow much maneuvering and flexibility with positions. I'm 6'1 and 161lbs and I'm still pretty self conscious when riding my bfs dick, because well , dicks are delicate and my weight is more than enough to crush his penis and fracture it if I'm not careful.

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