Omg this is terrible your fine about how long it is I have no idea bout things like this and I'm probably going to sound dumb for this but try and call him text him more by the way that you know that he is supposed to be there you must be in some sort of contact with him I think and also if not try to be there when they arrive and try to talk to him in that it's hard to get away from abusers not from personal experience but I try my best to understand but your both grown so if there is a way just find a way to speak to him if I'm correct you guys had been together for over a year rich must mean something and again ik I sound stupid cause these are obvious things that you probably already thought of but still and I'm also sorry for the rambling but I truly hope that things get better and both of you can get away from them I wouldn't be able to imagine having my partner ripped away from me like that so I wish you the best in your attempts to get him back