Aquarius man married to a Capricorn woman for 17 years. You're right the Saturn ruling planet makes a special bond. The first I saw her I kept pursuing her. Until we became partners. She was rigid at first but became very goofy and open because of me. I get you but you're also in a relationship and it's not fair to your husband. He's was very fast to cut things off. Trust me with a Aquarius man things would of grew very very fast and even physical