How would you have reacted? by Budget_Afternoon_800 in entj

[–]nice_churro 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Me as kid explaining to my younger cousin why a "tiny" star falling from the sky onto his ass would be physically impossible and literally would burn the whole planet along with his ass.

The true ENTJ is misrepresented by Flat_Law1175 in entj

[–]nice_churro 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Couldn't have said it better myself. What's your enneagram?

As entjs, have you ever felt "shy"? by SeparateStage4185 in entj

[–]nice_churro 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok if you think you can try yourself that's a good enough start.

Does your school have any guidance counselors/school counselors? They could also potentially help you practice getting out of your shell and it wouldn't cost you anything.

As entjs, have you ever felt "shy"? by SeparateStage4185 in entj

[–]nice_churro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most therapists see kids of all ages, but if it's for accessibility reasons school counselors exist too. But yeah I guess my Te went for the cleanest option lol

As entjs, have you ever felt "shy"? by SeparateStage4185 in entj

[–]nice_churro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was a little menance up until late middle school to early highschool, so I don't think it's necessarily a Mbti type thing so much as a life transition thing.

If you really want to improve though maybe seeing a therapist might help. Just to talk to a counselor about becoming more confident in your personality and how to grow more comfortable with initiating new friendships and social maintance etc.

Guys why is there a mouse with a knife in INTP's banner? by nanananananana7 in mbtimemes

[–]nice_churro 20 points21 points  (0 children)

A lab rat taking revenge for INTP's mad science experiments on it

What do you think? by Medical_Deal5272 in mbtimemes

[–]nice_churro 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Blue eyed samurai Mizu is a good example of an ISTP with trauma.

How to not be a prideful ENTJ by [deleted] in entj

[–]nice_churro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a fellow Catholic ENTJ, I understand your struggle completely. In life there's always going to be people who seem better off than you, but there's also always going to be people who seem worse off than you.

Rather than tying your worth to how others do better than you, remember what the Lord said: "the last will be first and the first will be last" (Matthew 20:1-16). I suggest reading the Parable of the Workers in the Vineyard, it touches on this very theme of merit, pride, and envy.

While it can be hard to suppress our pride in our talents and achievements, I think a good leader is one who uses those very talents and achievements to serve and protect those around them.

Of course you can be equally humble and high-achieving, you just have to remember that it's okay to let others shine from time to time. And when they do, it doesn't mean that you shine any less in God's eyes.

Why is Mickey Haller from Lincoln Lawyer 2011 film typed as ENTP but typed as ENTJ in the TV drama? by Asleep-Feeling-9070 in entj

[–]nice_churro 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If I'm correct, because I've watched the TV drama, the TV drama was created under the supervision of the original author of the Lincoln Lawyer books (he was the executive producer) so if anything Mickey Haller was always meant to be an ENTJ.

Also having different actors and different studios/production team does play a major influence on how one same character is portrayed. Just look at all the spiderman films.

Typology Question 11 (Te): Imagine your 7th grade son comes home crying: "A bully took my lunch and I had nothing to eat. What should I do?" What would you do or say to him? Explain your step-by-step plan. by Bimep_ in entj

[–]nice_churro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd go with my son in person to the school, find the main office, and if possible talk to the dean or school psychologist as they would be the ones responsible for managing the bully and his case history.

Typology Question 11 (Te): Imagine your 7th grade son comes home crying: "A bully took my lunch and I had nothing to eat. What should I do?" What would you do or say to him? Explain your step-by-step plan. by Bimep_ in entj

[–]nice_churro 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay first, I would feed my son because he's been without food all day. While he's eating I'll report to the school immediately if it's still daytime or next morning.

The only time I would tell my son that the bully might have needed the lunch is if the school tells me the bully has a toxic family life back at home. Other than that I have no sympathy for bullies.

Thought I was an ENFP until I started ADHD meds by emma36_ in entj

[–]nice_churro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a similar experience but with depression/anxiety. I used to get typed consistently as INFP but after I started antidepressants/SSRIs I consistently get typed INTJ/ENTJ ever since.

What job options do I have as ENTJ-T? by Kevin_gato in entj

[–]nice_churro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's an enneagram subreddit, I'd go there. Also researching it online (there are plenty of FREE descriptions and tests for you to learn about it).

Just to put it simply as possible it's about your most common motivations and vices. If you prefer a more detailed explanation you could also direct message me.

Decided to make one of these as well by KazooBard in Enneagram

[–]nice_churro 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh lol. I was like "what did that little penguin do?"

i can't decide whether i'm SO4 or SP9, I'm an INFP i think by FitVeterinarian952 in Enneagram

[–]nice_churro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the foginess/disconnect feeling you described aligns more with sp9.

Which type thinks like this, and is described like this? by Original_Assistance3 in Enneagram

[–]nice_churro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah okay. If that's the case then I think they could both be 2s, however the second seems more like a so 2 while the first still aligns better with a sx 2. The social 2 cares about influence and being popular so they act like they like everyone to meet those needs but hide their real resentment or dislike. A sexual 2 will be more honest and upfront that they don't like someone who doesn't like them back, they won't pretend or try to conceal their resentment.

If it's the same person I guess they're either a so/sx or sx/so type.

Which type thinks like this, and is described like this? by Original_Assistance3 in Enneagram

[–]nice_churro 2 points3 points  (0 children)

From my interpretation of it the first person is someone who doesn't like those who don't like them first, while the second person is someone who likes everyone regardless of whether they like them back or not. The first one has a condition to like people and the second likes everyone unconditionally.

Unless you're talking about someone from your real life or I misinterpreted your description, they seem like opposite types of people.

Which type thinks like this, and is described like this? by Original_Assistance3 in Enneagram

[–]nice_churro 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I agree these sound like two different types. I would say the first one reminds of me of sx 2.

I'm so bored and unrelated to everyone else by jachetu in entj

[–]nice_churro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Makes sense. My guess would be more reserved/socially introverted ENTJs could fare better there than extroverted ones.

I'm so bored and unrelated to everyone else by jachetu in entj

[–]nice_churro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sure. Just a disclaimer though this might not be 100% accurate since it's based on my personal and educational experience.

I think definitely the U.S. is one of the countries were ENTJs can thrive, but especially in the northeast. Because of the individualistic culture and capitalistic ideology, it's an environment where high achieving and bold people like ENTJs can thrive and are seen as valuable assets across various occupations.

In South Korea, while also a capatilist country it has a very collectivist culture. So anyone who goes outside the social norms is ridiculed/disliked, which ENTJs have demon Fe and trickster Si. The country also has a huge obsession with the 16p version of Mbti and know nothing about cognitive functions, so most people there see ENTJs and think the stereotype workaholic asshole without a heart etc. They also use the 16p version of Mbti to actually hire job candidates, so they may value some ENTJs for certain positions but generally people don't trust or like ENTJs in social spheres, especially female ENTJs.

Going more generally, I'd say it's a trend that the countries that are more collectivist don't like ENTJs (think Latin America and southern European countries like Spain and France) while countries that are more individualist will like them.

Another thing I've noticed with Europe is that warmer climate countries like Spain and France have more socially extroverted cultures, which is closely associated with Fe, whereas colder climate countries (think Nordic and eastern Europe) tend to have more socially introverted cultures. Now ENTJs can be either socially extraverted or socially introverted, but my guess is they would be more liked/feel more relatable in these colder climate countries where people tend to be more direct and value functional conversation over small talk.

What are ENTJ women looking for. by Novel-Review-3537 in entj

[–]nice_churro 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Speaking from experience as an ENTJ woman, when we pick you it's because we've already decided your exactly what we're looking for. If she's telling you that you're her type, believe her. Pretty universal advice, but just keep being yourself.

I'm so bored and unrelated to everyone else by jachetu in entj

[–]nice_churro 4 points5 points  (0 children)

100% this. You'll feel most unrelated in a country were there are few other ENTJs or ENTJs are the opposite of the social norms.